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fat girl + muscular guy???
... could that ever happen????? i mean, i know i'm fat, im 230 pounds. i've come to terms with it but... is it possible for a hot guy to like a chuby girl? i think i have a good personality. i have a great sense of humor, im girly, and i have brown cruly hair, and my friends all coo at me because i'm "cute' sometimes... i mean, is it possible? the guy i like is muscular and hot. i don't expect anything, but i'm just wondering if in general such a thing is plausible... i've never been dated, or even kissed before, sois it because im fat? thanks. ~^3^~
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Of course it is. Eventhough he may be good looking he may value other things in a potential date. Just because some of us guys are shallow, dosent mean we all are. He may be a deep guy, who sees beauty in places where it actually is and not in places where people tell him it is.
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All women should know that they are attractive.
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I think I can definitely relate to how you're feeling. Growing up, I was always 30 lbs heaver (at least) than the rest of the girls at school. I was never in a relationship throughout grade school and I knew it was because I was overweight. The world is filled with a lot of shallow people and so are you to a certain extent. What type of boys do you like? "Muscular and hot." - you said it yourself. So to expect any boy to be with you just for your personality alone isn't fair because you have standards yourself, right?
What I can tell you though, is as you get MUCH older you will be with someone who doesn't care what you look like. He will love you for you. That's the honest truth coming from someone who grew up afraid of being alone forever based on her weight alone.
Come to think of it, I also asked a question similar to this one on Advicenators when I was your age!
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There are guys who are particularly into larger girls, both slim and muscular guys and chubby guys. However, most of them aren't able to admit that, or act on in, when they are younger. Guys get a lot of pressure to date the 'right kind of girl' and a lot of bullshit if they don't.
Most guys can't get past that in high school or university.
So yes, it's very possible in the world, but very unlikely that guys who particularity prefer larger girls, will act on that while they are still in school and feeling those peer and social pressures.
Is the fact you've never dated or been kissed have to do with your weight? If you are under 30, almost definitely it has to do with your weight and how people see you (and how you see yourself) due to your weight.
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To be honest there isn't a lot of guys out there that like big girls; there are some but not very much. I know pretty much all models these days are tall and extremely skinny but not all guys like that ( a lot do but not all). So it just depends on what the guy likes. Just because he's muscluar doesn't mean that he's more attracted to girls that are in shape though. Like me; I do a lot of weight lifting and you can say I'm pretty muscular but I've always been more attracted to thick women, very well developed women. That isn't to say Im not attracted to ones that are a little bigger or a little smaller, but some of the models these days don't do it for me (way too small).
So maybe you should look back on his past relationships to see what kind of girls he's dated before. If he's like the many that like them really small then dont feel bad, like I said we all have our preferences.
I do see a Problem in Your question, you can say im not exactly convinsed that your happy about the way you look. You say that your friends think your cute and that you like your personality but i didn't read that your confident in your looks or you yourself think your attractive. I could be wrong, but if your not happy with them then go ahead and get the body that you want, it might take a while but I can say from experience that it's worth it. I wasn't happy with how i looked and how strong I was so I started working out; 2 years later and I'm still working out 6 times a week :). Im not saying its easy but it sure beats not being happy about the way you look.
Gl and I hope your his type
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I married a large girl because she loved me. If you are truly comfortable with your size, it should show in how you carry yourself. What I mean is, like the song says "Im sexy and I know it", if you KNOW you are cool with your weight, others will see the confidence and some, not all, but some will see you as sexy and be attracted to your personality first.
PLUS: Lots of guys like a woman with more meat on her! I was having sex once with a super thin, model like girl once and there was nothing to her, i thought i was gonna break her! It was bad sex... But a few nights later, with a bigger gal, the sex was amazing because she had some heft to her and seemed sturdier to me.
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