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Last Update: December 5, 2017
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How do I get a guy to like me enough to ask me out? (link)
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Why don't you just ask him out? Why are you waiting for some guy to confirm whether or not you're good enough? You are who you are, you be yourself, you ask him out and if he says no then you go OKAY NO WORRIES, ON TO THE NEXT ONE.
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You answered my question about making a job change recently. After initially accepting the offer, I recanted and turned it down. Later that day the HR Manager left me a voicemail stating management really liked me and wanted to sweeten the offer. I called this morning. Instead of making an offer, she asked me what it would take to get me to come. I gave her a number that was 6% more than what Iwas offered, but still well within the stated salary range. She later sent an email saying she gave the proposal to management and that they were going to pursue other candidates. They didn't even make a counter offer, and said they really didn't think I wanted the job. I thought it was bizarre. (link)
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I can't find your question in my column and I am ashamed to say that I cannot remember at all what it was - but I really do apologise if I led you in the wrong direction. Hopefully you will still come to me for advice, you can privately email (rhiannon@the-neales.com) for a more indepth chat if you like.
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i have this boyfriend we have been going together for about 2 years and we have a brought up sex a lot. i told him that i wanted to wait and he totally fine with that but when we talk about he says that he doesn't want to wait and i sometimes say the same thing what should i do (link)
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I'm not sure how old you are but honestly that doesn't affect my answer here. It seems clear to me that you are not sure whether or not you're ready to have sex. Sex can be scary, the 'first time experience' has so many rumours about being painful and scary. Personally, I didn't think the pain was too hard to take but please, if you do have sex ensure that you are protected, sober, in the correct place to do it and you're comfortable. It's good that your boyfriend doesn't seem to have pressured you in anyway, but I think maybe you would like to know what sex feels like and you feel your relationship is at the stage where it is appropriate for it; and honestly sex in a relationship is important, but you need to make sure you are prepared and comfortable. Maybe you should talk to your boyfriend, organise something and just have sex. If you're uncomfortable then stop, or don't have sex, but at least you were going to. Once you've had sex, it's fine and you will be ready to do it again, but make sure your boyfriend is not somebody you will regret sleeping with.
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I am a 20 year old female. As the title sums it up, I really can't stop lying. I make up stories about almost anything and about the silliest things. sometimes I don't realize that I'm lying but now that I do I see how much it is affecting important aspects of my life. My relationship with my boyfriend is being jeopardized by this, and recently my lies have been catching up to me. I don't want to be this person, any advice on how to stop? (link)
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Believe it or not, people lie all the time. Sometimes, subconsciously, you are so concerned that you are not interesting enough, you make things up. I am more than happy to admit that I do actually occasionally lie about random things, twist my stories to make them sound better but recently I have realised there is no need. People can tell when you're making things up and I know this is harsh but people won't want to talk to you if they know what you're saying is not true - I would say that it's difficult to stop lying but truly thinking about what you're going to say before you say it is important. You must realise that lying doesn't improve you, it makes you untrustworthy. Please contact me at rhiannon@the-neales.com if you have any more problems you'd like to discuss! Or feel free to message me on facebook ; https://www.facebook.com/RhiannonNeale.
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Hello! My boyfriend and I were watching a movie when some heavy petting occurred. Eventually he started fingering me but stopped because it was too painful for me. Instead he massaged my clitoris. During that time period I was giving him a hand job, I got a bit of pre-cum on my fingertips. Now after that I can't remember which hand I used, it was either the one with the pre-cum or the one without -its been killing both him and I to remember- but anyways, I used the hand to adjust his hand that was playing with my clit. My finger accidentally slipped and I touched my clitoris area (surrounding area) with the fingers that may have been covered in pre-cum. Yes, I was wet. But is it possible that I may become pregnant? (link)
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most likely no because although pre-cum is like, quite strong, you would have only had a bit and you probably didn't touch your actual vagina hole//
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I got my report card today, I got 1 F, 2 As, And 2 Bs. My mom is freaking out on me, and I've never gotten a bad grade before, I'm an A-B student. But Algebra 2 made no sense to me. I struggled with it and my mom is talking about grounding me the whole summer and all this stuff. I don't know what to do I feel like I've failed at life and that I'm such a moron. (link)
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My Mum would totally go crazy over an F as well, and people always say 'just stand up for yourself' and 'it can not be that bad' but it really is. Your parents do not listen, they don't care about the fact that you got 2 A grades and 2 B grades, they care about the fact that you got an F. I don't know how your mum is as a person, and how she would react, but even if it means screaming it, some how get the message across that Algebra 2 doesn't make sense to you. Maybe, you could ask her to resit your exams? If you can do that, where you're from ( I am assuming Canada or America due to the fact you said 'mom' ? My mum likes to be right. Tell her, she is right to be angry even though she is completely wrong, and maybe ask her if she can help you? She might calm down, but what you've got to do is realise that there is always the option of sneaking out etc. because although, it should not be encouraged, rebelling is the only way to get through. I totally know what you're feeling right now based on my own experiences. I got a D in Maths and I was banned from 3 concerts I had been saving up for, I had my phone, computer and ipod taken away for 3 months and stuff like that but I rebelled, snuk out, arranged things at school and when my mum left the house for a few minutes or was on the phone. It is seriously horrible having strict parents and nobody understands, but my advice is to rebel so she realises how stupid she is being. You aren't a moron, it's one exam and you probably don't need algebra
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we have become close friends and even few times came very close to kissing, but nothing ever happened.
what am i to do? (link)
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Is your only concern here that he is younger than you? Usually people get extremely embarrassed because of age, this is silly! Age is but a number, and yes he is three years younger but it is perfectly normal you have fallen for him. All you need to think about it implications on your friendship, whether or not HE would approve, and if you really do think it could go somewhere! Be careful if you are having a sexual relationship as it could be illegal...
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hi im 23 years old and i been thinking about killing myself.I been in alot of pain i just want it to end and i think that death is the only way out.Sumtimes i try to talk to my friends but they just tell me im dumb.wtf do they care or what i just dnt knw what to do life is so fucked up.i go in and out of jail and prison all the time.if you was me what will you do plz help me out (link)
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No, please don't. I'm a fifteen year old girl, and I have tried suicide twice. I regret it so much, and now I am so satisfied with my life. I think we need to talk and sort your issue out so please email me at rhiannon@the-neales.com
I really would like to disucss this with you as I am very concered. Please don't hurt yourself in anyway.
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How do i cut my wrists so that i can kil myself? (link)
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This is not a question... I want you to think about this now. Dying is not the answer when there are so many ways of dealing with this. I can see that you're very upset. So give me an email at rhiannon@the-neales.com
please do not commit suicide, or cut yourself. It is very dangerous and I'm concerned for your health. Please email me when you see this and we can discuss the matter further.
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I recently got a tattoo done, without telling my boyfriend or asking him for permission. We've been dating for a year but he never had a problem with me getting a tattoo he never said I can't get it but now he doesn't want to be with me anymore because he says I lied to him and I let another man touch me, its really stupid what he's doing because I have apologised many times but he doesn't want to forgive me. I'm trying to make things right I even said I'll remove the tattoo but he's being so stubborn. What do I do? I really love him a lot and I want him in my life because he means a lot to me. How do I get him to forgive me? I don't want to lose him. (link)
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You and your boyfriend need to have a serious talk, I don't know how old you are but you seem like you are in a proper relationship, and if so you and your boyfriend should realise that you are perfectly allowed to make your own descions. If you want to get a tattoo, then get one! It's more of your parents choice, not your boyfriends. Also, a tattoo man would be perfectly professional, nothing sexual would have happened, and if your boyfriend is jealous of somebody in that sense and now he's getting angry because you 'lied' then I don't really think he is worth your time. Have a talk about how you're independant and he can not control your life in that sense.
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