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I can't move on.


Question Posted Sunday March 11 2012, 3:45 am

Hi. So about a year ago during my senior year I started dating this guy. And we broke up because I lied to him. We still talk occasionally but its always me making the effort, he never ever texts me first, I am so in love with him even after a year of trying. I know its been awhile and I feel like my effort isn't appreciated. I know I should move on but I can't. Is there any advice? Should I tell him how I feel still, should I stop talking to him? Any advice also on how to move on from someone your this in love with? Thanks!

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claxthestrong answered Tuesday March 20 2012, 4:46 am:
When you lied to him you hurt him, that is true, but his hurt can be fixed, if you still love him it is worth it.

He needs a gesture to show that you truly love him, I know it is hard to humble yourself but perhaps it can mend the hurt that he feels, it must be direct and honest. You may cry, but love is worth a hit to your pride.

As a guy, I know that we have just as much emotion as ladies we just spent our youth learning to supress emotion. Eventhough our bodies apear to be made of steel and our faces stone but our hearts are as tender as yours.

He will respect a direct and honest apology. And even though he may seem cold forgiveness is possable

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Stephy23 answered Wednesday March 14 2012, 2:03 am:
You should tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't feel the same way then move on. Yes it is really hard but you have to try, and once you start talking too another guy you will forget about him and he will be jealous and run back too you.

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KateLovesYou99 answered Sunday March 11 2012, 9:36 pm:
I think you should tell him you are sorry for lying. But it depends what it's about. I would try to move on. Sorry that's bad advice:

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coolkiddie answered Sunday March 11 2012, 9:00 pm:
hi. i think you should tell him how you feel and say you'll never lie again. tell him how much you have been trying and how much you miss him. after that if he still doesn't want to get back together then i think you should just move on cause he doesn't know what he's missing out on. hope it helps!!!!!

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kungajinpa answered Sunday March 11 2012, 3:32 pm:
i think you shouldn't better care on this now he won't be able to love you because it has been like a year but you can try to ask him but don't directly tell him how you still feel about him and if he has also the same feeling like you do then you can think on this or else NO

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