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E-mail: tenzin_35@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Member Since: March 10, 2012
Answers: 37
Last Update: March 15, 2012
Visitors: 2396
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Hey, I'm 20, my boyfriend is 19. We've been dating for a year. When I first met him I knew he was no good. I knew he was doing a lot of drugs but he told me that was his "past" and that he was ready to stop and move on. Our relationship was OK, I hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years since my last boyfriend had been emotionally & physically abusive. My current boyfriend had a friend named Maria. I never liked her. She was always about the drugs, sex, and raves. I knew they were best friends but she was always trying to convince him to do drugs and I really needed him to stop. So I told him to choose. Either he picked a future with me or drugs with her. He said he picked me. Throughout the 2011 year I learned he was occasionally still doing drugs and talking to her. I flipped out & we'd break up. But only for a few days. The 2012 year had been going amazing for us though. He seemed as though he had changed and he was treating me so kindly. Then Maria contacts me and tells me she had sex with my boyfriend in 2011, we had broken up for 3 days, and he had sex with her. This tore my world up. I knew something was up and every time I asked him he would deny it. A few days ago he finally admitted to it. He told me he had been on drugs and wasn't thinking straight and he was "heartbroken" so he went looking for her and it happened. Then he said after wards he was so disgusted with himself that he didn't want to see her ever again. But he did. Like 3 more times. These 3 months have been great. But last year tore me apart. So now, I don't know what to do. Do I stay because I love him or do I leave because he never respected me to begin with. Oh yeah, he got syphilis from her & gave it to me. (link)
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oh my goodness you should break up with him right now then and there i m 100% sure that he is not the right person for your future. you should please because he never respected you to begin with.
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What are the craziest texts some one has sent ou? One time someone told me they had a dream I killed them... And that got the conversation interesting. So what are some of the funniest/craziest texts you have ever gotten? Or what are the funniest/craziest texts you have ever sent someone? (link)
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my craziest text is like my friend told me that exams are already started before 1 hour and that was just trying to make me fool whereas that day was a SNOW DAY
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I'm 22 M and 250lbs. My skinniest weight (while I was working out) was 198lbs in June 2010. I feel, look and am fat. Problem is I have little to no idea what I was doing when I lost all that weight. What I'm looking for is a workout regime that I can stick with, one that works and works well. People with a first hand account on these regimes will be given highest priority but all advice will be looked at and rated as to how helpful it is.
Thanks everyone,
Gateway01 (link)
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do whatever this other people has asked you to
those all are really helpful
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Hi. So about a year ago during my senior year I started dating this guy. And we broke up because I lied to him. We still talk occasionally but its always me making the effort, he never ever texts me first, I am so in love with him even after a year of trying. I know its been awhile and I feel like my effort isn't appreciated. I know I should move on but I can't. Is there any advice? Should I tell him how I feel still, should I stop talking to him? Any advice also on how to move on from someone your this in love with? Thanks! (link)
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i think you shouldn't better care on this now he won't be able to love you because it has been like a year but you can try to ask him but don't directly tell him how you still feel about him and if he has also the same feeling like you do then you can think on this or else NO
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I'm 11 years old and I want to lose weight BADLY. I think i'm really fat and I want yo lose weight. Any advice on losing weight? Please help as soon as you can! (link)
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don't eat much food with sugar and calories and specially don't eat at all after 8:00 pm. needs to go for jog every time as possible
i know you are young but how about different work outs
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i had an abortion about 8 months ago an i wish i hadn't. i cry all the time because i want my baby but its too late. i have been thinking about killing myself so i can be with my baby but i dont know if i should. i just feel like a monster for doing it but im only 17 and my mom kinda forced me to get the abortion. i just want my baby back i cant keep feeling depressed all the time. (link)
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why you guys every time try to suicide, don't ever think about that if you kill yourself that's also bad only soul is yours this body belongs to your parents and god not to you and for abortion you don't have to worry because you are to young to give birth to a baby
just think if you had given birth to that child where were you gonna take that child and how were you gonna care of a baby
then child's future would be more worse than the abortion. don't worry
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How do I get a better voice? I love to sing, but I kinda hate my voice. Is there any way to make my voice better other than practicing? Or is there any kind of vocal warm ups that REALLY work? (link)
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if you smoke cigarettes you need to give up that first and gargle your throat with warm water every morning and every time possible and practice "do re mi fa so la ti do" and sing as much as you can but e careful for sore throat
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22/f. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. This is my first real relationship that's why i am clueless in the beginning. When i am with him i am happy. Super happy. Like things are just perfect and i dont give a damn about anything else. But when we are apart, that's when the fights and misunderstanding happens. An every single time we fought, i always cry my eyes out. At that moment i know i have never been more sad in my life before. It just heart breaking everytime we have a fight. Sometimes when we dont see each others for dayssss we started to get irritated about small stuffs, we say hurtful words but we always make up in the end. So there... I know every relationship go through tough times. I am certain he loves me as much as i do (or even more) and i feel the same way. I cannot imagine myself with anybody else in the future. During happy moments i feel like i am at the top of the world, but during the sad parts i feel like ive never been more down. Is this normal or we are headed down the wrong way? What should i do to improve our relationship? (link)
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i don't know why only girls come on this site http://www.advicenators.com might be because girls are really caring and sensitive about their relationship and boys are not think on this point we advisers can say nothing until we meet those guys.
actually every guys are like that but am never gonna do like that to a girl. my advice is every girls should be tougher than every guys than world will change
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I'm a 20 year old female from America. My boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months, but we've known each other since we were little. But my boyfriend has a dark sense of humor. He'll make jokes about other girls or breaking up with me or other things. He sees them as just jokes, and I'm not the type that can't take a joke but sometimes he does it too much. He tells me he'll tone it down but it just seems to occur again. How can I handle this? Thanks in advance! :) (link)
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this answer is based on his general behavior if you think he is a good person and right for your future then you need to bear this stay with him and if you he is not then you should move on
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I have tried everywhere and everything and have gone above and beyond to get a job. but without any luck. its like i am going to be unemployed throughout my life and i wish to end my life. i moved to a different city for a guy who promised marriage but the relationship ended within 2 and 1/2 months. now am unemployed without a bf and low savings. (link)
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my best advice would be go back to your family members specially to parents if you are friendly with them
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I don't have a car.
I stay at my dad's.
I don't have a job.
I don't have any income.
I'm 21, female.
I have a high school diploma.
I'm poor.
I haven't spoken to any of my friends after high school for about the past couple of years. I miss some of them but I don't know how they would feel about me ignoring them.
I cut them out of my life because my life is so sad.
I was suppose to go to college but I felt I wasn't ready and I wanted to have some fun before I went back to school.
I had a fun for a very short time and most of the time I've been living sheltered in my house, never going out to see the sun light. I live everyday exactly the same and I barely feel real anymore or satisfied with life.
I picked up the habit of smoking cigarettes and sometimes over-sleeping or staying up all night.
I don't know how to change this routine.
I'm depressed.
It would be very difficult getting a job.
I'm pretty much a plain Jane when I got out, I wear solids and I only have one pair of shoes.
I want to escape this life style. I really want to move to Florida. Would I survive on my own if I did?
I have some money saved up for the move but not enough to make a living there unless I got a job right away. I could apply to places in the area and go when I get a job. I'm not sure how to do this. Please help, I want to be happy. Another note, I may go to college this fall but I'm not sure yet. (link)
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i think you should go to college and get a part time job, its really difficult to move to different place with very less money and without a strong plan on moving and you should talk to your friends, you should feel open and i think smoking is not the solution you need to quit smoking, if you just make yourself engage in something you won't feel smoking and other stuffs as empty mind is devils workshop.
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Im 16 years old, almost 17. I've never had a boyfriend, i've never kissed a guy, i've never been drunk, i've never done drugs, and I don't go to parties. At my age that's all my friends want to do. They get drunk/high, they go to parties, and they hook up with guys. I feel like such a loser because I have no intentions of doing any of that stuff anytime soon. I feel like I don't have anything to talk about with my friends because that's all they talk about. Like everytime i've gone to little get togethers with them everyones smoking weed or drinking, and I just stand there awkwardly. There's been times where I want to try it, but theres just something in my head that tells me not too. What would you think of someone like me? should I continue to be the way I am? are there any other teens out there like me? should I just let go and open up to new things? What does being high/drunk feel like?
do people at parties who do get messed up all the time think badly about the ones who don't? HELP! (link)
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first of all you are such a darling and sweet heart girl i just want to say never mislead yourself
how about you try to get new friends who are like you who doesn't drink, do drugs, sleep around or party all the time.
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f/13I don't know why but i feel like i can't feel anything. This didn't happen last year. My teachers keep telling me that this year is the most important year of your life but i just get get that in my ear. In one ear and out the other. And this other time whenever i talk to my friends if i hurt their feelings i don't know if i hurt them or not until they get mad or upset. That's when i feel guilty. I only feel guilty. I can't think straight. Its like my brain just turned off and i can't wake it up. I don't understand anything that my teacher teaches me. We went through like 5 lessons already and i don't get anything at all. I have to sit on the floor next to my friend to ask her to help me. This started happening like around January and got worse since than. I don't know why is it maybe because i sit at the wrong side of the room in class. Everything my math teacher teaches me i get bored by it. I don't understand. :C plz help me the more comments the better (link)
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how about practice maths and study in your home as well first of all concentrate at your studies, friends come next wash your face and drink some water before you enter the class.
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Now before I write this don't get me wrong I love my husband with all my heart but.. We have been married 2 1/2 years. We have 2 children in the home 5 and 2. My 5 year old is his step son who he is really to hard on and he feels my son should do everything when hes told or already know to do it. My son has, adhd, separation anxiety and Aspergers. We never cuddle if we cuddle at night it last 2 minutes and then he wants to have sex. We clean up and roll over and go to sleep constantly. He is very unromantic. If I try and talk to him he does not want to hear it he will stare and the tv or computer screen instead of listening to me talk or hell say i dont want to fight with you and i reply babe im not trying to argue i just want to talk this out and then hell post on facebook worse night over i cant wait until its over. When we didnt even get to talk. I just dont know what else to do to get him to understand a marriage needs to be about communication and love. (link)
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i think you should leave him like that in those nights because this makes it more worse and for romance you need to make him attracted to yourself by putting on some sexy dress sorry to say that but that's how it goes.
if want to be held sometimes then you guys need to sleep and discuss it later.
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last night i was looking at my boyfriend Facebook and some girl posted a status saying "I hate sleeping alone, I need a boyfriend with money" he clicked on like and told her "I have money, a living room and a kitchen" she just said "hehehe" but every time she wrote something he would like her comment! There is another girl that i don't want him talking to because she has feelings for him and he knows this. Well last night she wrote a status saying"I didn't went to school!~My clock" He licked her status. Why would he do that.? I just don't understand him. I don't want to tell him anything because I already talked to him about it, but look now. Im so confused. What do you suggest me to do? or if you were in this situation what would you do? :'( (link)
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yes, move on give a damn to him and his face book.
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i cut myself, arms, wrist, legs. & i want to stop but idk how. i've tried the rubber band trick but i doesnt work it makes me want to do it more. :/ & everytime my friends confiscate my scissors, blades, etc. i get really mad and i do it even more. Help? :/ (link)
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don't keep any sharp objects near by you tell your family and friends to take this sharp objects far from you before you even see it and every time be with your friends and family
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I am a fourteen year old girl, and my boyfriend is fourteen. We both like each other A LOT. Anyway, I was just thinking. I have a few questions. I really want to give my boyfriend a hickey, and I want him to give me one, too. How do I ask him if I can give him a hickey? How do I get him to give me one? What does it feel like? What are the best places to give/receive hickeys? (Also, I have braces, which may make him nervous. How do I convince him that I am not going to rip up his skin with my braces?) (link)
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how about not to give him hickey until u get 18
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there is this guy that i lke and we broke up. we both scred up alot but youknow everone makes mistakes. the other day i was talking to him and he told me that his father died so he was upset , thenhe told me to suck my mother and then called me a b***h. should i forgive him (link)
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you should forgive him according to his genuine behavior with you and others.
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Can I lose 20-25 pounds in less than 10 weeks if I eat healthy, 1200 calories and work out 1 hour everyday. I'm 5'5" and 145 pounds (link)
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actually your weight is fine i m 6'1" and 230 pounds and if you really want to lose weight you can reduce 20-25 pounds in less than 10 weeks by working out a lot but you need to reduce your calories in meals that's the main thing you need to stop "CALORIE"
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18/f
this has happened my whole life. my father sells coke and smokes crack, he doesn't have a job. my mother makes over 100,000 a year. she's also an alcoholic. my father beats my mother and verbally abuses me and my brother whose 16. every time i hear the things he says to her i start crying. the thing is shes okay with living like this. she enjoys living in her "fantasy drunk world." every time ive had my father arrested she just bails him out, its pointless. my mother has never been around for me since i was in 4th grade. the animal of my father raised me. everytime my father enters the house its just a horrible horrible vibe. my brother and i HATE HIM SO MUCH. weve told my mother how hes abused her and us so many times and nothing changes. ive had thoughts about killing him, prying over his finger nails one by one. my thoughts are beginning to frighten me about how much i hate this man. (link)
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you guys need to talk to each other when your parents are not drunk i am also in the same condition except the drinking stuff.
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