Hey i'm Bella Thorne!
I was born and raised in Hollywood, Florida. I love to give advice, dance, sing, and act. I have my own Disney show, Shake It Up!. Before that, i've been on many other television movies, commercials, and shows. Like: Forget Me Not, Target Commercial, and The Seer.
I love to give advice to people, so please send me a question and I would be more than happy to answer it! I'm online everyday, depending on if I have to act or go anywhere.
Gender: Female
Location: Hollywood, Florida
Occupation: Actress, Singer, Dancer
Age: 14
Member Since: March 10, 2012
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Last Update: April 6, 2012
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I am female and 15 years old. I am a very serious dancer and am also a little upset about my body. I know dancers are supposed to be really skinny and i am not. I weigh 119 pounds and want to be 100 or less. I want to kind of become anorexic because it will help me loose weight and i think i will be much happier. I know that becoming anorexic can be dangerous but this is for my career. Do you think that this is a really bad idea? (link)
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You want to be anorexic, eh?
You have nice hair? Chop it off. It'll fall out. It'll also turn gray.
Gray is a nice color, isn't it? No. It's the ugly gray.
You have those pretty nails, don't you? Chop them off now. They'll chop off anyways.
You have a lot of great friends, eh? Diss them. They'll be tired of hearibng how you want to loose weight and to excersize.
You love to wear short shirts and dresses? Throw them out. People will be discussted of how your bones pop out of your body.
You love to dance, don't you? I can assure you that you won't be able to anymore. People won't vote for you or like how you are because they will be discussted of how you're boney.
You have soft and silky skin? Not anymore. Your skin will be dry as the desert.
Don't be anorexic. Even if it's for your career. Excersize everyday. You don't want to be anorexic. You might think you do, but you don't want to be after you read this. You know it in your heart.
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Okay clearly you are NOT bella thorne.
and fyi hollywood is in CALIFORNIA not Florida.. :) (link)
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You can say whatever you want. Also, for YOUR information, there's a Hollywood in Florida.
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I gave everything for this guy and what does he do? He likes my best friend. In september, this guy started talking to me 24/7 about my bestie that he liked. I gave him advice about it. Slowly, me and this guy became really good friends. Then, I got a boyfriend. The guy told me that he liked me and we hung out one time in March. My boyfriend freaked out about me and the guy hanging out. =/ Anyways, when me and the guy hung out, he kissed me. I didnt know what to do because I was stunned. I broke up with my boyfriend because I decided it wasnt fair to him. At the end of March, the guy whom I became good friends with became my boyfriend. We get into fights but always make things better. I got really bored today and hacked his facebook account and went to his messages. He was talking to my bestie earlier today so I clicked on it and began to read. Well, lets just say I have been crying and hyperventalating for the last hour. =( He told me best friend that he never stopped liking her even though he is flupping dating me!!! AHH! I tried calling my bestfriend to talk to her about it but she wasnt home. I dont know what to do, this guy means the world to me! I love him so much and I never want to loose him! HELP!! (link)
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Ok, the first thing you have to do is calm down. Stressing out can lead to horrible things!
Firstly, I wouldn't be her bestfriend anymore. She knows you love him, and she wouldn't be talking to him on Facebook without your permission.
Secondly, dump him. You love him, but you have to let him go. That message made your world crack and he is NOT worth it if he is talking to your bestfriend on Facebook and saying that he never stopped liking her. He is NOT WORTH YOU OR YOUR TIME.
Be brave :). Dump him. You'll feel much better soon, trust me. Everytime you think about how much you love him, say "He is not worth you or your time. He is a dirty player!"
Good luck and I hope I helped!
-Bella
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Wow, okay so I have alot to say! Ok so I broke up with my old boyfriend because I felt the relationshup wasnt really going anywhere and so I told him I only wanted to be friends. Now, I have a new boyfriend and he is amazing! I love him so much! We hangout really offen at lunch and inbetween classes. Online, we get into fights though but we always find a way to get through them. I could never live without him and he has told me that without me his life would be incomplete. We recently got into a fight that almost cost our relationship. =/ Worst thing ever! We got through it though but now he says that he likes my best friend a tiny bit. I told him it was okay because I love him more than anything and I know most people would be mad but Im surprisingly not.. I never want to loose him. Should I be a bit mad that he likes my best friend? I love him so much and I could never move on, he's perfect for me! Advice? (link)
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Well, real best friends won't date your best friend's boyfriend. So, you really have nothing to worry about!
If you are kind of worried, I suggest you talk to your boyfriend about it. Say you're a little uncomfortable.
Good luck, and I hope I helped!
-Bella
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I have had a dream to sing my whole life and I think I'm pretty good. I was just wondering if anybody knew a way for me to get into the music business it will be a huge opportunity for me to express m music and myself to the whole world. Because at school I'm not that popular so yea!! :) thank you and please no mean comments. (link)
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Singing is my dream, too!:)
Well, like the first comment, I suggest you join choir.
If you alreasy are in choir, join YouTube!!!:)
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I want to die as there is no reason for my life on this earth..My life is shit..im a loser.n i feel its better to die than to care about some shit..idc about who feels bad coz idk who really will feel..all i know is i want to kill myself n is there any way by which i can die painlessly? please help me (link)
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Dear Questioner,
Life is sometimes hard. But don't let this get to you! Everything will get better. I promise. Try calling tge suicide hotline, if you need to.
I hope I helped, and good luck! :)
Sincerely,
Bella
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Hi my name is Sarah. I am really clever at school but now i have just started high school and i failed one of my tests so i took 20 ttablets but it did nothing and it created more problems for me. So i am thinking of taking tablets again shoud i.
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Sarah,
Look. I don't know if this is some kind of joke, but don't kill yourself over an F on a test.
We all have our ups and downs on tests. If you absolutely feel the urge to kill yourself, call the suicide hotline or tell someone.
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out!:)
-Bella
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Hey! I'm 13/female.
Last fall I dated this boy who we'll call J.(male/15), I knew him for four years before we dated,we broke up in December and got back together in January,broke up a week later. Last friday he asked me if I still liked him,I said I did,he told me he still likes me also but the next day he was talking to my bestfriend and said he thinks i'm too inmature and I saw him that night and it did NOT look like he was interested in me,(i'm just about in love with him btw) i've been talking to his bestfriend who we'll call O.(male/15 also),and it turns out his bestfriend likes me,O. asked me out and bad thing is that I've always been attracted to O.,I said yes and I think I messed up, O. say's J. still likes me. Here's the bad part, O. and J. are bestfriends,they both like me,I both like them, I dated J. and am now dating O.(not even 24 hours since he asked me out), O. is afraid of J. getting mad and thing is I like J. more, if I break up with O. though he could have hard feelings towards me and persuade J. to get over me, if I don't J. may never talk to me again though :P do you have any advice?! ALL IS APPRECIATED! Thanks for reading! -T. (link)
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For one thing, I think you need to pay attention to English(No offense).
But, I think you need to think hard about this. Who will treat you better? Who is not the cheater? Who will like or love you truly?
I honestly think you should just date his best friend. It seems like J doesn't treat you very well.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything goes well!:)
-Bella
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What's the easiest way to die painless
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The easiest way to die painless is to wait until you die of old age.
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How can i stop being so lonely. I have no guy options what so ever. I want a boyfriend i want to be happy. But I am so lonely. I see couples everysingle day as i work in the mall and it hurts to see everyone happy but me..
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Come on, cheer up!:) I bet you'll meet someone new in the mall. I know how you feel, actually.
Try to dress your prettiest when you go to work and be the friendliest to the guy custumers!:D
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out!:)
-Bella
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I know this is kind of long, but I need advice on what to do.
Okay, so my best friend, who i will call Sally, for protection reasons, and i had this huge fight. She was picking a fight, too. We were joking around about her birthday party and she brought up her friends opinion on it. Now, consider, Sally and I both know I don't like her friend because shes a mean drama queen. Sally and i also have a promise to alwaus be honestand open with each other. I expressed that her friend was rude to me and I didn't like her, and Sally exploded at me about how I was "talking smack about her friend since she was five" She stormed out of the room and left me stunned and confused. Later on, in Drama, we were arguing and she said that "I was trying to lose all my friends and i treat everyone like garbage" and when (after her asking a question for the sixth time and me answering for the sixth time) i made on comment about her being blonde, she said "i hurt her in a way she can:t shake off" and then started telling people i shoved her. Even though i wouldn't do that. She told me she spent lunch crying, and so did i, but the difference here is that I was alone, in a classroom eating pizza and sobbing into my knees. After that, on several occasions she hascalled me bitchy and said that i was the rudest person she has ever known. She has a small army of people all against me and I've been having emotional meltdowns daily for more than a week now. We hardly ever fight and I don't know what to do. I've apologized, but I don't think she ever wants to make up. I'm about to seek therapy and transer schools. HELP!!! (link)
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Ok, that bottom/first answer is no help.
You're going the right path by thinking about going to therapy and transfering schools. I went through this, too. I suggest you tell your parents. If thry know, say you want to transfer schools and say you won't go to that school ever again(Worth a shot).
I hope I helped and I hope everything goes well!:)
-Bella
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I Have so many things to cry about and be mad about. I mean my own father called me a "pill head" my mother is one. My grandma is okay but i know I can never tell her how I feel. The only one who knows the inside of me is my ex boyfriend. More like best friend. But he is in lockup now. I miss him so much. I cry almost every night. But I am laughing constantly in school. I have all "A's" in my grade thing. I also do ALOT of things my parents will never know. I smoke weed I crush pills I drink, I have a tattoo.. My life is one hell of a ride! No one knows the real me except Matt. And my dad also has this stupid girlfriend who I wanna punch in the face and push her down the stairs. So bad. I know I never will. But the only problem I have is my whole life is a joke. My happiness hasn't been real for months. And no one has noticed. Thats shows how good I am at sneaking around. But everyday it gets harder to hide the pain; tears; and anger!! I can't wait until the found the right person to talk to and get all this out .not even my closest friends know this.. I hate my life but at the Sa,e time I love it!?!? Am I stupid? Or crazy.. SOMEBODY PLEASE PLEASE TELL ME why. Why I'm like this! What's wrong with me... :'( (link)
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I'm here for you!:D
Ahahaha. Ok, first you need to tell your grandma everything. She loves you and it seems like you 2 are really close. You're too young to be doing those things. If you're too concerened about this, talk to a doctor or a counceler. They can also help you. There is nothing wrong with being bipolar. Your not stupid, but it's a stupid idea to have a tattoo, smoke weed, and smoke at your age. You were born this way, so none of this is your fault.
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out!:)
-Bella Thorne
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I have been dating this guy for a while now and I don't think he is really that attracted... I want to do something that will make his eyes pop or something... but I don't know what.
PS. We have not kissed yet so it can't be too forward, but just forward enough. (link)
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You can try kissing him. If you think that's too forward, try doing your hair different or wearing something different. You can also try doing something AMAZING he likes/ loves to do or to see.
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out!:)
-Bella Thorne
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I like this guy and he likes me but both of us are to scared to make a move. He will barely even look at me and when I catch him staring he looks shameful. Should I be forward or what? I am 13 and a girl (link)
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Well, you 2 kind of already made the first move by telling each other you like each other.
Well, if YOU don't make a move soon, you will lose interest in him. So, I suggest you make the first move. You can try asking him out, or ask him out for some coffee(Or to dinner, to lunch, ect.).
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out!:)
-Bella Thorne
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Okay so I guess people say that i don't know what "love" is but I'm not sure.. I think i do, maybe. Because I am only thirteen going on fourteen in November.. Anyway I have this problem with this boy I used to "date." it lasted seven months. And ended in september because I moved unexpectedly.. When we fought it was horrible. I always thought of him as a best friend more than anything. We talked everyday for hours. And we stayed up All night talking over the phone every Friday and Saturday. He wasn't the best but to me he was perfect.. We did everything together. So the problem is my best friend (ever since I was 5) is really.. Uh what's the word? Judgmental. Yeah she judges every book by it's cover. So she never liked him. In fact, she hated him. Whenever someone asks me about him I kinda get a little on the down side. So she gives me this whole "get over it" story. I wish you knew.. Its just not like that. He is in a juvenile detention center now.. (for running away, people say it was because of me.) I miss him so much. And I just don't know what to do about it.. I have no idea how to talk to him and tell him.. I know I'll forget him. And there's this guy that likes me.. And I like him a lot. But whenever he talks to me I compare him to my "ex" and it's just not the same. Why can't I get over him? Why cant I try and forget him like he forgot me. I could never ask my parents because I don't live with them. And none of my family (well the adults) don't like him so I never told them about him. Like he says anyway. I really hope you can give me advice about how to.. Get over this somehow? :\ (link)
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First, I want to say thanks for messaging me. I appriciate it :)
Well, this is kinda complicated. So, sorry if I read this wrong!:(
Ok, so your ex is in jail, and you think you love him? Well, YOU only know if you love someone. People always tell me "You're to young to love". Well, only you know if you love someone.
Ok, so don't think you're ex is bad. He didn't really do a bad thing. He only ran away. A lot of people run away because of things. Tell your current crush everything(if you're dating him). You also didn't tell me how long he is going to be in juvi. But, I guess I don't really need to know that. Anyways, try to schedule a time to talk to him in juvi. You're allowed to, right? Well if you're not sure you can ask an adult or do some research.
Ok, next part. So you said the biggest problem is your best friend? Well, tell her she is being a little too judgemental about your ex, but say it nicely. You don't want to make her not be your best friend. Tell her what's going on and if she tells you the "get over it" speech, stop her and say something like "See? That's what i'm talking about. You're too judgemental. Please don't be jusgemental about my ex." or if you think that's too rough you can try to make it nicer or so.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything goes well! Please message me and tell me how everything goes. I'd appeiciate it!:)
-Bella
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me and my boyfriend been together for a while now and im thinking about having sex with him but im scared.. how does it all work. we kiss & make out alot and dry hump but like..do i take my clothes off first or does he?? how can i make it fun?? all that kind of stuff.. help me please?? im nervous.. (link)
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Well, sex isn't dry humping. It's more like humping.
But, you can take off your clothes first then take off his. I hear it's funner if you take your clothes off first because he has that "OH YEAH!" moment. (Sorry, I don't know how to explain it!:) )
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out! I'd like you to message me and tell me if I helped and how everything went!:)
-Bella Thorne
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20/f
i have 2 questions
1. how do i tell if he likes me?
ok so i met this guy and we have been hanging out a lot. i kinda like him but i dont know if he likes me. the first time we hung out we spent like 5 hours together and were having a great time laughing and talk and that night he showed me a video of him dancing and he doesnt show those videos to ANYONE but maybe his mom, he hugs me every time he leaves and lets me where is stuff another thing he never does, he chooses to hang out with me over some of his friends that he has know for a long time ,and he seems to get sad when he text me and i tell him im busy and cant hang out.
2. how do i get over this?
i still love my ex i would do ANYTHING to be with him again, we are still friends and still talk now and then and when i get my life straightened out we are going to give it a second chance. the guy i like is nice, funny, cute, and a really good person and i like spending time with him but every time i think about possibly dating him i feel like im doing something wrong, feel bad for even thinking about dating him, and just like its not right. (link)
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Well, he does like you. It's kinda obvious!!:)
Well, your ex is the past. It's time to let a new guy into your life. "Ex" means something didn't work out.
When your with the guy you like, tell him how you feel. You might not want to, but you have to.
You're not doing ANYTHING wrong whatsoever. Your ex is your past, and your time has come to meet someone new.
I hope I helped and I hope everything works out!:)
-Bella Thorne
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I'm 28 years old, female and from France.So, excuse the possible mistakes. My boyfriend of six months previously best friend is blowing hot and cold on me. One moment he is sweet, the next mean and making fun of me.Then telling me it was all joke.He also give me the silent treatment each time i don't do what he expects like if i'm busy with work and can't answer him right back. He seems depressed and has retreated from his social life. I want to help him but he refuses to talk.
I've been battling depression myself and feels so low each time he do this. Shoul i leave him? (link)
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I honestly think you should leave him.
No boyfriend should do this to a great girlfriend. You may like/love him, but you have to leave him. No boyfriend should make fun of his girlfriend, or give her the silent treatment. I suggest you take him out to dinner and tell him. Make it be romantic though, you don't want to mess this up. Say it's just not going to work out, and you hope you 2 can be friends. I hope I helped, and I hope everything goes well!:)
-Bella Thorne
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i been with my boyfriend for a while now.. i wanna have sex but im scared.. we make out alot and we have "fun" .. i never seen his dick and he's never seen my vagina but still like i wanna loose my virginity with him .. do my clothes come off first?? how can i make things funner?? is it going to be awkward afterwards?? ect. Help me please? (link)
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I've never experienced it, but I do know what to do:
Don't be nervous. What you want to do is say "Lemme go to the bathroom first, k?" then come out like how they do in the movies xD ahahaha. Inappropriate, I know. But just trust me. I hope everything goes well, and I hope I helped!:)
-Bella Thorne
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When I go to the bathroom it hurts and stings. When I tried to make myself poop there was blood, today there was kind of a lot of more blood.When I feel like I have to go to the restroom sometimes I can't poop and I try to make myself go. This happened to me last summer too and its happening again and I think the doctor said it was hemorroids, but I don't want the doctor looking at me again.What can I get from the store to stop whatever it is? If I go to the doctor what will they have to do?
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The other answer is a fail..?
Ok, what you want to do is call a doctor. If you want help, you want to go to a doctor. Trust me, it's a bunch of help.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out!
-Bella Thorne
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