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I think I made a deadly mistake! What do I do?!
Hey! I'm 13/female.
Last fall I dated this boy who we'll call J.(male/15), I knew him for four years before we dated,we broke up in December and got back together in January,broke up a week later. Last friday he asked me if I still liked him,I said I did,he told me he still likes me also but the next day he was talking to my bestfriend and said he thinks i'm too inmature and I saw him that night and it did NOT look like he was interested in me,(i'm just about in love with him btw) i've been talking to his bestfriend who we'll call O.(male/15 also),and it turns out his bestfriend likes me,O. asked me out and bad thing is that I've always been attracted to O.,I said yes and I think I messed up, O. say's J. still likes me. Here's the bad part, O. and J. are bestfriends,they both like me,I both like them, I dated J. and am now dating O.(not even 24 hours since he asked me out), O. is afraid of J. getting mad and thing is I like J. more, if I break up with O. though he could have hard feelings towards me and persuade J. to get over me, if I don't J. may never talk to me again though :P do you have any advice?! ALL IS APPRECIATED! Thanks for reading! -T.
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Sweet heart i know how you must be feelin' right now.Well,i made the same mistake and hell yeah my first boyfriend caught me.I think you should give O a change and see if he gone treat you right with out J. knowin',if he treat you better than J. then i think you should go for him,but if J. treat you better than O. then you should let O. go,coz sooner or later J. will find out.
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For one thing, I think you need to pay attention to English(No offense).
But, I think you need to think hard about this. Who will treat you better? Who is not the cheater? Who will like or love you truly?
I honestly think you should just date his best friend. It seems like J doesn't treat you very well.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything goes well!:)
-Bella
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For one thing stop use things like O,T and J. It makes it herd to understand. Just make up fake name like billy or something. I really think that you should try and go for J.Two reasons. One you like him more. Two you don't want a guy who would try to make j break up with you over his own jealous. So yes I would go for j. No one like a green guy. Good luck.
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