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R u kidding me? I gave him everything!


Question Posted Thursday April 5 2012, 8:30 pm

I gave everything for this guy and what does he do? He likes my best friend. In september, this guy started talking to me 24/7 about my bestie that he liked. I gave him advice about it. Slowly, me and this guy became really good friends. Then, I got a boyfriend. The guy told me that he liked me and we hung out one time in March. My boyfriend freaked out about me and the guy hanging out. =/ Anyways, when me and the guy hung out, he kissed me. I didnt know what to do because I was stunned. I broke up with my boyfriend because I decided it wasnt fair to him. At the end of March, the guy whom I became good friends with became my boyfriend. We get into fights but always make things better. I got really bored today and hacked his facebook account and went to his messages. He was talking to my bestie earlier today so I clicked on it and began to read. Well, lets just say I have been crying and hyperventalating for the last hour. =( He told me best friend that he never stopped liking her even though he is flupping dating me!!! AHH! I tried calling my bestfriend to talk to her about it but she wasnt home. I dont know what to do, this guy means the world to me! I love him so much and I never want to loose him! HELP!!

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masterclinic answered Saturday April 7 2012, 2:57 am:
You love him so much that you hacked his profile and read his messages because you don't trust him? I don't know who told you what love is but they are idiots.
You dont love this boy, to love someone one of the first things you have to do is trust them completly.
My advice is to dump him and wait a couple of years when your mature enough to handle a real relationship, otherwise your just going to find your self alone and unhappy relationship after relationship, gl

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AdviceGiving101 answered Thursday April 5 2012, 11:57 pm:
Ok, the first thing you have to do is calm down. Stressing out can lead to horrible things!

Firstly, I wouldn't be her bestfriend anymore. She knows you love him, and she wouldn't be talking to him on Facebook without your permission.

Secondly, dump him. You love him, but you have to let him go. That message made your world crack and he is NOT worth it if he is talking to your bestfriend on Facebook and saying that he never stopped liking her. He is NOT WORTH YOU OR YOUR TIME.

Be brave :). Dump him. You'll feel much better soon, trust me. Everytime you think about how much you love him, say "He is not worth you or your time. He is a dirty player!"

Good luck and I hope I helped!
-Bella

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