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My Husband Isn't Romantic: How Do I Get More Romance When He Doesn't Want To Talk About it?
Now before I write this don't get me wrong I love my husband with all my heart but.. We have been married 2 1/2 years. We have 2 children in the home 5 and 2. My 5 year old is his step son who he is really to hard on and he feels my son should do everything when hes told or already know to do it. My son has, adhd, separation anxiety and Aspergers. We never cuddle if we cuddle at night it last 2 minutes and then he wants to have sex. We clean up and roll over and go to sleep constantly. He is very unromantic. If I try and talk to him he does not want to hear it he will stare and the tv or computer screen instead of listening to me talk or hell say i dont want to fight with you and i reply babe im not trying to argue i just want to talk this out and then hell post on facebook worse night over i cant wait until its over. When we didnt even get to talk. I just dont know what else to do to get him to understand a marriage needs to be about communication and love.
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when you married this man, were you aware he was like this because if so this is what you signed up for? and it's obvious he isn't willing to communicate and whether he loves you or not if he isn't willing to communicate you guys will have way more problems like this and divorce could be in your future. you could try marriage counseling but the problem is even getting him to sit down and talk about it. It's time you go head on. and the next time he posts something like that on facebook, like it and comment "it will be over when you can actually tell me what's on your mind instead of facebook."
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i think you should leave him like that in those nights because this makes it more worse and for romance you need to make him attracted to yourself by putting on some sexy dress sorry to say that but that's how it goes.
if want to be held sometimes then you guys need to sleep and discuss it later.
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