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fighting when we are apart but happy when we are together bad?
22/f. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year. This is my first real relationship that's why i am clueless in the beginning. When i am with him i am happy. Super happy. Like things are just perfect and i dont give a damn about anything else. But when we are apart, that's when the fights and misunderstanding happens. An every single time we fought, i always cry my eyes out. At that moment i know i have never been more sad in my life before. It just heart breaking everytime we have a fight. Sometimes when we dont see each others for dayssss we started to get irritated about small stuffs, we say hurtful words but we always make up in the end. So there... I know every relationship go through tough times. I am certain he loves me as much as i do (or even more) and i feel the same way. I cannot imagine myself with anybody else in the future. During happy moments i feel like i am at the top of the world, but during the sad parts i feel like ive never been more down. Is this normal or we are headed down the wrong way? What should i do to improve our relationship?
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You only fight when you're apart? In a way, isnt that good?
Cus if it were the other way around, i.e you fight when youre together and happy when youre apart, that would be a bad relationship!
The fact that you always make up is a good thing, shows that you can get over stuff together. So I dont think you should be that worried at all, just maybe both calm down and be glad to be together ~forget about the small irritable things!
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