Please, don't do it. If not for yourself, then for your son. All I want in life is to be a mother--think of him. Growing up without a father? Wondering why you did? Thinking it was his fault somehow, feeling guilty? What if all that leads him to do the same thing? As someone who's thought of it themself, I always find a reason for living. Mine is my boyfriend and the life I want with him, and the children I hope to have with him.
All exactly what you have. Why throw it away? Why put your family and possibly strangers through that eternal grief? It isn't worth it.
claxthestrong answered Monday March 19 2012, 9:14 am: A wife and son, you have everything I ever wanted, how could you through that away for issues that are fixable.
Suicide will hurt, no matter how you do it. It will devistate your son and wife, that pain lasts for years.
babedoll answered Thursday March 15 2012, 6:48 pm: what makes you to commit suicide? you have wife and son. what about they? can they live without you, does they gain anything without you? can they be happy without you? what problem cause you to get suicide? Well my dear friend, think twice. you are the man of power you can fight you are not alone you have your beautiful wife and intelligent son. you have to find answers by discussing with your loved ones. if you really love your family? if yes do you know how many problems they face? see my friend life is not all about being selfish, coward or negetive. life is all about being positive, fighting and struggling for good from bad and prayers work wonder. pray whole heartedly, sit before your god and tell your pain. then you see the magic but give time for good days to come dont be in hurry. forget not "gains after pains" everything is for good only. hardship in life means testting period for you from god if you win these obstacles you will be the winner but you must have patience. dont worry be happy. smile please :) thank you. [ babedoll's advice column | Ask babedoll A Question ]
adviceman49 answered Saturday March 10 2012, 1:18 pm: After spending most of my adult life as a member of a fire department rescue squad I can tell you there is no painless way to die. As the end nears the pain becomes great and most everyone calls for help or attempts to call for help.
If you want help living write anyone of us and we will help you with that. One suggestion to help live is to call the suicide hotline. It is answered 24/7. Their number is: 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
Carriebeca answered Saturday March 10 2012, 5:17 am: There is no painless way to commit suicide. Each method has it's advantages and disadvantages, but all of them are painful.
You say you don't want your wife or son to find you but how will they manage without you?
Surely, even in these recession times, it helps having someone to share the pain, someone who knows you and help you with a smile and a hug?
How will your wife namage without that support that only you can give her? What example for life will your son get if you succeed in killing yourself?
Please try to find someone to talk to, a doctor, priest, Samaritans whatever, someone who will listen and hopefully, give you other options.
I really hope this helps you, keep in touch if you feel I can help further. Please give yourself another chance to get life right, for your family's sake?
Best wishes. [ Carriebeca's advice column | Ask Carriebeca A Question ]
MissRomero answered Friday March 9 2012, 7:19 pm: There is no way for you to painlessly commit suicide. Any way you do it, you'd be hurting your wife and son. Life is ups and downs, you have to take the downs along with the ups. Fight these feelings, don't give up. You should really try to get help from a professional, like a doctor or psychologist. I could probably give you more efficient advice if I knew why you wanted to kill yourself. [ MissRomero's advice column | Ask MissRomero A Question ]
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