Q: 13/f 13/m, well, he was a new kid in 6th grade, barely talked until 2nd quarter. We started talking in Computer class we both signed up for. After that we became realy close friends. I really like him since the first few times we hung out. Everyone said that he likes me, but I never believed it. Then, he started dating my Best Friend 12/f and they lasted for 5 months and a month later she started dating my other Best Friend 12/m and they just recently broke up. I was always there for my crush. I didn't make him feel awkward around his ex I was always there. We both like goofing off and at reccess we head out to the Basketball Court and he's amazing. He can get a bunch of 3-pointers without trying and he NEVER misses the bankshot. I'm sure other people can do this, but he's the first I've seen. So, one time he asked for a hug I gave him one and my heart started beating a mile a minute, I had butterflies fluttering in my belly, and I literally got hiigh over his sexy cologne. The best par is that I don't know what it is, so I'm always surprised when I smell him. I really love him, then, on the last day of school we hung out at the water fountain because I was filling up a jug with another guy and I saw him walk towards me I dropped my cup and got my classmate wet so he had to dry off. He smiled his amazing, cute smile and just surprised me with a hug. When my classmate got out he took the jug in and I asked him if he could our advisory teacher that I was going to use the restroom, he said sure. I didn't use the restroom, instead he just took me in another hug that got me dizzy that I accedentally said to him, "You smell amazing." and to my surprise he said, "You smell amazing too. You smell like pretty flowers and your hair smells like strawberries." after he said that, I nearly burst out in joy! He and I just stood there hugging each other and enjoying each other's embrace and company. I wanted to kiss him on the cheek, but it didn't feel right because my other Best.

Q: Okay do I like this guy, he doesn't know. He likes me, he doesn't know I know. He doesn't want to date me because he said to my friend "I don't want to bring her into my crap right now." We talk all the time and I really like him. I don't care if he has crap going on right now. How do I like him know with out saying so? And what else can I do because he moves on quick and I want to keep him interested.

Q: Is it normal to want a boyfriend with dreadlocks and tattoos that goes surfing and what not?! My sister said she'd be embarrassed if I brought back a boy who looked like that :/ I thought it might be something to do with the fact that all the boys at my school are so flippin mainstream -.-

Q: How can I painlessly commit sucide? I do not want my wife or son to find me so I will most likely kill myself in a public restroom.

Q: I need to know the least painful way ic ould kill myself. I've thought about this for 16 years now. I dont want help. Just..please tell me how to kill myself in a painless way.

Q: me and my bf have a mutual friend and today he was rubbing on my face and my arms and when i asked him "you know that my bf wouldnt be happy if you did this would he" and he was like no. wat do i do??

Q: Before I start, I am looking for any advice or any opinions from anyone, negative or positive I don't care. And as many answers as I can get also.

I am 17, Female. Senior in high school.
I am a virgin.
I've only had one serious boyfriend, Sophmore year, and it only lasted 4 months.

I don't have any sexual experience, and this bothers me. I would like to have sexual experience, as well as loose my virginity but I don't have the boyfriend experiences. I'm not very attractive I suppose that's why i'm not liked by guys ever/ or rarely.
I'm tall and skinny which i don't think there's anything wrong with, but I don't have a pretty smile, I need braces badly but can't afford it, and I think that is why people find me unattractive, which I don't blame them because I hate my smile too. I also have small boobs, that could be why? Or maybe i'm "too skinny" I don't know..
I just want a guy to like me, ask me out, and for us to do things together :P to put it bluntly.

By the way, this isn't for society, or for the pressure, or because other people are doing it, or whatever else. this is because I want to.

Anything helps, thank you

Q: The falling sensation is pretty common with many people, but this is different and I don't know how common it is. In my sleep I'll feel like I'm desperately trying to run away from something but I can't budge. Its weird. The falling thing is the only comparable thing. Any idea what this "can't run away" feeling is? Has it happened to anyone?

Q: i think about suicide very often. i think about how i would do it. ive writen at least 12 suicide notes in my life.i would carry them around just waiting for the right time i guess. i dont see the point in life we all die someday so why not when and how we choose.

Q: Before I ask the question, I am 17 and the girl is 15. I met this girl the other day, and we hit it off immediately. All of our interests are the same, and we have identical senses of humor.

We were hanging out today watching a movie, when she suddenly hugged me, nuzzled her head in my chest, and then looked up at me. She said, "please don't push me off," lied down with her head in my lap, and fell asleep.

Or so I thought, but I think she might have been pretending. I put my hand on her upper back, because anywhere else could have been inappropriate, and then she rolled over so my hand was on her chest, and started gently and playfully nibbling my thigh while she was "asleep" and when I muttered something, she physically responded by biting a bit harder.

So, what do you think this means? Does it mean she likes me; does it mean she's trying to rush into something probably too fast; does it mean she's just the weird girl that I hit it off with so well and she's just already that comfortable that she fell asleep on me?

Q: I've been with my boyfriend for almost three weeks and before he became my boyfriend we were seeing each other for three months. He is an extremely out going and talkative guy. He has many friends who he sees on a daily basis. I've been introduced to many of them I also see his roommates every time I go to his apartment. This is how it's supposed to be but me on the other hand I have no friends or anyone in my life that I can introduce him to. I am a dull person and dont know how to have conversations. I stay silent 99% of the time this is why im confused as to why he likes me. What can I do about this?

Q: Well this is really uncomfortable for me to talk about with people, I only had one friend who used to support me, she also liked to cross-dress as a boy. But that was when I was 15, somehow things changed and we stopped talking. Anyway I'm now 18 and moved to a really nice place in the 'burbs of Illinois, no one knows me even though I've been living here for about 7 months.

I graduated early last year and I'm currently working to put myself through Tech School. So I basically go to work (out of the suburb I live in) and come back home. Which I take why I have literally no friends. It upsets me. Anyway, that's not the issue here.

I started cross-dressing when I was 14 all the way till I was 16. My best friend at the time used to tell me I looked like a cute boy, it didn't bother me since I secretly wanted to look like one. To this day I'm still not sure why. By the way I'm 18 now.

Anyway, she and I started cross-dressing on weekends in secret. My mom caught me once and she found it odd but didn't say much about it, she did sort of support me after she saw it continued I didn't need to hide it from her, she even started calling me a boys name for awhile.

Then awhile later I decided to tell my dad about it, I was really nervous since when I was about the age of 9 or 10 he yelled at me once for wanting to wear a boys uniform to school instead of a girls. When I turned 13 he also told me that if I kept buying "boy's shoes," people in school were going to start rumors. I was still pretty naive at that age so I didn't understand, when he noticed that he just told me he wouldn't have a gay daughter. (It mentally scarred me.)

Well as the years went by my dad and I were fairly distant, since he had to work a lot, my mom and I were fairly close. My sisters were terrible to me ever since I was little, so I avoided them as much as I could.

When I turned 16 and got my first boyfriend, I told my dad about my cross-dressing. By then I guess we had a milder closeness. Since our family was going downhill. (My mom was distancing from me.) He wasn't surprised he said and laughed about it made a bit uncomfortable but he then told me about a uncle of his and an aunt who would cross-dress. Which made me slightly relieved to know. But also confused me still.

My sisters never found out about my "hobby," well a few days after I turned 17 my mom announced she was leaving us for some man she met at her health club. Since then things between my mom and I have been...cold. I stopped cross-dressing after that. I don't even know why. Then a month after I graduated early, my best friend ended up telling me she hated me ever since we met? Which just confused me more and made things worse.

My sisters both moved out with their boyfriends and I was left with my dad. We lived in a truck with my two cats for 8 months. (He's a trucker.)

Now a few months after, my eldest sister was having financial problems so my dad moved me in with her in this nice new suburb. I don't want to sound odd or racist. But we always lived in "poor" suburbs so most of my friends have always been latino (like myself,) or black or asian. So for some reason I feel out of place here. Everyone here is either white or middle eastern, I don't have a problem with that, it just makes me shy to talk to anyone. I don't know why.

Well I have 3 online best friends I met back when I was 15, they don't live in the U.S. ):
They know about my cross-dressing days. My friend touched the subject the other day and asked me if I missed it. I was honest and said yes. He told me I should do what ever makes me happy. I told him that ever since the split in my family and my group old friends, I had become rather jaded. My self-esteem that was once pretty high, for some reason went down extremely low.

Which confuses me because when I was 15-17 I was pretty fat but was pretty self confident. And now that I'm nice and slim I feel so anxious and self-conscious. He then scolded me and went on to point out something true, that now that I'm thin and my chest has gone down I'll look more guyish. ( I was a Dcup and am now a Bcup.)

About a week later ( a week ago from today)I thought about it and cut my hair rather short. My dad came home from work and asked why I did and I told him I was tired of my long hair (which I really was,) and that a new year means a new hairstyle. He didn't give it much thought. My sister and her boyfriend both said they liked it, and that it fit me so that made me happy.

Yesterday on my day off I decided to go grocery shopping on my own while everyone else was at work . I wore my regular jeans and "borrowed" a shirt and hoodie from my sisters boyfriend, just to see if I would be more comfortable. I didn't put much makeup on messed my hair a bit and went out. I felt awkward at first, like if everyone knew or could tell. I texted my buddy and he gave a peptalk, when I rode the bus back home from shopping a lady said, "excuse me young man do you know the time." It made my heart flutter, so when I got home I went to the bathroom and tried on most of my sister's boyfriends clothes (except for jeans they're too big on me) and decided I want to be open about it. I want to be able to dress and look how I want. But I'm scared and embarrassed to tell my dad. I thought about slowly making changes to my wardrobe, but feel reluctant to. My sisters and I are now closer, well at least the one I live with.

When I first moved in with her we spoke about a lot of past thins, family matters and such. She told me something that was odd but true, that between the three of us I was always the smarter one and the one that would leap in as the one to stop all the estrogen tension in our family. That I always had a boy like feel to me. It made me feel sort of like a freak. Or like I was born the wrong gender.

If it helps to know I've come to find I can fall for either sex. I like people for what they have on the inside not out.

Anyway, sorry it's terribly long but any advice appreciated! Please help me, and if you cross-dress too, well any tips about going out in public? I mean like what bathroom am I supposed to use?

Thank you!

Q: me and my boyfriend are both teenagers and live together most of the time. my boyfriend says that hes completely in love with me, he even has a tattoo of my name; but he has strayed from me a few times in the past and ive seen him jerking off a lot when he could be doing "stuff" with me i know he thinks im beautiful and stuff and we do have sex a few times a month but when were at parties i can tell hes cheeking other girls out. i know he has sexual needs im not fulfilling and hes just harmlessly enjoying himself, but i feel like i need to give him more, so im thinking about getting breast implants im only an A and all the girls he cheeks out and jerks to are this beautiful Cs and Ds. do think this is a good idea; if not what else would you consider i do?

Q: so im not skinny but i'm kinda chubby and i bought a pair of pants today and they didnt fit when i tried to put them on. So im thinking about becoming anorexic to lose weight. i just dont know what to do.

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