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confused about a relationship
13/f 13/m, well, he was a new kid in 6th grade, barely talked until 2nd quarter. We started talking in Computer class we both signed up for. After that we became realy close friends. I really like him since the first few times we hung out. Everyone said that he likes me, but I never believed it. Then, he started dating my Best Friend 12/f and they lasted for 5 months and a month later she started dating my other Best Friend 12/m and they just recently broke up. I was always there for my crush. I didn't make him feel awkward around his ex I was always there. We both like goofing off and at reccess we head out to the Basketball Court and he's amazing. He can get a bunch of 3-pointers without trying and he NEVER misses the bankshot. I'm sure other people can do this, but he's the first I've seen. So, one time he asked for a hug I gave him one and my heart started beating a mile a minute, I had butterflies fluttering in my belly, and I literally got hiigh over his sexy cologne. The best par is that I don't know what it is, so I'm always surprised when I smell him. I really love him, then, on the last day of school we hung out at the water fountain because I was filling up a jug with another guy and I saw him walk towards me I dropped my cup and got my classmate wet so he had to dry off. He smiled his amazing, cute smile and just surprised me with a hug. When my classmate got out he took the jug in and I asked him if he could our advisory teacher that I was going to use the restroom, he said sure. I didn't use the restroom, instead he just took me in another hug that got me dizzy that I accedentally said to him, "You smell amazing." and to my surprise he said, "You smell amazing too. You smell like pretty flowers and your hair smells like strawberries." after he said that, I nearly burst out in joy! He and I just stood there hugging each other and enjoying each other's embrace and company. I wanted to kiss him on the cheek, but it didn't feel right because my other Best.
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Don't tell him...yet.
Just wait a while until things get less confusing.
Maybe he's confused as well.
Or you could tell him in a joke-y way and see how he reacts ;)
But I would wait.
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The Way It Sounds He Doesnt Know That You Have A Crush On Hiim Or In Love Wiith Hiim Because The Signs You Are Showing Are More On A Friend Level . I Wouldnt Reccomend For You To Tell Him How You Feel Right Now Because For 1 Him And Your Best Friend Are Dating And You Wouldnt Want To Make Things Awkward For The Three Of You . But Are You Sure Youre In Love Or Lust . ?( Because Its A Very Biig Diiference ) . As Young Women We Rush Into Things Faster Than Boys Do And We Find Different Signs Than They Do . You Want A Relationship Now But He Might Want To B Friends Or He Might Not See You As A Girlfriend But More Of A Friend . If You Really Want To Be With Him There Are Risks You Have To Take . Fiirst If You And Your Friend Are Very Close Friends And She Knows That You Have A Crush On Him Then Maybe You Need A New Friend Because Obviously As Friends Those Are The Most Important Things Yall Suppose To Talk About And As A Real Friend She Wouldnt Date Her Best Friends Crush . I Would Reccomend That You Talk To Her About Yall Relationship And If Its Not A Sister Bond Then Its Every Man For Itself .. Meaning If You Like/Love Him Then You Oughta Go For It . As Long As You Hold It In Youre More Prone To Letting Someone Else Take Your Spot . The Main Risk You Should Be Willing To Take Is Finding Out If You And Him Are On The Same Page And If He's Not Then It Just Wasnt Meant To Be .
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It seems that he does have feelings towards you. It's possible for a guy to like more than one girl, as it is for a girl to like two guys, so that might be the case. I honestly think you should tell him if you want to. I had guy friends tell me they liked me before and I didn't like them like that back and things didn't feel awkward for me, if they felt awkward, it was probably because they focused too much on what they had told me. As for the "<3" it could just be his like "thing" that he does in messages, or since you are a good, female friend of his. Don't get your hopes up too high, though. And if things don't work out with him, remember there are plenty of other great guys in the world. I know that last part sounds stupid and cliche, especially after having your heart broken, but trust me it is soo true. Good luck!
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