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17/m

I am wondering exactly how bad swishers are for you, I have smoked them every now and then for the last year and I will be 18 in a month and I never found out how bad they are for you.

I know most people use them for weed, I use to but quit smoking weed a year ago and was wondering if they are as harmful as cigs or even worse.

I know they are cheap cigars but I don't know much info on them. (link)
Youre Better Off Smoking A Cigarrette Because Statistics Show That Swisher Sweets Are 10 Cigarettes And If You Smoke 6 Or 7 Of Them A Day Youre Way More Prone To Having Throat Cancer Faster . If You Dnt Like Ciggarettes Eiitha Try To Break That Habit Or Fiind You A Cigarette Brand That You Like .


Hi, we have been dating for 2 years. we love each other and we live together. he's a single father. he's defensive of his ex (well, that's what i reckon) and when i refer his ex girlfriend as an ''ex'' he says he doesn't think of her as his ''ex'' he says, she's the mother of his child and i say but she's still your ex because they broke up long time ago. so, guys my question is, is he still loves his ex or what is it? thank you all. (link)
As A Former Girlfriend You Should Be Able To Say What You Feel About His Ex But If He Always Gets Defensive About It Then Maybe He Still Has Feelings For Her And I Would Consider That You Take Time Out And Talk To Him About It To Make Sure You Know Exactly Where Hiis Heart Is At .
With You . ? Or With Her . ?


A friend was rapped and she says she wants to kill the baby in the womb without abortion but with tablet. But she's 8 months pregnant (link)
Its To Late To Want To Have An Abortion . Abortions Are Suppose To Be Dne Frm 6 Weeks To 4 Months . I Would Consider Having The Baby Since Youre So Close And Since There's Nothing You Can Do About It Is To Give The Baby Up For Adoption . If You Dont Want The Baby Give It To Someone Who Does Or Is Unable To Have A Baby .


English IS my first language so dont worry haha, I'm from Dublin,Ireland :D Theres this guy called david ( just to add,hes polish)
we started talkin the day of his birthday because his cousin carolina (whos my good friend) was talking about him to me.. we were on facebook and she poked him off my page as a joke, he poked me back and added me. We started talking and we got a long great..(ive never seen him face to face)
we talked about EVERYTHING..then on july 1st he went to poland to visit his family till august 15th.. and im going on holidays to turkey on august 12th and wont be back till august 26th.. and he says he wants to see me straight away when i come back and that he really likes me and all.. he promised me he would talk to me all day but he hasnt been? hes been different, not being himself to be honest.. hes just not being himself at all... i dont know what to do cause i cant get him out of my head? rather not say my age, im a teen though :) i told my mam and dad about him and i never tell them anything about guys so :/ like should i just drop it and leave him or give him a chance when he comes back and see what hes like? (link)
I Would Reccomend For You To Give Him Some Space . He Might Think That Yall Are Going To Fast Or He May Want Something Different From What Youre Trying To Offer .


I am 23 and 6 months pregnant. My boyfriend told me when I was a month pregnant he wants nothing to do with me or the baby, he added that the baby is not his. Well I have been working close to a year now and resently got permanent in the company.

No matter how stable my finances are I still feel he should be responsible for the up bringing of our unborn baby untill such age that is stated by the law. I am scared to tell them at work as I only got this permanent job 2 months ago.
My parents are very understanding of the situation but they dont really know how I feel. This is killing me inside.

Please advise on what to do or steps to take in this kind of situation. Thanking you in advance. (link)
In My Opinion As A Woman You Dont Need A Man . You May Want A Man For Intimacy And Other Emotional Reasons But Youre About To Be A Mother And In His Case He's Not Ready To Become A Man And He's Still On A Little Boy Level If He Wants To Deny His Child . You Have A Very Good Job And Looks Like Youre Able To Support Your Child By Yourself Physically But More Importantly Financially . You Dont Need To String Him Along . The More You Show That You Need Him The More He's Going To Distance Himself From You And The Baby . About The Baby Situation I Would Just Consider Getting Him Where It Hurts The Most .. His Pockets . If He's Not Ready To Be A Father There's No Way You Can Make Him . I Understand You Love Him That's Why It's Hard But For The Sake Of Your Baby Put Your Feelings FOr Him Aside And Focus On You And Your Babys Future (Which Is Way More Important) . And Its Not There Business What You Do After You Leave Work Unless You Want Them In Your Business About This . You May Feel Like He Should Be Responsible But Like Ive Said You Cant Make Him Be In Your Childs Life If He Dont Want To Be .


13/f 13/m, well, he was a new kid in 6th grade, barely talked until 2nd quarter. We started talking in Computer class we both signed up for. After that we became realy close friends. I really like him since the first few times we hung out. Everyone said that he likes me, but I never believed it. Then, he started dating my Best Friend 12/f and they lasted for 5 months and a month later she started dating my other Best Friend 12/m and they just recently broke up. I was always there for my crush. I didn't make him feel awkward around his ex I was always there. We both like goofing off and at reccess we head out to the Basketball Court and he's amazing. He can get a bunch of 3-pointers without trying and he NEVER misses the bankshot. I'm sure other people can do this, but he's the first I've seen. So, one time he asked for a hug I gave him one and my heart started beating a mile a minute, I had butterflies fluttering in my belly, and I literally got hiigh over his sexy cologne. The best par is that I don't know what it is, so I'm always surprised when I smell him. I really love him, then, on the last day of school we hung out at the water fountain because I was filling up a jug with another guy and I saw him walk towards me I dropped my cup and got my classmate wet so he had to dry off. He smiled his amazing, cute smile and just surprised me with a hug. When my classmate got out he took the jug in and I asked him if he could our advisory teacher that I was going to use the restroom, he said sure. I didn't use the restroom, instead he just took me in another hug that got me dizzy that I accedentally said to him, "You smell amazing." and to my surprise he said, "You smell amazing too. You smell like pretty flowers and your hair smells like strawberries." after he said that, I nearly burst out in joy! He and I just stood there hugging each other and enjoying each other's embrace and company. I wanted to kiss him on the cheek, but it didn't feel right because my other Best. (link)
The Way It Sounds He Doesnt Know That You Have A Crush On Hiim Or In Love Wiith Hiim Because The Signs You Are Showing Are More On A Friend Level . I Wouldnt Reccomend For You To Tell Him How You Feel Right Now Because For 1 Him And Your Best Friend Are Dating And You Wouldnt Want To Make Things Awkward For The Three Of You . But Are You Sure Youre In Love Or Lust . ?( Because Its A Very Biig Diiference ) . As Young Women We Rush Into Things Faster Than Boys Do And We Find Different Signs Than They Do . You Want A Relationship Now But He Might Want To B Friends Or He Might Not See You As A Girlfriend But More Of A Friend . If You Really Want To Be With Him There Are Risks You Have To Take . Fiirst If You And Your Friend Are Very Close Friends And She Knows That You Have A Crush On Him Then Maybe You Need A New Friend Because Obviously As Friends Those Are The Most Important Things Yall Suppose To Talk About And As A Real Friend She Wouldnt Date Her Best Friends Crush . I Would Reccomend That You Talk To Her About Yall Relationship And If Its Not A Sister Bond Then Its Every Man For Itself .. Meaning If You Like/Love Him Then You Oughta Go For It . As Long As You Hold It In Youre More Prone To Letting Someone Else Take Your Spot . The Main Risk You Should Be Willing To Take Is Finding Out If You And Him Are On The Same Page And If He's Not Then It Just Wasnt Meant To Be .




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