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i don't understand him about saying this!
Hi, we have been dating for 2 years. we love each other and we live together. he's a single father. he's defensive of his ex (well, that's what i reckon) and when i refer his ex girlfriend as an ''ex'' he says he doesn't think of her as his ''ex'' he says, she's the mother of his child and i say but she's still your ex because they broke up long time ago. so, guys my question is, is he still loves his ex or what is it? thank you all.
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As A Former Girlfriend You Should Be Able To Say What You Feel About His Ex But If He Always Gets Defensive About It Then Maybe He Still Has Feelings For Her And I Would Consider That You Take Time Out And Talk To Him About It To Make Sure You Know Exactly Where Hiis Heart Is At .
With You . ? Or With Her . ?
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Hey,I think in this situation you have to be honest with him and ask him if he has any feelings towards her especially since you guys have been together for 2 years,and you guys live together and your relationship is serious.Since he has a child,he will never forget his ex-wife and she might be on his mind because they have a huge thing in common,which is a child.So just know where you stand in this relationship and ask him what his ex-wife means to him.Just say what's on your mind and speak the truth,that's the only way you're ganna know how your relationship is going and how he feels about you and about his ex-wife,or as he likes to call her,the mother of his child.Goodluck.
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No matter what, He will always love his ex on some level. This is the mother of his child. Now as far as "loving" her this meaning many vary to basically loving her as a person, a mother to his child and loving her in a way where she gave him that child. This doesn't mean he has strong feelings towards her in a romantic way nor does he want to be with her.
A child is a very sensitive subject for many people but it gets even intense when someone shows signs of jealousy towards the ex. The jealous is more offensive as they are the other parent of the child. Meaning, If you insist she is an ex, While you may have a valid point in your statement he sees her as the mother of his child.
As I'm sure you understand that his child will always come first, His ex will not come before you unless it is regarding his child being in danger. Remember, YOU are his girlfriend not his ex. Like I've always said an ex is an EX-ample of what we've done wrong. ;)
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