Member Since: July 30, 2012
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Last Update: July 30, 2012
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14/f alot of stuff has happened in my life and so i never got a chance to really date in middle school. because alot of family issues and shit took me away from social life there was only one guy i liked and we were just really good friends and i think he liked me too. but we dont talk really anymore, though i want to change that hopefully. im going to date this year but idk i was just thinking like some people think 18 is old. but like anyone can say that im a really fun and all that, so im definitly not uptight about alot of stuff and i would not mind or care if i lost my virginity to my bf but my only thing is that i would do it when i want to with him and when im ready but i would be in a serious relationship though. but my sister is 18 and shes never really had a serious boyfriend, guys ask her out and shit but she turns them down becasue she doesnt want to waste her time on someone if shes not attracted to them or most of them were dbags good looking or not, thats mostly what happened with me. guys were never a priority to me or her but for her it was like all her life she basically was like if it happens it happens. and my sister is very like she dresses stylish but classy like she doesnt wear low cut stuff, me i dress nice too but if i go out with my friends i like to wear tight clothes sometimes, not slutty becasue i like my body plus me and her have different body types. shes short but very lean not a lot of muscle, skinny she doesnt do sports, and not really curvy. but im short and really curvy and skinny, and i do sports so im sure if she had my bod she would dress the same. anyway if you were to wait until 17/18 or even 19 to have sex with your boyfriend that you've been dating for a year or two is that like old? i know people are gonna say whenever your ready but really is that old? even if you guys say it is it doesnt mean im gonna lose my virginity to some dude when im 15/16 so idc just say what you want. thanks (link)
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It is defiantatly not bad at all to still be a virgin at 17/18 years old, if anything thats good! I lost my virginity at 13 and the regret I put myself through for that was unbearable, trust me, young girls should not bring sex into a relationship. It's far too complex and makes things stressful. Sure it may be great when your happy with your significant other but that doesn't mean sex will keep him around. To sum it up it's better to not have any sex until you know your ready not because all of your friends are doing it, or because a guy tells you he wants to. It's your body and your decision . Good luck and best wishes!
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im a 16 year old female that is having issues on weather to tell if my boyfriend is cheating on me or not and the situation is that he hasnt spoke to me at all barley in the last couple of days and i dont really have much trust in him for certain reasons and i dont know what to do or think.. (link)
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Ask him why he hasn't been speaking to you. And don't make the accusation of cheating to him unless you have proof to back it up. Assuming will kill any relationship, and when you are speaking to him about all this be blunt, and it would probably be best to do all this in person. Good luck!
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My mom won't let me get contacts and I am 13 years old. What should I do? (link)
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Make a list of pros and cons of having contacts and if the pros outweighs the cons in the list, then you should show your mom it and tell her all the reasons why you believe you should have them. Another thing that always works is earning them and after seeing all the work you have done to receive them she may consider it. Good luck!
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Hi, I'm a 15yo guy.
Er, there's this girl I really like. But I keep getting mixed signals from her.
Sometimes she's really nice to me, and calls/texts me. And sometimes she just doesn't.
I want to tell her I like her, I just don't know how, or if it's the right thing to do. (link)
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Tell her. Simple as that, even if your afraid of rejection at least you know that you had told her and all the burden of that will be lift off your shoulders. And when you are telling this girl that you care about be straight up with her and don't be afraid to be blunt because that is the best way to really get how your feeling about her out. Good luck and best wishes!
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