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Should I get breast implants to make my boyfriend happy
me and my boyfriend are both teenagers and live together most of the time. my boyfriend says that hes completely in love with me, he even has a tattoo of my name; but he has strayed from me a few times in the past and ive seen him jerking off a lot when he could be doing "stuff" with me i know he thinks im beautiful and stuff and we do have sex a few times a month but when were at parties i can tell hes cheeking other girls out. i know he has sexual needs im not fulfilling and hes just harmlessly enjoying himself, but i feel like i need to give him more, so im thinking about getting breast implants im only an A and all the girls he cheeks out and jerks to are this beautiful Cs and Ds. do think this is a good idea; if not what else would you consider i do?
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well dont change for anybody they should except you for who u are...changeing to make someone happy will proably make you sad,,and if u done that think of all the other guys whos going to stare at you maybe you should cut him of on sex teach him a lesson...and take care of your self sometimes you dont need a partner that bad to have sex alone...
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I think this problem is something you should be talking to HIM about.
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First no reputable Plastic Surgeon will even consider giving you implants until you are between 18 and 21. The reason is that puberty continues well past 18 for some people and until puberty ends there is a chance your breasts will grow.
Next is the cost. A good implant surgery costs $15,000 and up depending on the procedure you want and if you need to be expanded to accommodate the implant. This is consider cosmetic surgery and generally not covered by Insurance. For good results, meaning results that don't look like you have been enhanced it is going to cost more. The less expensive procedures will leave you with tell tale signs of enhancement.
There is nothing wrong with being small breasted. Especially if your small framed as well. Large breasted women complain of back pain from the weight of their big breasts. Your skeletal frame will only support so much breast weight. By having breast enhancement you may trade an imaginary problem for the real problem of having to support the weight of those implants. Something to think about.
Guys have a saying about breasts. Anything over a mouthful is a waste. Sure it is nice to look at big breasted women and there are men out their that like big breasted women. Most like me though like women who can look sexy without looking trashy. For women with really big breasts that's a stretch. Women with small breasts can dress well and look sexy at the same time. So think about this before you decide.
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Don't get breast implants- at least not yet. You're a teenager, so your body is still developing. In a few years you might grow to be a C or D. Wait until you're 25 and then consider if you still want one or not. Also remember that breast implants tend to lose their perkiness after 15 years.
In the mean time, work on your self esteem. This isn't really about you wanting larger breasts. This is about your insecurities. Most people still masturbate while in relationships. It's healthy and you don't need to be hurt by it. By exploring oneself, many people discover what they enjoy sexually so they can share it with a partner. When your boyfriend checks girls out at parties, it can definitely hurt. But do you ever check out other guys? People in relationships are human: they're always going to find other people attractive. As long as he isn't dwelling on other women or cheating you have nothing to worry about.
Start finding worth in yourself. Realize if he says you're beautiful, he isn't lying. Find what you love about yourself and cherish it. Larger breasts won't make your boyfriend love you more, and they won't make you love you more. Appreciate what you have now and love thyself.
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No, don't. It's next to harmless to check people out, you most likely subconciously do it. You should be happy with your boobs how they are, and shouldn't change them for someone else. If he says he loves you, he should love your A's too.
Also, if you aren't 'fulfilling' him, why complain about him jerking? Go fulfill him, tell him you love him sista!
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