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The other day I got my first period, but i'm to scared to tell my step mum? We're kind of close but I don't like really talking to her about that stuff. I sent her a message on her mobile not that long ago saying that I got my period, but she just ignored it :( Someone please tell me what to do because i'm really scared to tell her, seeings she's my 'step' mum. (link)
well she should be there for you if u had any questions..maybe you should call your mom you can only do so much and if they cared a little they will respond or come to your needs,,give a cpl days if she dont say nothing well maybe you should keep it to your self if one day she ever comes up to you and ask why you dont ask for help she will be the dum one...be strong life dont get eazyer just gets worse in life ..


me and my boyfriend are both teenagers and live together most of the time. my boyfriend says that hes completely in love with me, he even has a tattoo of my name; but he has strayed from me a few times in the past and ive seen him jerking off a lot when he could be doing "stuff" with me i know he thinks im beautiful and stuff and we do have sex a few times a month but when were at parties i can tell hes cheeking other girls out. i know he has sexual needs im not fulfilling and hes just harmlessly enjoying himself, but i feel like i need to give him more, so im thinking about getting breast implants im only an A and all the girls he cheeks out and jerks to are this beautiful Cs and Ds. do think this is a good idea; if not what else would you consider i do? (link)
well dont change for anybody they should except you for who u are...changeing to make someone happy will proably make you sad,,and if u done that think of all the other guys whos going to stare at you maybe you should cut him of on sex teach him a lesson...and take care of your self sometimes you dont need a partner that bad to have sex alone...


20/f
I was dating my now ex for almost a year but he ended up breaking up with me and breaking my heart. He was
the very first person i have ever really loved. He broke up with me and I ended up moving away cause things
just didnt work out to well for me. We talked and deciced that no matter what happened we would still be
best friends and always be there for each other. So my problem is we have been apart for a few months now but
i still really love him and would do anything to get him back and for a while he still really cared about me
but it seems like he is starting to care less and less about me and the last couple of weeks (i hate to say it)
he has been being a really big dick and huge jerk to me. he has made me cry every night for the last 2 3 weeks
and cause of it i have been getting very depressed so i dont know what to do any more. Should i stop talking
to him and try to move on with my life with out him, should i just give it some time and see how things go?
what should i do? i really love him and dont want to lose him and he is still my best friend and the only
person i can really talk to and trust but im afraid that im going to lose him. please help me. (link)
well he broke up with you .what that tells you its good you guys still good friends but you say u love him and he must not love you like he did before,,maybe you should forget about him and enjoy life he supposed to be a good friends ..friends help each othere out not make them cry or be a big dick..it seams he nows he can fall on you and you will jump well stop jumping loos his number if he calls tell him your out on a date and hang up and see if he really does care your 20 he aint the only guy out there learn from your mistakes ,,maybe he is a mistake and correct it..enjoy a night put and dont thionk of him,,you will be surprised how much fun u wuill have


So i have been dating this guy for about seven months (im 16 he's 17). I have decided that this is the guy I want to lose my virginity too. But im waiting till its been at least a year before i do. He's amazingly sweet and tells me he loves me for me and not how i look. But he's never seen me without closes on and my clothes usually cover up my "chub". Im not hugely big...but i would say that i am over weight. And last week we got into a heavy make out session and things got pretty heated. Now im just affraid when we finally do "do it" im gonna look stupid. I dont know how to handle this, help anyone?

PS: I dont need any talks about how i should be waiting anyways, so thanks but ill decided when im ready (link)
well he must like you the way you are ..wouldnt matter.......... if hes not complaining it should be ok then if he had something to say about your weight wouldnt he said it all ready he cares for who u are and what u would look like with or with out cloth...smile and what ever happens happens way of life


Well hey thanks for reading this well I'm on middle school and I'm not to Shure how to express my self all the time im really quite but I don't know what to say and and some think I'm boring but I'm not Im really not quite on the house or when I'm with my friends and I want to all see that I'm not boring I liked to have fun not be boring how can I show them I'm not boring and please don't tell me to be myself
If you read this thanks for taking your time (link)
well find something you all have in comen..or talk about what ever the other person is intrested in ..as they see you like what they like you will talk about diffrent things and they will se u aint a boaring person .maybe you are a good lisenter


I really want to learn how to ride a motorcycle and I also want to find the right one for me, but I don't quite know where to start. I looked up types of motorcycles on Google, but some of them look too big for me. I'm a petite woman and just about to graduate. I read in a review that for beginners who are on the small side should try a SV650 Suzuki? It doesn't quite help me much... Any ideas on how to start the search and maybe anymore helpful information I need before I start getting further into this? (link)
well ..first get your licsen and learn ..and try a honda or a yamaha they make nice size bikes for all hights .....u will enjoy it..just drive safe and dont drink and drive on a bike


So their is this girl that I really like a lot. I even have/had her brothers approval because he is my good friend and I wanted to make sure he was fine with it. Everything has been going very well, talking, even went out for a day and we both wanted to go out again. It was all going good until the other day when I got upset about something I have...
This girl really makes me feel happy and I didn't want this stupid condition to ever effect her if things ever went that far. I don't want it for anyone. So I was looking up a complete cure for it. Of course I knew their probably wasn't but I figured what the hell maybe their is...
So I looked it up and found some books on fully preventing it from happening. You still have it but it wont pass or happen if you do certain things with your life stile. I was skeptical so I figured I would wait. In fact I was going to ask the question on here. So I minimized the links and put a password on my computer and went to classes for the day.
I got home really late and opened my computer to do something and then left it unlocked spacing what was on their. Him and his roommate came over to get my roommate and I to play some cards. He said "Before we go you need a new background" and he opened my minimized explorer...
Of course he sees what I looking at. I don't know what to do. Or how he feels about me anymore. To cut to the chase it is, it is herpes. I hate it and it really sucks. I have only had sex with one girl and He she had only had it with two before me. I regret my choice not to wait until marriage but that is forgivable in a way. Well depending on the girl you find. And now I feel like since I have this and he knows I will not be good enough for his sister. Nor will she even want me. I wasn't going to hide it from her of course. But I figured if I at least found a way to completely prevent it from being contagious and happening I would be okay.
What should I do. I feel like I went from being on top of everything, to not being able to eat and I feel like crying my eyes out finishing this. I cried myself to sleep last night. I just don't want this condition anymore. It sucks and it is killing me inside... I feel like I will never find love because of it. (link)
so for whats going on in your life..but they have meds for that wouldnt cure it but can help,,just be protected at all times and read up more on it i now i got a friend he meet to this and she still cares and still with him..if she cares and uderstand shes the right one for you..have them except you for who u are dont let your pass stop you


I am a mature, single lady who is attracted to the man who owns the building where I have lived for almost two years. There is a bldg. manager so I never have to deal with him. We have said hello from time to time and I always felt the feeling was mutual. He is very successful and has four grown sons. He has always seemed to fight off any urge to get to know me. I have never seen him with any wife. Something is stopping him from seeing me. Perhaps his sons, or the fact that he is very wealthy might enter into it. I am very lonely and like him a lot. How can I get him to ask me for a luncheon date? (link)
well...maybe you can start by useing a pick up line next time you see him ask him....tell him you got a proablem you want to go out to eat but dont like eating alone ask him if he cares to hang out be bold ..some guys like that..if he smiles its all good if he says no thanks ..hes gay


Im 17 years old and i got arrested yesterday at walmart for stealing $280 worth of merchandise. This is my second time getting arrested (the first was for fighting at school) i was wondering what my punishment might be. I have to go to court on the 13th of febuary and i want to know what i should be expecting. I live in florida btw. Thanks ! (link)
aint florida and california have the 3 strike rule.. well 17 u still a minor 18 is a adult...well you learn from your mistakes here in milwaukee you get paper or community service...3 time you will be doing time to teach you a lesson but also gives you a record that people will not trust you when trying to get a job..if thats how you want your future uour in the right path..or stop what you doing gett a jod before is to late


I'm in a serious relationship with a girl and have been in a relationship with her for almost a year and a half. Everything is going great, and it's really looking like I could spend my life with this woman. We're both 18, and we spend most of our time together and we almost NEVER fight.

But a few days ago I found out something about myself... Ever since I was old enough to even think about this, I've known that I was heterosexual. But it turns out, I just never bothered to think otherwise. I didn't cheat on my girlfriend, but I saw something that turned me on. So it turns out I'm bisexual(my girlfriend is too), but I don't know how to tell her, especially since there had to be something to trigger my realization.

Does anyone have any advice on how I should tell her?

Thanks,
Anon (link)
sometimes to talk about something is better to joke abour it..maybe you should go to a gay club and tell her slowly its a 2 way street it would open diffent doors for bouth of you but once there open things might change and will be hard to go backand hope theres no rejections..shes bi u exceot that have a 3some and tell her u curious and see what she says maybe its better for bouth of you better to say what you want then cheat


Im a pastor and I have been married 19years but I started an emotional relationship as well as a sexual relationship with a young lady that I have been knowing quite somtime shes younger shes a member of my church and she has bee so supportive of my ministry and I feel as if I need 2 make a decision because I would 2 be with this younglady I ask my wife was she happy and she didnt answer me me and my wife dont even have sex Im still in the marriage for my kids but the affair has been going on for a year next month I just really see this younglady not being apart of my life I depend on her so much.help me! Im a 42 yr.old male (link)
42.....well why should you leave your wifey for a younger lady that will hurt ..you would be hurt if she left you for a younger guy would you..you married her cause you love yopur wife not for ..strining her along for getting something better,,love is still there ..surprise your wifey flowers take her out danceing..a night out eating steaks chat once you look in them eyes agian and that smile you will see shes the same sweet sexy lady you married way back she didnt ask to be hurt..she wouldnt hurt you


I'm 21 and my sister is 17. I'm fairly attractive, and a bit more attractive and popular than she is. When we were younger she very clearly had a crush on me, but I put an end to it and told her I'm just her brother and nothing more (when she told me she wanted to marry me some day). Now that we are both basically adults, its becoming clear to me that she still feels the same way.

She constantly seeks my attention, physical contact, and her body language is fairly obvious. Its a very weird situation for me to be in, and Ive basically been ignoring it, thinking she would grow out of it. I don't want to bring it up because it would just be weird. What should I do? (link)
well maybe you need to break her heart even if shes your sister its called tought love..bring a girl to the house or a girlfriend and hold her and make her laught in front of your sister maybe she will realise what shes doing is wrong and she will back off and your 21 hope u aint liveing at your moms house move out ..dude..


This girl and I are really good friends. I like her a lot, but Im not sure whether or not she's interested in me 100%. Im more like 60% certain.

Anyways, we have known eachother for a long time. I have never really made a move, but I was thinking of doing it soon. She tells me she loves me all the time and always texts me _< I dont get women sometimes.

Any advice? (link)
well be a friend stay in the friend zone ask her to hang out or a movie or come over to eat,,,and watch her see how she acts..is she acts a little shy and shows a smile whille glansing at you then yeah she had something for you if she act the same way like allways shes just a good friend..and good friends are hard to find makeing a move and dosent turn out right you lost a friend


One of my teachers has cancer. She missed a lot of school and was struggling to get grades for our class. She took one worksheet and took it for 3 different grades, 2 daily and 1 test. I know I got 100 on it, but when I checked my grade, it showed a 95, 100, & 80. I was really mad because I know she just made up the grades to get them entered in time. I tried emailing her about it a few times because she gets pissed when I try to talk to her during class. She never changed my grade and it messed up my 6 weeks and my semester grade because of this and it screwed up my GPA. Is it wrong that I'm mad about this? (link)
everybody got proablems she has your and cause her you have some as well sometimes is better just look the teacher in th eye and be the better pearson even do you now she did wrong and hold that grade in your hand and say thanks with a smile she might see she was wronmg and respect you for that


I'm a junior in a parenting class. And we have this activity to do. I need a story or a skit i can act out with puppets on sharing. It's for pre-schoolers so it shouldn't be a hard reading level. It can be basically anything along the lines of sharing, or friendships, manners, anything that can be followed with a song such as:

If you're friendly and you know it,
clap your hands.
If you're friendly and you know it,
clap your hands.
If you're friendly and you know it,
and you really want to show it,
If you're friendly and you know it,
clap your hands!
Substitute other "friendly" actions such as "wave hello" or "shake a hand" etc.

Thanks. (: (link)
change the lyrics..make it fun and funny have fun with it and see them smileing..


I ve a very big love handle due to lifting up my leg and ve been exercising but no show. I need help (link)
the love handles...well i done is grab dumbells like 5 or 10 pounds what ever is eazy for you...stand straight with one in each hand rase them over your head one at a time and just lean right then left what it does it will streach your side or love handles and do a cpl and every day do more and more u will be surprised ..but lovehandles are good to keep around for someone to hold


alright so im 14 and i dont know how to kiss my boyfriend. when we were slow dancing he leaned in to kiss me and i thought i knew but i so messed up. i ruined it. we tried again and i messed up i get so nervous and i havent had my first kiss so i kinda dont know how. (link)
maybe he wasent the right one ..in due time it will come out with thr right guy..let them gide you dont act like you now cause that will make you a follower and u want to be a leader learn and take it from there


13/f
Theres this guy in my class whos been bullying me and harrassing me and I just can't take it anymore. Today he just went to far, he slapped my books out of my hands,kicked me twice, and told me i'm a b****. I hate what he puts me thruogh and i'm scared. What should I do. Please help me. (link)
i being there ..not saying to do what i did..i stayed at the steps of the school waiteing for this bully and he showed up..i follow him and the last step i triped him and hit him with his own books..and smiled at him ever since he walked the othere way..so maybe you should just walk the othere way..and smile


Hi there.

I'm 19/F and I'm in college to become a Labor and Delivery Nurse. A classmate of mine got pregnant at 16 and had a daughter named Katelyn. When she was around 7 months old, she would bring her to my house and leave her with me for weeks, and weeks at a time. I woke up with her whenever she cried, I fed her healthy, ect. I fell in love with that little girl. Well, just recently, when she was a year and a half, that girl brought Katelyn over again, and she stayed for two months straight. I tought her her colors, numbers, and body parts.



Ever since then, I have fell in love with kids. I've been lookin online but so far no luck. Anyone know where I could find a job babysitting? I have my own transportation, I have a very reliable, flexiable schedule, ect.


Any ideas? (link)
as for your so called friend Katelyn shes no mother..seam like you deserve that child cause u got a good heart and got pattients for a loveing shild...why dont you try working at a daycare ..or working with court for kids people like you would show a good inpact on there little hearts..good luck and you will be a great mom..keep it up


i'm a teenage girl and i'm looking for an someone besides a therapist that can help me with my emotional problems that are caused by my family. ive only trusted my best friend with this but when i ask her how i can get help or make a change she has no idea or just wait till u move out(thats years away!!!!!!). my family has a lot of secrets, they don't treat me very well, and they don't consider my feelings or how their actions affect me. i have no trust left for anyone, but if theres no other way i will try a therapist; ive gone before and they only made things worse. at school, while playing my instrument, and in general i have stress blocks that limit me a lot, increasing my frustration; i feel like attacking people but i never do.(i don't have anger issues). is there another way to ease the pain? i'm at my breaking point!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
maybe you should just go talk to a priest...well at least they lisen and give you advice there also good liseners as well...its a place where you can get away relax and just think with out being disturbe..just try it ones it dont hurt to try...maybe you going to church to relax might change people treat you and might follow..one change will go a long way




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