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This guy is bullying me
13/f
Theres this guy in my class whos been bullying me and harrassing me and I just can't take it anymore. Today he just went to far, he slapped my books out of my hands,kicked me twice, and told me i'm a b****. I hate what he puts me thruogh and i'm scared. What should I do. Please help me.
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i being there ..not saying to do what i did..i stayed at the steps of the school waiteing for this bully and he showed up..i follow him and the last step i triped him and hit him with his own books..and smiled at him ever since he walked the othere way..so maybe you should just walk the othere way..and smile
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Report him for harassment. You don't deserve to be treated that way. Don't ever let anyone convince you otherwise.
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All I can say to this is, raise this issue at home with your parents. If that's not the case speak to your friend, teacher, anyone you can trust even the POLICE, because no one should be harrasing you nor bullying you. You need to stay up for yourself but stopping him.
One think Dont be scared and dont let it get to you. i know easy to say? right? but you can do this, I got though it so can you, speak to police to get this matter sorted.
Hope you can resolve this matter very soon! Good Luck and Stay Strong!
Marie
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Of the three other answers before me Zanes is the most correct. You tell a teacher or the school principal and your parents.
Bulling is a zero tolerance offence in schools today. You DO NOT HAVE TO FEAR TELLING ANY TEACHER OR THE PRINCIPAL. Once you or after you inform your parents inform the principal what is happening to you; the principal must take positive action to see to it that this stops. If the boy was to retaliate out of school it becomes a police matter as well. Something the principal will inform his parents of as well. If his parent are good people they will take him in hand.
Your parents also have the option of calling the police and making this a police matter as well as a school matter. This is entirely up to them. By slapping at you and kicking you he has assaulted you. He may be a juvenile but he has broken the law, in so doing and if your parents want, can have him face a juvenile master or judge.
You have a right to be in school and to be safe in school. He has no right to harass or assault you. Tell your parent tonight. Let them decide if this is a matter they will trust the school to handle or if they want to make this a police matter as well.
Trust me when I say as a parent your safety is of our upper most concern. Telling your parents is the right thing to do.
One last thing. Where I live many of the middle and High Schools have a Police Liaison Officer assigned to the School. One of this officers jobs is to protect children from bully's. There is no reason you can't go up to this officer and tell him/or her what is happening to you and how this boy is.
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I hate these kind of questions because its just not right. You should talk to a councilor or ANY adult.
Tell your parents,tell your teachers. Anything will help. Bullying is not right and that kid needs to get taught a lesson. I know you may be scared because well to me it seems that he has been doing this for quite a long time but once you tell a adult that you believe can help but rather really any adult things with come better. Yes I understand that when you tell you like considered a "snitch" no your not your just protection yourself so don't work about that. I have been in your shoes before and trust me if I have not done hat I told you I may have been stuck in the same situation.
Hope i helped.
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You tell an adult - Parent, Teacher, Counselor but you tell somebody.
You may be scared but what this kid is doing is wrong, You let an adult know what happened and you let them take care of it. These things can be solved but you need to let someone know asap.
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I'm really sorry that you have to go through that. You really should tell an adult or teacher (if it happens at school) that you trust about this especially because this sounds like it's been going on for awhile. I know that you're scared, but this will go on until you can tell somebody that will help and intervene. This guy needs to know that it is not okay to treat people like that. The adult or teacher should to their best to deal with it. Try to avoid the guy as best as you can and try to stay near other people at all times so he can't do anything without having witnesses until something is done. You'll be in my prayers and good luck with this :)
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