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What should i do about my ex
20/f
I was dating my now ex for almost a year but he ended up breaking up with me and breaking my heart. He was
the very first person i have ever really loved. He broke up with me and I ended up moving away cause things
just didnt work out to well for me. We talked and deciced that no matter what happened we would still be
best friends and always be there for each other. So my problem is we have been apart for a few months now but
i still really love him and would do anything to get him back and for a while he still really cared about me
but it seems like he is starting to care less and less about me and the last couple of weeks (i hate to say it)
he has been being a really big dick and huge jerk to me. he has made me cry every night for the last 2 3 weeks
and cause of it i have been getting very depressed so i dont know what to do any more. Should i stop talking
to him and try to move on with my life with out him, should i just give it some time and see how things go?
what should i do? i really love him and dont want to lose him and he is still my best friend and the only
person i can really talk to and trust but im afraid that im going to lose him. please help me.
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well he broke up with you .what that tells you its good you guys still good friends but you say u love him and he must not love you like he did before,,maybe you should forget about him and enjoy life he supposed to be a good friends ..friends help each othere out not make them cry or be a big dick..it seams he nows he can fall on you and you will jump well stop jumping loos his number if he calls tell him your out on a date and hang up and see if he really does care your 20 he aint the only guy out there learn from your mistakes ,,maybe he is a mistake and correct it..enjoy a night put and dont thionk of him,,you will be surprised how much fun u wuill have
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The biggest mistake for many is that we continue to try and remain friends with our exes. Unless you have children involved there should be NO need to still have them in your lives.
Move on, The guy is trying to guilt trip you. There is no such excuse for treating someone like shit no matter what the circumstances are. Why are you sitting around dwelling over it? You moved, You should take it as a chance to start over.
You are crying because you never gave yourself any time to get over the breakup. By remaining in contact you've prolonged your pain, The golden rule is if a relationship doesn't work out you let the person go. You do not try and create a friendship out of it because either you just get hurt more in the process or you end up with drama.
Cut the contact with him, Don't ever let a guy try and guilt trip you. You will never truly allow yourself to move on as long as you are in contact with the jerk anyway. Stop talking to him
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Cut your ties and move on. You haven't been able to heal because you've had no distance from this situation. He's moving on and it is clear to him that you are not. That is causing strain in how he deals with you. Do yourself a favor and stop relating to him at all. This will be hard, but trust me..as time goes by it will get easier. You'll be able to heal and maybe you will be able to be friends one day in the future but not now. Pull away right now before things get any uglier. Let your heart heal. You deserve that.
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I would suggest to move on. If you continue talking to him, it may only progress into a worse relationship. In the end making you insecure and self conscious. I understand, considering he is what you are use to, but do realize that there are many other men out there who will treat you way better than he did/does. Perhaps once you start dating again, he'll realize his error, but I would take precaution as it may turn out to the be same way as it was previously.
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