What does it mean when a girl tell you she loves you?
Question Posted Monday January 16 2012, 3:53 am
This girl and I are really good friends. I like her a lot, but Im not sure whether or not she's interested in me 100%. Im more like 60% certain.
Anyways, we have known eachother for a long time. I have never really made a move, but I was thinking of doing it soon. She tells me she loves me all the time and always texts me <3 (hearts) and stuff.
The thing is, I dont know if that means she would even be open to having a relationship with me. Is that a sign that Im permanently in the friend zone? Would someone want to go out with someone who they love? Arent you supposed to say you love someone after youre already with them?
Im really flustered and dont know how to feel >_< I dont get women sometimes.
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday January 18 2012, 9:26 am: How about instead of thinking about it just ask her. I can't give you an answer because I'm not her. And no one can give you the real answer because chances are she's not reading this question. The best thing you can do is to ask her yourself and see what she says. What's the worst thing she could say? No? And if she does say 'no' than at least you have your answer and you're not thinking about it so much. By not asking you are jsut driving yourself more crazy and you'll always regret not just asking her. Heck ask her out on a date and she how she reacts to that. Good luck! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
nancydrew14 answered Monday January 16 2012, 2:02 pm: if you guys have been friends for a while, she would feel comfortable enough who she likes, unless the guy is your best friend, or even you.... if a girl tells you she loves in person a lot and she looks into your eyes and says i love you, then she means it, because girls dont go around saying i love you to everyone.... if she sends you a text saying i love you<3 she might also mean it... if she says it repeatedly she wants to show you how she feels, but she's scared if you feel the same way or not... if she's been hiding her feelings for you, she doesnt have to love only after you guys start dating... many people love each other before they start dating... ask her who she likes, and she feels uncomfortable and starts swaying and smile and laughing and says nobody, or oh he would never like me back, or this guy.... she's probably hiding the fact she likes you.... just tell her how you feel and if she doesnt like you back, you deal with it and move on.... just go for it, give it a shot.... this is all i can tell you right now.
hope this helped.
take care
Ms. Nancy [ nancydrew14's advice column | Ask nancydrew14 A Question ]
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