I have this "friend" and her dad abuses her alot..... shes thinking of suiciding... What should "she" do?
Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem....
have you ever thought of reporting "her" dad??
it might help a lot.... remember in the end everything is going to be okay, if its not okay then its not the end :)
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So usually I'm the dominant one in the bedroom but last night my boy caught me off guard and well I decided to allow him to take charge for a change. I've never had anything up/in my butt, only out so yes I was very nervous first we used a toy and surprisingly enough, I really liked it. Well we later moved on to actually having him enter my backdoor, it was all well. But today it's now 12 midnight and I haven't pooped in 26 hrs, since we had anal. Is it normal? I've ate normally, there wasn't any aching or soreness at all in the morning. This is new to me, so yes I'm a bit nervous and probably over reacting. He said it was normal but I'm sketchy, so if anyone can tell me before I decide to face my doctor embarrassingly about it, much appreciated!
19/f
well a lot of people say that anal sex is good when you're constipated.... try it again, and if it doesnt work im sorry about that...
hope it helped...
Ms.Nancy
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This girl and I are really good friends. I like her a lot, but Im not sure whether or not she's interested in me 100%. Im more like 60% certain.
Anyways, we have known eachother for a long time. I have never really made a move, but I was thinking of doing it soon. She tells me she loves me all the time and always texts me _< I dont get women sometimes.
Any advice?
if you guys have been friends for a while, she would feel comfortable enough who she likes, unless the guy is your best friend, or even you.... if a girl tells you she loves in person a lot and she looks into your eyes and says i love you, then she means it, because girls dont go around saying i love you to everyone.... if she sends you a text saying i love you
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So i met tis guy and i never thought i would like him..but as i got to know him i reeaallyy like him(: so i told him i did and turns out, he feels the same way..yestarday he told me he loves me for the first time!! I was so happy. We started talking about a relationship but he told me he isnt sure because he dosent want to "f up" the friendship we have :( i was sooo upset. U cant tell someone u love them and not want to atleast try a relationship. I was heartbroken and ow i dont know what to do.. i only like him and i dont want to just act like friends wih benefits. I want to be with him...its just to weird saying "i love you too" when we r just friends.
this is what I tell all of my friends, give it a go..... talk to him and seriously, if its ment to be it will be.... and if things end up "f***ed up" talk about it... TALKING IS KEY, to every relationship, friends, more than friends, friends with benefits, and boyfriend/girlfriend... yes, if you ever do break up things are going to be awkward in the beginning specially, right after the break up... you should tell him how you feel, and say you should give it a try....
DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT I GOING TO HAPPEN IF YOU GUYS BREAK UP!!! just enjoy the moments you are together....
hope this helped
Ms. Nancy
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i am with a very very good guy. perfect in most peoples eyes. For me there is alot missing. emotionally we dont connect for. for him everything is perfect. i dont feel he is the one. but every adult ( i am 22 he is 28) in my life is teling me u can learn to fall in love. is it true? should i stay with him just cause he is a good guy and we have a 1 year old together? am i crazy for feeling that it just isnt enough?
If there's no emotion, you should move on, specially if you have a 1 year old baby, because, the child will grow up used to the fact that he/she doesn't have a dad.... but if you stay with him, and your child grows up, and then you two separate, the kid is going to suffer a lot. remember your choice doesn't affect only you, it affects your child too, and you don't want your child to go through hard times when they are older. just because you have a child together doesn't mean you are obliged to stay together.... there are other nice guys out there, and you're 22, you should be able to somewhat raise a child specially because you brought it to life. if you feel like you can find another guy and fall for some other guy, you should break up, but if you don't then you stay together... and if you do stay together, you might end up cheating, because you don't know how much you would be hurting your partner... yes, you can learn how to "love" a person, but if a baby didn't do it, then it is going to be hard to learn.... I'm not telling you to break up with him, nor to stay with him, I'm just telling you what would be better if you do break up...
hope this helped, and remember Im not a professional, I am some one on the outside giving my opinion...
Ms. Nancy
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I'm talking to this guy, and he likes me so I want him to really feel it! I want to get him hard, but how do I do it over a phone conversation??
just moan
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My boyfriend really thinks im am or going to cheat on him and sometimes it makes me want to give up on us. Some people say it could be him cheating but dont want to be the only one doing wrong. I hope hes not and know i love him so much. What u think?
When guys constantly accuse you of cheating, usually means they are cheating on you... I know its hard to maybe think about this possibility, but it can be true... I think you guys should sit down and talk about this, and if he flips a=on you when you talk about the cheating thing, he is most likely cheating... and it sucks that he might be cheating, because then he doesn't deserve you... and if things turn to the worst, you guys should at least take a break from each other and talk about it later.... I hope it helped
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So , here's my story . Im using made up places cause i dont want to say where i really live .
I lived in lolliepop land with my mum . I had a big fight with my friends . So , i moved to unicorn forest . Annd , its been about 7 or so months since i moved and me and my friends have made up . My dad said i could move back and live with my mum at the end of this year . And i was talking to my mum , and shes said i have to go to a school i really dont want to go to .
So , i either stay here with my dad (I hate his wife and her kidss)
Or go back to my mum ( And go to a school i hate )
Which one do you think is a good choice :$$$$ ?
You should move back, because school will end soon, and then you can go anywhere you want, if you made up with your friends it will make the school not as bad.... but if you choose to stay you'll have to learn how to tolerate a new family you don't like... I know how bad that sucks, but I have no mom to go to... but You should go back to your mom, and your friends, remember school only lasts for a certain period of time... then you're free to go where ever you want, or you can ask your mom to transfer you out of that school and put you some where else. I hope this helped.
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My dad pasted away Thursday and his funeral was on Saturday (yesterday). I was out of town when he died and my mom told me that if I wasn't able to get back on Saturday before the funeral that she would post-pone it. I was able to find a plane back Friday night so I called her and told her that she didn't need to post-pone anything.
Well, my plane was delayed until Saturday morning. When I called her then, my Aunt picked up (my dad's sister not my mom's) and told me that it was too late to push anything back because everything was ready. I asked to speak with my mom and she wouldn't let me. I couldn't reach anyone else so I was forced to miss it! If that isn't the most fucked up thing ever I don't know what is. My mom didn't even know about it until I didn't show up.
All my family from my dad’s side are assholes and the only thing they ever wanted from my dad was his money. We're pretty well off and they've visited him at the hospital while he was sick. They came maybe once or twice in 7 months. And I HATE that people like that that didn't even deserve to be at the funeral or even know a great man like my dad got to be there and I didn't!
Everyone came over last night to "be there for us" and my dad's family stood away from everyone else and sat in a circle by themselves joking and stuff. They didn't even try to comfort my mom who couldn't get off the couch all night because she couldn’t stop shaking and crying. Her siblings were the only ones around her.
I couldn't go downstairs where everyone was because of them. I didn't want to see any of them. I know that upset my mom and my brother and sister even more but I just couldn't.
I'd give anything to have my dad back. His family can take all of our money, cars, house, whatever they want if we could have him for a few more years. I was taking to my brother about that and my aunt heard (the one that told me it was too late to post-pone the funeral) and she told me that I needed to stop being selfish and that I should be happy that I at least have those things. So I told her to shut up and leave my house. My mom heard that and told me to go back up stairs.
I don't know what to do. I wish it were them that were gone not my dad. I don't know what to do.
First, I'm really sorry for your loss... we all go through this at one point in life... I know its hard to lose a parent, I lost my mom a few years ago, and I still haven't gotten over it... but you have to accept the fact that there are people like this in the world and that they will try to hurt you, but there is nothing you can do about it, they will eventually die.... I know it hurts, but you'll learn how to live with it, and don't wish for anyone's death, because that is not a good thing to do, specially for your head... just let them talk... everything they say comes in a ear and goes out the other... you don't have to listen to them anymore, they're not your family, just don't be disrespectful, so you don't get in trouble with your mom... I hope this helped
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