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My crush is confusing me :( advice
So i met tis guy and i never thought i would like him..but as i got to know him i reeaallyy like him(: so i told him i did and turns out, he feels the same way..yestarday he told me he loves me for the first time!! I was so happy. We started talking about a relationship but he told me he isnt sure because he dosent want to "f up" the friendship we have :( i was sooo upset. U cant tell someone u love them and not want to atleast try a relationship. I was heartbroken and ow i dont know what to do.. i only like him and i dont want to just act like friends wih benefits. I want to be with him...its just to weird saying "i love you too" when we r just friends.
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Guys don't say crap like, "I don't want to get with you because I don't want to screw up the friendship we have." There is always some ulterior motive when you hear that garbage. That can include:
1. He loves you as a friend but isn't "in love" with you. In other words, you're on the friend list.
2. He's gay but in the closet. Yes, he loves you as a friend, but prefers guys.
3. Is playing you.
So if you're asking if there is a chance you two will get into a relationship the answer is yes, but only as his sexual play toy to be used when he finds it convenient.
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this is what I tell all of my friends, give it a go..... talk to him and seriously, if its ment to be it will be.... and if things end up "f***ed up" talk about it... TALKING IS KEY, to every relationship, friends, more than friends, friends with benefits, and boyfriend/girlfriend... yes, if you ever do break up things are going to be awkward in the beginning specially, right after the break up... you should tell him how you feel, and say you should give it a try....
DON'T WORRY ABOUT WHAT I GOING TO HAPPEN IF YOU GUYS BREAK UP!!! just enjoy the moments you are together....
hope this helped
Ms. Nancy <3
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tell him how you feel
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