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Im to scared to tell my mum i got my period..
The other day I got my first period, but i'm to scared to tell my step mum? We're kind of close but I don't like really talking to her about that stuff. I sent her a message on her mobile not that long ago saying that I got my period, but she just ignored it :( Someone please tell me what to do because i'm really scared to tell her, seeings she's my 'step' mum.
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well she should be there for you if u had any questions..maybe you should call your mom you can only do so much and if they cared a little they will respond or come to your needs,,give a cpl days if she dont say nothing well maybe you should keep it to your self if one day she ever comes up to you and ask why you dont ask for help she will be the dum one...be strong life dont get eazyer just gets worse in life ..
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Mom is waiting, I'm sure, for you to come to her rather then for mom to constantly ask you or to discover for herself when she does the laundry.
Getting your period is a natural part of a woman's life. No different than growing breasts. There is nothing to be embarrassed about and certainly nothing mom doesn't know about. Fact is even dad's know all about a woman's periods and what is needed for a woman to properly care for herself. This is all part of the facts of life when becoming an adult.
Mom and or dad need to know when things are happening to you. When you are not feeling well and what is wrong. If you are experiencing any pains, especially pains in the area of your reproductive organs.
While it is hard for teenagers to believe, we as parents know all about this stuff. It is our primary lot in life to keep our children healthy and safe. We need to know when something is wrong so we can help you make the right decisions to get whatever is bothering you taken care of.
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Heyy, trust me dont worry about telling her! shes a girl too, she goes through the same thing. it might be a little embarressing at first but we cant help it. it 100% natural. she'll get you the supplies you need to take care of it. plus, it would be very embarressing if you bled through your clothes at school, or even at home. and another thing is, it could be worse if you had to tell your dad.
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hey don't worry about it haha. its even more embarrassing when you have to tell your dad instead.. haha
She probably didn't get your text, or is in the middle of something important and can't reply right away. Maybe you should try writing a note and leave it somewhere you're sure she will see. Include in the note how you feel such as, I am embarrassed to tell you but I hope you can understand and help me.
GOod luck!
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It's always hard to tell your mum/step mum thigns like this because it's so intimate and you've never really spoken about intimate things before.
Just go up to her when she's alone in a room and theres little chance of anyone disturbing you.
Remember she had to tell her mum once, and she'd probably feel quite relieved you told her, as it shows alot of trust. It's always going to be hard, but it's best to tell her verbally. The problem is if you write her a note/send her a text she may not know how to react, and may find it hard to bring it up into conversation once again. This way you're getting straight to the point and she'll be able to give you feedback right away.
Good luck and seriously it's no big deal :)
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