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What does this mean?
Before I ask the question, I am 17 and the girl is 15. I met this girl the other day, and we hit it off immediately. All of our interests are the same, and we have identical senses of humor.
We were hanging out today watching a movie, when she suddenly hugged me, nuzzled her head in my chest, and then looked up at me. She said, "please don't push me off," lied down with her head in my lap, and fell asleep.
Or so I thought, but I think she might have been pretending. I put my hand on her upper back, because anywhere else could have been inappropriate, and then she rolled over so my hand was on her chest, and started gently and playfully nibbling my thigh while she was "asleep" and when I muttered something, she physically responded by biting a bit harder.
So, what do you think this means? Does it mean she likes me; does it mean she's trying to rush into something probably too fast; does it mean she's just the weird girl that I hit it off with so well and she's just already that comfortable that she fell asleep on me?
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Sometimes girls think all a guy wants is sex, so it could just be that she likes you and she wants you to like her back.
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I think she's warming up to the idea of liking you. I don't know if she truly likes you though the only one who would know that would be her. If she's is already 'asleep' in your lap that means she's comfortable with you. It seems like me though she's playing around with you by her 'sleeping'. I would get to know her more and see what you think. You need to get to know the girl to see if you like her too. Good luck!
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I 100% agree with Rahzie
On top of agreeing I am going to be just flat out blunt...
The girl is 15 years old and very immature. Sounds like she doesn't really respect herself enough to get to know you and value your friendship. Any girl that is trying to seduce someone hours after meeting the person is obviously someone who got some insecurity issues never mind lack of noggin. This behavior would concern me, If she tried to seduce me in a very forward manner not only would I probably tell her that she is being inappropriate but I would likely bolt as in my eyes that a bit of a red flag. Again, Like Rahzie said below she wasn't sleeping, She is just clumsy. Cut it off and meet someone who doesn't go off and draw the wrong attention on herself
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Does she like you? Probably. Does she have poor judgement and a willingness to immediately sexualize a relationship with someone she meet only hours earlier? Absolutely.
What she did wasn't so much about being 'comfortable with you', as it was about clumsily trying to seduce you and making herself sexually available to you.
She is trying to rush into sexualizing your friendship - very fast. Sounds like it was a bit too fast for you.
I'm sorry to be so harsh, but a fifteen year old girl basically just behaved the way you'd expect a drunk twenty-four year old in the back of a cheap limo to behave. She was not asleep. She was clumsily and obviously tying to seduce you. If a guy had behaved the way she did to a girl, the world would call it sexual assault. She crossed some serious lines.
So, you like her, but are wierded out by her behaviour? Good. You should be wierded out by her behaviour. If you are smart and respectful and NOT just trying to bang a fifteen year old, then this should make you uncomfortable. She has shown that she might have very different interests and values. If you want to have a friendship with her, next time you hang out, set some physical boundaries that you are comfortable with and let her know, tell her straight up, that she doesn’t have to be so sexualized to get your attention and that you aren’t comfortable rushing into that kind of relationship.
If she just wants someone to want to fuck her, and make her feel good about herself, she'll walk away the moment you express an interest in a actual relationship. If she just made a poor judgement call getting so physical with you so fast, it might be the start to something awesome.
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