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Long distance relationship
Hi everyone,
So I've been in an- on-and-off relationship with this guy . It gets very hard sometimes not being able to see him for months at a time but I'm trying to move where he lives soon . & if that dosnt happen by this may I was gonna buy him a plane ticket here . But....... Today I asked him if he was willing to wait for me n he said " he would try his best" . Then I asked him " what If a girl asks u out , are you gonna go out with her? N he replied most likely not ... This mad me really upset :( n I began to cry .., did I overact? How would u take this? Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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I've been in two long distance relationships and I know you don't want to hear this but they didn't work out. I'm not saying it won't work out for you but it is really hard. If it's been on and off that can be a bit difficult. What was the reason for it being on and off? Was it because of the distance? Or was there an argument?
I know you want to do anything and everything to make this work but you have to think about it realisitically. Letting love control you can make things complicated and sometimes unrealisitic. I've had boyfriends that wanted me to move to different states so we could be together. As much as I cared for them, I knew it wasn't the right decision. Where I live now is where my life is, my family, my friends, and my job. To pack up and move to another place and start my life over I knew wasn't in the cards for me. As much as I wanted to I listened to my head instead of going with my heart. The other thing too was I'm not married to either one of them so what if something was to happen? Do I have somewhere to go after? I of course got blamed by both guys for 'ruining' the relationship and they ended after. Please think before making a decision because if you don't you might be faced with consequences later on! Good luck!
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Well you know him better than us so my thoughts are this could go 2 ways .... 1) he could be frustrated you haven't moved near him yet or 2) maybe he's not on the same page as you ... How does he act to you ??? I'm also in a long distance relationship and my sig other tells me how much he misses me and wants to be near me. Also he talks about our future together - remember don't settle for anything less than
What you want ! Hope this helps a little.
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