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I really wanna runaway, I'm not abused or anything, but I don't really get out much, and I wanna have an adventure. I read into it and learned that if I'm caught I could get a police record or have to see a psychologist. I have family members who are cops, and live in New York, so can someone tell me what I need to do? BTW, I'm 10. (link)
Do not run away!! Face your problems. Be stronger than you are. Ive wanted to run away when I was about 13. Im 16 now but don't do it, your family loves you wether u think they do or not. It will be a big mistake!! & on your record!


Okay so I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. We've talked about kissing and he acted like he would the next time he got the chance. He has had a couple of chances but hasn't taken them. I'm to nervous to make the first move because its my first kiss and this would be his third. How do I let him know without completely just telling him? (link)
im 14 and i had the exact same problem last year .. i really liked him and we havent kissed and i explained to him i never had my first REAL kiss and i wanted him to do it first, he was SOOOO stuborn and he was scared too even though he's kissed a few girls in his life.. I ended up kissing him, honestly i messed up but if he likes u enough he'll help you learn (: I was sooo nervous but i did anyways.. i put my arms around his neck .. got extra close to him .. and he got the hint but i did it unexpectedly .. GOOD LUCK !!! Its not that hard honestly ... once u do it ull be a pro , trust me


im 15. how do you makeout. (link)
Get close to eachother. Have a clear mind. Try not to freak out or worry too much becuase you may try to hard and mess up. Kiss repeatedly. And someone will open their mouth and you will start making out. It honestly isnt that hard. I leanred this year and if he's willing to teach you and be patient things will be 10 times better :) good luck


well i am 14 and female and i am so afriad to just kiss a guy , i don't know why i just am so scared i will suck at it or mess it up , everyone around me is kissing their boyfriends and i want t kiss mine but i have the fear of being bad

any tips or advice to help me out would be so great
thanks:) (link)
Just get close to eachother , look in his eyees and kiss him. Try to do it alone or when no one is paying attention cause it makes things alot easier and better for you. Talk to him about it maybe?? See what he likes .. Good luck :)


what do you do if a guy moves in to kiss you and then dont do it and the other day he put his lips really close to mine who should make the first move me or him????? (link)
If he puts his lips close .. there is a purpose .. i had the same situation with my boyfriend and when he does it i kiss him because he's pointing it out in a way .. you know what i mean? just kiss him when he comes close or you can tease a little if you get to nervous then he'll eventually kiss you ;)


Hi. Well my bf broke up with me after going out for 3 days. How do I get him back . (link)
You shouldnt want him back. If he broke up with you after 3 days he isnt worth your time ..


Is it ok to be taller than your boyfriend? Im a couple inches taller than him and my friends say its weird... (link)
thats howme and my boyfriend were .. he grew and now he's like 2 inches taller then me but it isnt weird..if you two dont care then other people shouldnt either


How can I painlessly commit sucide? I do not want my wife or son to find me so I will most likely kill myself in a public restroom. (link)
why would you do something like that? think about your son and wife and how they'll feel.


last night i was looking at my boyfriend Facebook and some girl posted a status saying "I hate sleeping alone, I need a boyfriend with money" he clicked on like and told her "I have money, a living room and a kitchen" she just said "hehehe" but every time she wrote something he would like her comment! There is another girl that i don't want him talking to because she has feelings for him and he knows this. Well last night she wrote a status saying"I didn't went to school!~My clock" He licked her status. Why would he do that.? I just don't understand him. I don't want to tell him anything because I already talked to him about it, but look now. Im so confused. What do you suggest me to do? or if you were in this situation what would you do? :'( (link)
He is an ass. He shouldnt treat you like that. If he has time to flirt with some girl on facebook he doesnt deserve you. I've been in that situation and me and him talked about it but it didnt stop. I say move on. Good luck :)


I have a REALLY low self esteem, and absolutely no confidence and I don't know how to change that. I feel disgusted when I look in the mirror and I'm ashamed that others look at me. My smile is horrible, I need braces very bad but my dad won't take care of it. I constantly amnhiding my smile, covering my mouth every time I laugh, or looking down or away if possible. I'm skinny and don't have any boobs and I'm not up to societies standards and that bothers me greatly. I keep wishing I can change things about myself when I already know I can't. I just want to know if there's a way to increase my self confidence, or self esteem somehow (link)
Baby. Don't feel that way about yourself. I'm 14 , I think I'm soo ugly and stupid and don't belong here. My dad died when I was 5 .. ever since I've been down and cry myself to sleep. Evertime someone says something negative I want to cry. It can be the littlest thing in the world but I wanna be perfect and feel loved and smart again. I have NO boobs at all. Im a 34A stll. The only person that makes me feel better about myself is my boyfriend Justin. He's the only person that's been there for me. I cut myself & over dosed but he's still here. You have to find someone who will be there for you and respect you for you. Dont feel down cause there will always be at least one person there.


I've been going out with my boyfriend for a month and he wants to finger me. I'm going to let him, but i don't know what to do before he starts fingering me or whilst he's fingering me. And what feels best? I'm nearly 14 (link)
Umm .. I'm 14 years old and honestly I'm scared to show off my body to anybody. I'm really insecure BUT try to finger yourself first .. then see how you feel and maybe trust him enough to do it. But personally I think no because its only been a month . I been with my boyfriend for 2 years and he still hasnt done it. Sorry but I think no. He should respect you mroe then that.


ok, so i have been dating this guy for almost 2 years, and im turning 14 in a month... his dad is really strict about kissing and stuff so we havent kissed yet... he rarely even holds my hand... but we hug all the time... he knows i want him to kiss me... but im scared to actualy talk to him about it... i dont know what he will say about it. i really dont know what to do, any advice? (link)
I can totally relate to you. Me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 and a half years. I just turned 14 last month. If he wont kiss you, you have to kiss him. My boyfriend would not kiss me cause he was also scared. Soo I decided before I left to kiss him and I did. It wasnt as hard as I thought. Now we kiss ALL THE TIME. But it all depends on your boyfriend. If he's patient, carefull, and trustworthy. Good luck ;)


Okay. I'm 13 I DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX SO DON'T SAY THAT!! Haha. I Just Want To Make My Boyfriend Horny Hehe. It Is SO Hilarious WHen Guys Are Horny! The Look ON His Face And His Actions Have Me Rolling On The Floor Haha. SO WHat SHould i Do? (link)
I'm 14 years old . What I do is I play hard to get . He always expects me to come over and kiss him and hug him right away but I make him wait a little while . When he starts to get over it and wanna play around I let him kiss me and take control . We would play around, tongue kiss, and just cuddle . He usually climbs in between my legs and starts kissing me. I'm still a virgin but I can alwats have fun XD




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