I am 15 years old.
My b-day is in october.
I go to San Pedro High School.
I have 4 lil sisters, 2 lil brothers, 2 older sisters, & 2 older brothers.
I've been through alot of shyt in my life, Im always wanting my past to disapear, :(
Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: straight
Age: 15
Member Since: June 5, 2009
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I flirt with basically any boy I hang out with. It's getting insane, like to the point where I find myself flirting with my friends' younger brothers! (Not in a pedophilic way. They obviously aren't ten years old or anything, but they are still significantly younger than me.) It's not like the flirting ever turns into anything and I don't mean anything sexual by it, but it tends to be my automatic reaction and it's weirding me out. Fix it? 17f. (link)
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im a big flirt myself and like i cant help it, the guys i flirt with are hot...(but i stop myself when im in a relationship)
some of my old friends got pissed off at me because i flirted with alot of guys and i told them that i cant help it...and they dont relize that do it alot to...
dont mean to sound all smart a**...but, flirting is a characteristic that most people have and it's harmless...
hope this helped:)
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When I'm on my computer at night, all I do is msn and facebook. I've been getting quite bored with it. Is there anything else I can do? I've been playing solitaire and stuff like that, but that's about the only game I like. I like playing the sims though (hoping for the sims 3 any time soon!) So has anyone got any suggestions? :/ (link)
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you can get a myspace account.
also you can get off the computer every other night or so and treat your self to something nice, or clean your hour house or something like that
hope this helped:)
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this will be long, but i will return the favor to anyone who is generous enough to read(:
alright lets get the facts straight:
i just turned 19, the guy i like his name is joe, just turned 18. me and joe have been friends for about 6 years now. joe has been dating his girlfriend for 3 straight years.
the thing is, im IN love with joe. i've been in love with him but he loves his girlfriend. i cant get over him, we use to be best friends. we use to hangout ALL THE TIME, before his girlfriend came along.
i can't keep joe off my mind, seriously he's on my mind 24/7 im not kidding, i even dream about him (weird...) even when i was on vacation i thought about him. when im with my friends i think about him. when i'm at work, i think about him. when i'm with another guy, i think about him more. no matter what i'm doing or where i am, i think about him.
the HORRIBLE thing is, i can't get away from the situation. one of my best friends, is my cousin and guess what? joe is my cousins NEXT DOOR neighbor so everytime i'm at my cousins i get to see joe's girlfriends car over there and it kills every single time.
i'm SO vulnerable when i'm with joe. when we hangout alone, which is like hmm, once every FOUR months he always tries getting with me. i've never done anything with him but god i want to so bad. even though its so wrong because he has a girlfriend ive never been so comfortable with any other guy.
i tell joe alot, he's always there for me. when i cry, he holds me and tells me everythings going to be okay. when i laugh, he smiles. when i look sad he always knows and asks "whats wrong, cheer up" and even when i say "nothing's wrong..." he always knows there is.
i'm not happy unless i'm with joe. i see him probably once a month because hes with his girlfriend 24/7. she sleeps over at his house, he's been to her cabin, she's been on trips with his family and that hurts soooo bad. his brothers and sisters adore me, everytime i see them they scream my name and come give me a hug.
i've never told him i've had feelings for him but i know he knows by how i talk to him, how i flirt with him. but what good is it doing? i'm obviously not good enough for him to break up with his girlfriend. and i dont want things to be awkward between us.
i love how so many girls think hes hot, but no matter how many girls throw themselves at him he will never act different around me. his current girlfriend, has been his only girlfriend. the things he does sexual, hes only done with one girl, and thats his girlfriend.
i rememeber about two years ago this guy i was interested in broke my heart and all i could say is "i need joe, i need to talk to him" because he truly makes me happy.
i honestly don't know what to do. my friends say, move on. you deserve better than him. but its not that easy! i've tried, i cant just let someone whose been in my life for six years just go away like that.
we barely text anymore because of his girlfriend. his girlfriend is the ONLY person who makes me cry because i know that she has him, and hes the only thing i want.
any suggestions? i'm so lost. i seriously realized i love this boy. my heart is broken. it breaks everyday when i wake up and realize he's still with her. i've tried meeting new guys, it doesnt work.
anything will help!
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i know what you're going through...the same thing is kinda happening to me except that im not sure if i love him
and i know how much you must be hurting, but he has been with his girlfriend for 3 years so here's a few suggestions:
1. call him and tell him that you really need to talk to him about something incredably important(you can even say it's an emergancy), and when he comes over tell him how you really feel and tell him that if he dosen't aunoustly feel the same way that you guys can still be friends...(if he says he doesn't really feel that way about you, give him a couple weeks or so and he might come around for you)
2. dont talk to him for about 3 or 4 months or so and date like you never dated before(lol), try as hard as you can to get him out of your head, i know that you're thinking that you've already tried your hardest but i know that you can do better.
o snaps gtg
hpe this helped:)
good luck
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I've been looking at different websites to see if it's good for you. And all of them say it's healthy and good for you. But my question is for girls. One of my ex's didn't like that I did it and was hurt when she found out I would watch porn. I just want to know how other girls feel about it? Do you think it's harmless to your relationship and good for your boyfriend, or do you think it's bad and means he doesn't love or care about you? (link)
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coming from a 15 year old chick i aunoustly don't care if a guy i'm with watches porn and masterbates, as long as he washes his hand after...lol
i don't know why she would be so grossed out by it, i mean it's natural and yea human..(not saying that i do it, but plenty of guys i've been with have watched porn and masterbated)
hope this helped:)
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I've been dating this guy for 9 months, and he treats me like crap, we dated for 4 months before that and he cheated on me, i lost my virginity to him and we almost had a baby together, we lost it at 8 weeks.
Ive been friends with this guy Ricky since 8th grade, I'm now a senior in highschool, i like Ricky but i love my boyfriend even though he treats me like crap, he always sucks up to me and i get sucked back in I've tried to brake up with him in the past but he always tells me things will change and i seriously feel as though i CAN'T break up with him i don't know why, thats just how it feels.
Ricky and i have been wanting to hook up since we like met but we just never did. Last night he told me that he liked me and he always tells me that my boyfriend is a loser and treats me like crap and i can do better. I do like Ricky but when we were talking last night we both came up to a conclusion that until we got to know each other better we should just be friends with benefits, we don't want to get attached for the wrong reasons though. We both want to hook up, and its not like im a whore and do that a lot Ive never had sex with a guy and not be dating.. and Ive only had sex with 2 guys. He isn't a player either, he hasnt had a girlfriend or sex in over a year because he simply is waiting for someone he likes, he told me he does like me but we just want to take things slow (besides the sex part)
I'M NOT GOING TO CHEAT ON MY BOYFRIEND.
I'm actually not even sure if we are still dating at this point because i called him out and messages that i found on my computer about him wanting to hook up with other girls and he wanted them to send him nude pictures. I mean i think were still together but were kinda on like a brake? it's weird.
I need advice on how to break up with him i feel so attached to him even though he treats me bad, he never physically hurts me but mentally and emotionally he does and I've lived with him now for about 5 months i dont know why i can't leave him everyone is always yelling at me to brake up with him and nobody understands that this feeling i have, it's seriously like i can't do it..?
has anyone felt like this or no what im talking about? How do i break up with him? Should i give Ricky a chance? i just dont want to be hurt anymore? (link)
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If your "boyfriend" is treating you like crap, then dump his ass.
I know what your going through, its hard, i understand but still no one deseves to be treated like that. Give Ricky a chance but don't put out until you can aunoustly tell that he's serious about you and the relationship.
tell your "boyfriend" that your tiered of all the lies, and that has changed. tell him that he needs to grow up, be a real man, and learn how to treat woman better. then slap him and tell him it's over for good and that your not gonna ever take him back.
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