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Flirt


Question Posted Wednesday August 5 2009, 8:32 pm

I flirt with basically any boy I hang out with. It's getting insane, like to the point where I find myself flirting with my friends' younger brothers! (Not in a pedophilic way. They obviously aren't ten years old or anything, but they are still significantly younger than me.) It's not like the flirting ever turns into anything and I don't mean anything sexual by it, but it tends to be my automatic reaction and it's weirding me out. Fix it? 17f.

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gabby94 answered Friday August 7 2009, 11:34 am:
im a big flirt myself and like i cant help it, the guys i flirt with are hot...(but i stop myself when im in a relationship)

some of my old friends got pissed off at me because i flirted with alot of guys and i told them that i cant help it...and they dont relize that do it alot to...

dont mean to sound all smart a**...but, flirting is a characteristic that most people have and it's harmless...

hope this helped:)

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staceyxlove answered Thursday August 6 2009, 11:20 am:
I am like that too! I didn't even realise I did it. For a long time I thought it was a bad thing, and tried to stop myself. But that's just me. Just like you are just you. Aslong as it's harmless, I don't see what the problem is!

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asknava answered Thursday August 6 2009, 4:53 am:
I am like that, different people have different personality trates...some people exhude more sensuality than others, my ex-boss said she studied it in her psychology class. It's ok, what you can do if you want to "fix it" is just start to become aware of when you are doing it, pay extra attention to your self. Ask people around you, "did that seem like flirting"? people who are going to be rational, not people who are just straight up hating on you and who you are...People who are going to say well I know you and your personality and for you that was or was not flirting. Then as you become more aware of your self then just tone it down... don't make that extra wink, don't do that extra touch, don't stand as close, don't add that extra bit of sexy to your words...hahaha i know a lot of guys have had to do a double take with me cause they were not sure if I was hitting on them :P Hey better too much than not enough :)

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