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Masterbation good or bad? A question for girls
I've been looking at different websites to see if it's good for you. And all of them say it's healthy and good for you. But my question is for girls. One of my ex's didn't like that I did it and was hurt when she found out I would watch porn. I just want to know how other girls feel about it? Do you think it's harmless to your relationship and good for your boyfriend, or do you think it's bad and means he doesn't love or care about you?
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i think masterbation is a good thing, but not the watching porn bit.
i honestly dont mind if my bf does it or not, but if i knew he was doing it because he was watching other girls that would make me very upset. maybe insted of watching porn you could think about doing dirty things with her, she might feel a little more wanted knowing that you think her body is sexy and all you want is her.
and yes, it is healthy for guys to masterbate, its also health for girls to masterbate too. im sure there isnt a girl out there who hasnt tried it, same goes with guys.
its also good to masterbate to find out what things you like best too, its kind of like finding out more about yourself and what your body enjoys most.
maybe, if you're already getting sexual with her she could try it out on you, she'll like the fact that you go crazy when she touches you. lol
well i hope tht helped a little bit :)
good luck
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I honestly don't mind if my boyfriend were to masturbate when I wasn't around or even if I were. I think the only way it would bother me is if he chose to masturbate over having sex with me. If he replaced sex with masturbating for good, it'd upset me.
I also don't care if my boyfriend watches porn. That is his personal decision and I can't tell him not to.
I think if your girlfriend is overreacting over something as little as masturbating (which is completely healthy & preferred over sex in most cases) then she needs to go. Everyone masturbates and if she can't accept a personal decision that you make then she isn't the one. Besides, you sound like a young kid. Do what you want and don't let any girl tell you that you can't masturbate. Kick her to the curb.
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coming from a 15 year old chick i aunoustly don't care if a guy i'm with watches porn and masterbates, as long as he washes his hand after...lol
i don't know why she would be so grossed out by it, i mean it's natural and yea human..(not saying that i do it, but plenty of guys i've been with have watched porn and masterbated)
hope this helped:)
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Honestly? It doesn't really bother me if a guy watches porn. I mean, I'm not by any means going to encourage my boyfriend to watch it, but I won't think any less of him for watching it because:
A. I'd rather him watch porn than try to get me to do anything that I am uncomfortable with and/or not ready for.
B. It's really not a big deal, unless it's taking a toll on the relationship (which, most of the time, it won't.
And you're 15, if people expect you to never watch porn, they're idiots. It's just such a taboo topic to some people, and it makes some people really uncomfortable, and I think your ex was one of those people.
But like I said, it's really not a huge issue.
-Laura (17-f)
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I see absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation. It is healthy for you. We've all done it, and it does benefit a lot of things physically, sexually, and mentally.
For the porn part I do get uncomfortable when my guy would watch porn. I shouldn't but I just do. In some ways I feel like he would be cheating on me doing so. That's strictly my opinion though; but I don't see a whole big bother on you masturbating.
It is great you're waiting until marriage. You could tell her (or maybe a current or future girlfriend) it helps you cope with stress and helps manage your sexual urges so you can wait until marriage.
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I don't see anything wrong with it? it's normal tell your ex too build a bridge and get over it it's not like you're cheating on her you're just pleasuring yourself,it's normal.
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