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Having sex for the first time
How do can a girl have good sex for her first time?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Virginity?
Well, I can tell you. I'm a guy. It might be weird having a guy answering this kind of question, but I think is important to get information from us. Especially involving sex. For one - a guy might not tell you he is a virgin. You have to be really comfortable with each other. I would have trouble telling my gf that I'm a vigin, (but we are still having trouble with the love word).It's really embarrassing for us. Second - guys love sex, I mean literally dream about it and think about it every day. I can speak for them because I talk to other guys a lot. Especially if they're a virgin, guys will do just about anything to get it in. Three - virgin boys know what they are doing, and so can you. Guys --when not interested in anyone especially-- will watch porn. This may be something you find funny, gross, ignorant to do... I don't care. Watching porn and masturbating are great ways for you to get used to it. You can learn positions, tricks, and other ~Smancy~ ways to do it. Because if you watch porn, and do often, it's a great way of knowing what he is doing.
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My toes are sort of curling at this question. I know. First time, big event. And of course you want it to be as slick, cool, exciting and sexy as an Alexander McQueen fashion show. I really do think it's more realistic to treat the first time, particularly for a girl as a rather steep 'learning-curve'. Let's think laterally. Suppose you landed your dream job. However much you want it and want to be good at it, the first day you'll be a bag of nerves and anxieties. You won't really be sure what your meant to be doing at times, or how to do it. I don't need to go on do I? Don't lose heart. The answer's looking for YOU. Every time make love with your boyfriend your confidence and skills will increase. You'll learn what makes you feel food, what doesn't, what he likes. And he'll be learning the same things. Even if he's had a partner (or a few) before it's still a case of learning about each other. You're new remember! As long as you're really hot for each other some awkwardness and mistakes at the start won't much matter to either of you. Apart from mistakes regarding birth-control. Don't you DARE mess that up!!! Pretty soon it'll take your breath away, just like that fashion show. Only nobody will be taking pictures...at least I hope not!
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It really depends on the girl. For one of my friends, she said it hurt A LOT and she bled A LOT. My other friend said it didn't hurt, and for me it hurt a lot but I didn't bleed.
Some girls bleed, some don't feel anything, some feel pain, some are tight, it varies. Just make sure there is plenty of lubrication (AND A CONDOM) and everything should be fine. Remember, even when wearing a condom, pulling out is making double sure you don't get pregnant or an STD.
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That's difficult seeing as the breaking of the hymen is painful, I'd say have a lot of four play, let him make you feel good before hand, and then have him enter slow and gentle, maybe you even get on top so you have more control of the rate of penetration, it will hurt at first, but if you are gentle and slowly progress it will feel lovely.
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