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Member Since: October 31, 2012
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Last Update: November 2, 2012
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Hi I'm about 14 an I have been dating this amazing boy for 3 years. We are in the same class and he use to sit by me and when he did he would put his first 2 fingers to or it seems like fingering me. Trust me it feels amazing to my vagina.
What should I tell him?
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Tell him you want him to keep doing that, your relationship will get somewhere. Also, tell him you want it bad.


I'm a 13 year old female and my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months and we never kissed! My boyfriend and I really only see each Other at the roller rink, he volunteers there with his friends. But I really wanna kiss him, but I don't know how to escpically since it's gonna be crowed. Any tips you could give me on how to kiss him and I'd its a good idea? Thanks (link)
Hi, I'm a thirteen year old boy, and I have major advice. My gf and I have been together for like 4.5 months and we kissed at 3.0. We had been together for exactly three months and we wanted to step up our relationship. The best way to do it is to walk up to him when he is mostly alone, say after going to skate land or whatevz, (that's what it's called in Baltimore), and ask him how much he loves you. This is a trick that has been used a lot on me and works every time. It gets him to think about your relationship on actual terms. Then you tell him you love him so much and you love everything about him. Look him in the eyes and tell him they're beautiful. Then, wrap your arms around him and put on a dreamy smile to let him know it's going down. And he will do it himself. BUT... If he doesnt, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. It could mean: "Not here and/or not now.", "Are you sure?", or "I'm scared, you go first." These aren't bad things. It just means you have to do it yourself. I suggest watching movies for kissing technique because if you haven't done this before, it can be scary to be an amature. The way to do it, which may be the slightest bit complicated, is: First, go for the kill and show him you're not shy. Second, it's weird but close your eyes, and sort of pinch his upper lip with yours, then twist your head like 15 degrees the other way, and pinch his bottom lip. It's more awkward to explain than it is to do, but just watch any non-cartoon movie ever made, and your sure to find it. What ever you do, have fun and enjoy it because you're lucky to have this guy. Good luck, be safe, signing off - shewillbeloved.


Simple advice.

I was out with my boyfriend this past friday and felt a bit out of place when a female friend of his interrupted our conversation and basically stared him in the eye for what seemed awkwardly wrong... she then took her finger rubbed his chin and told him that she would talk to him later.

upset i told him to take a walk with me, and after asking 8 times without him even budging, i turned him around towards the door and pushed him outside. When outside, I shoved him several times and made him trip and fall... after that i walked away crying because i couldnt believe he made me feel so out of place.

Im writing because it has been 6 days and he still has not tried to reach out to me. Usually im am the one who takes the initiative to work things out but im tired of being the one to "chase". What should i do? (link)
I am a guy and I would never do this to my girlfriend. However it seems you are in a predicament. I am In this situation with my ex, except she has cheated on me. This is nothing short of cheating. You should ditch this guy immediately because I know a guy like this, and he does nothing but hurt innocent girls. He can't decide who he likes, so he goes for everyone. This is called being a player. I really dislike this kind of person. Maybe we should keep talking, I'm lonley too, we could relate to each other. Ps, more info about me I'm thirteen, a male, I'm not a football jock but I love surfing, skiing, (can't stand snowboarding, family accident), and rollerblading. I'm a nice guy and I love to talk. I'm not interested in anything but friendship, which is really what I need right now.


How do can a girl have good sex for her first time? (link)
Well, I can tell you. I'm a guy. It might be weird having a guy answering this kind of question, but I think is important to get information from us. Especially involving sex. For one - a guy might not tell you he is a virgin. You have to be really comfortable with each other. I would have trouble telling my gf that I'm a vigin, (but we are still having trouble with the love word).It's really embarrassing for us. Second - guys love sex, I mean literally dream about it and think about it every day. I can speak for them because I talk to other guys a lot. Especially if they're a virgin, guys will do just about anything to get it in. Three - virgin boys know what they are doing, and so can you. Guys --when not interested in anyone especially-- will watch porn. This may be something you find funny, gross, ignorant to do... I don't care. Watching porn and masturbating are great ways for you to get used to it. You can learn positions, tricks, and other ~Smancy~ ways to do it. Because if you watch porn, and do often, it's a great way of knowing what he is doing.




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