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How should I kiss my boyfriend?
I'm a 13 year old female and my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 months and we never kissed! My boyfriend and I really only see each Other at the roller rink, he volunteers there with his friends. But I really wanna kiss him, but I don't know how to escpically since it's gonna be crowed. Any tips you could give me on how to kiss him and I'd its a good idea? Thanks
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Hi, I'm a thirteen year old boy, and I have major advice. My gf and I have been together for like 4.5 months and we kissed at 3.0. We had been together for exactly three months and we wanted to step up our relationship. The best way to do it is to walk up to him when he is mostly alone, say after going to skate land or whatevz, (that's what it's called in Baltimore), and ask him how much he loves you. This is a trick that has been used a lot on me and works every time. It gets him to think about your relationship on actual terms. Then you tell him you love him so much and you love everything about him. Look him in the eyes and tell him they're beautiful. Then, wrap your arms around him and put on a dreamy smile to let him know it's going down. And he will do it himself. BUT... If he doesnt, that doesn't mean he doesn't like you. It could mean: "Not here and/or not now.", "Are you sure?", or "I'm scared, you go first." These aren't bad things. It just means you have to do it yourself. I suggest watching movies for kissing technique because if you haven't done this before, it can be scary to be an amature. The way to do it, which may be the slightest bit complicated, is: First, go for the kill and show him you're not shy. Second, it's weird but close your eyes, and sort of pinch his upper lip with yours, then twist your head like 15 degrees the other way, and pinch his bottom lip. It's more awkward to explain than it is to do, but just watch any non-cartoon movie ever made, and your sure to find it. What ever you do, have fun and enjoy it because you're lucky to have this guy. Good luck, be safe, signing off - shewillbeloved.
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Considering your age, I think it's best not to rush things. Enjoy being young and enjoy every amount of innocence you still have in you because, you're going to miss it when you get older.
I don't think it's that big of a problem that you guys haven't kissed yet. Unless, it's causing damage to your relationship. If you two are happy at where you are right now, keep it at that. You have your whole life ahead of you. Kisses are the best when they happen at the right time with the right person.
But then again, kissing is an expression of love. If you really can't help it, go ahead. Just don't go too far. Act your age and know your limits. If you need anything else, you can go to my advice column. :)
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