Member Since: October 29, 2012
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So I was bored one day and I know this is immature and lying but me and my friend made up this screen name and instant messaged my boyfriend. Who is 5 years older, (20,25). He is very opened to talk to anyone so I brought me up. I was completely devastated and crushed when I read the things he had to say about me. He said that I was obsessed with him and liked him a lot more than he liked me. He wasnt sure about us because we had nothing in common when he always tells me when we talk he loves how we don't because we still work. He said that I am constantly looking to talk and he hates it. When he breaks up with me i am going to be devastated and he doesn't know how to do it. I told him a lot of personal stuff thats happened and he mocked me about it. He said he's embarrassed of me because I'm immature when he eggs me on to do things like that. I can't even explain how hurt and stupid I feel. I love him so much though and our relationship is serious. If i've ever wanted to break up with him it would be right now. I just don't know how to tell him over what. He would be really mad if he knew the truth. Should I even be mad about this? Ugh I'm so confused! any opinions or advice would be great!
Thanks in advance (: (link)
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well all i can tell u is wat stuff does he egg u about?
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I am making thirteen in three days and i havent had my first period. I am kind of scared and all my friends already started. I have all the symptoms and my mom started when she was thirteen
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everyone is different i got mine at 13
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ok so my guy friend weve been friends for quite a while now and i never knew that he really likes me how do i go about this ok well to start off with hes like lets say 29 or so and im like 19 so do i tell him i like him too that we can go out or do i just tell him i want him as a friend and thats it help me please (link)
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well im 15 nd im dating a 22 so yeah go ahead u r old enough
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Im just wondering about this but does it really hurt when a girl looses her virginity or a guy even or is it a good sensation? (link)
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depends if he is experienced
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This morning I was playing around on the phone and called 911 because I was being stupid and not thinking and I hung up after a few seconds not knowing they would call me back, (I've never been in this sort of situation) anyway I panicked and told them my little sister did it but the thing is I dont have a little sister so it was a huge lie and about 10 minutes later they showed up at my house and asked to see her and instead of telling the truth I told them she had left for school.The point is I feel so guilty about lying and my mom says I should forget about it but now i'm paranoid that they will come back and feel like I should call the police station and tell them the truth but I dont know if I should do it or just let it go and i'm afraid of what they might say. I'm 18 years old and I should have known better, it just got out of hand so quick. what should i do? (link)
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just forget it i accidentaly did it to so i forgot about it but how old are you thats the problem?
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hi im 16/f
i recently dropped out of high school (year 11) cause i moved houses suddenly (dads to mums) after some bad stuff happened.
i currently go to tafe full time. and because im in a new area i dont have any friends, so its really lonley.
its almost the start of a new school year and im thinking about starting up and repeating year eleven. yes i know starting at a new school is hard but ive done it before and i like it. thing is part of me doesnt think i should. like yes it would be great to know kids my own age, and not be sitting at home all day. and do my hsc so i have more options as to what i can do.
but im worried what happens if i hate it, or if at the end of it i dont want to go to uni..
should i go back to school, or finish tafe and go into full time work and save up so i can move out? (link)
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go to school nd get an education
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okay so i know this is stupid of me to ask but i feel like when i ask people i know i don't get an honest answer. im 5'2 i have light blonde hair that ends right at my boobs its usually curled or in beach waves im a 34DD in a bra i have light blue eyes i usually half to get like a size 8 in dresses since my boobs are so big and have the dress made smaller in the waist i definitely have curves and a butt my waist is smaller and i have big thighs i get really nervous and awkward when i half to get in a bathing suit because i have 2 scars on my stomach. i get told im pretty all the time but i just can't bring myself to believe it i also hate going places because i feel like everywhere i go im being judged (link)
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hey don't let people judge you if you think you are pretty then you are
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I just recently made a post about my boyfriend of over a year. To explain quickley he has been attempting to cheat on me for the whole relationship, lies to me, flirts with other women and says hes single when he's not. My question now is Im still having trouble figuring out what to do, I cant trust him but I am really trying too because he swears he wont do it again he wont hurt me anymore. BUT during the weekend we had a huge might, it started when we were grocery shopping over a minor little think like pancake mix. He asked me if I wwanted some, I said if you want some sure. He blew up and stormed off down the eisle. When I asked him what was wrong he got into a rant about how I can never make decisions and how I do and say things wrong. I couldnt believe it he made me feel worthless within seconds! :( Later on that night I couldnt say anything to him without him getting upset with me so finally I decided to take some quiet time and not bother him. Well he got mad that I wasnt paying attention to him and stormed off to the bedroom. I went to talk to him and he started yelling at him how I cant give him time alone, how I am always there. I said ok I will leave you alone then, all he said was F*** YOU!! over and over. He has never swore at me but his temper seems to be getting alot worse latley.
I asked him why he is getting so upset with me over minor little things and he told me it is because he has all this bottled up anger and he doesnt know how to deal with it. He went on and on about how this was hurting him and how he was worried that it was making him sick. But he never once said anything about worrying about how he was treating me. All he said was this was the reason he was treating me like s*** and all I can do is deal with it until he figures things out. Another thing that I have found out is that when he has a problem with something or someone he will complain to no end and when he says he will confront the person he really doesnt. Instead he goes to them and puts all the blame on me and makes himself look good. My roomate told me this when he had a talk to him about helping out more with bills. My boyfriend made it out to be all my idea and that all I do is complain about my roomate. Thats not the case at all!
So I am starting to feel really sad and run down. Depressed....I feel like he get enjoyment out of bringing me down....am I wrong to feel this way?? What should I do I just dont know what to say to him anymore without upsetting him... (link)
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really wat you should do is talk with him and if he doesn't understand then there is a possibility that you might have to leave him.
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So basically there's this guy that I work with that I've gotten pretty close too. We talk all the time and goof around. We eat our lunches together and take all of our breaks together. We're always together at work and he waits for me in the mornings and at night and walks me to the car and we even cook each other things and ask each other if we want something at restaurants that we're at and stuff. He also gave me his number (without me asking) and we text when we are out of work. He doesn't straight out flirt with me but like I said we goof around and he'll playfully touch me sometimes. Today I let it slip that I wanted a bag of bugles out of the vending machine out of work so he immediately got up and went to buy them and I playfully jumped in front of the vending machine so he couldn't get too it and he kept putting his hands on my arms and picked me up and moved me out of the way while laughing and bought me the bag of chips.
He pretends to get upset if I walk too fast because he wants to walk with me and like I said he always waits for me. He even stayed 20 minutes after work once when I was talking with my manager so he could walk me to my car.
Well I added him of fb earlier this week and noticed right away that he had a girlfriend (who he's been with for a year and a half)...I was really upset about it but I figured maybe he just forgot to take her off and hadn't been on facebook in a while since the last post she put on his page was on the 4th of September.
He NEVER mentioned he had a girlfriend and I was starting to view him as more than a friend...I mean guys don't usually do all of those things for you unless they think of you as more than a friend right? Well I also noticed she was still in high school which I thought was odd since he specifically said before that he "had" (like he wasn't in a relationship) two girlfriends during his time in high school and that he was done with those sort of girls. Plus he's 23 so he's long graduated and I'm thinking why is he with a high schooler? He never mentioned her not even one time he never talked about ANY other girl in fact. Which is why I was so thrown off when I found out.
Well today he was talking about some pretty reckless things he'd done while in high school and I said "Is your girlfriend alright with you having done those things?" just in a normal casual tone and he just got silent and said "Yeah she doesn't have a problem with it" after a moment and then a couple minutes he said "I didn't really want "people" to know that I had a girlfriend..." So of course I asked why and he said "I don't know just because I didn't."
The more I think about it the more I feel a little played.
I also feel sort of aggravated and angry about it but the stupid thing is I'm angry with his girlfriend. I feel like she shouldn't be his girlfriend and I know that's arrogant of me but he spends NINE hours a day with me,talking to me,goofing around with me,waiting for me,SPENDING TIME WITH ME. Not her. I really sort of feel like crying because I feel so stupid about it but maybe I'm overreacting.
As this point I'm not sure what I should be feeling.
Am I being played or is she being played?
Should I hold out and see if he breaks up with her? (link)
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she is being played u r probably the one for him
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I dated this guy about a year ago, I ended up breaking up with him after a few months because I felt no sexual attraction. We have been friends ever since, and I know that he is honestly the perfect guy. I know he would be the best husband and best father and if I went out with him he would want to marry me in a few years. He really likes me, and I really like him too. He is perfect at everything, he loves God and he is the best influence on me, he brings out the best in me. He is cute too, but for some reason I can't find him sexually attractive. He is a bad kisser, and that's a big deal to me. I know I should be with him, and I really want to, but I don't know if I can. He is very touchy, I just don't feel anything when he touches me. I know it might not seem like a big deal, but it is to me. I really just want to be able to be attracted to him cause I know he would be perfect for me. What should I do? (link)
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talk to him
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My name is Chris. I've loved this girl since last year from the very moment we kissed. Something about that kiss really made me attracted to her and want to pursue a relationship. I love her personality, we really get along well. We ended badly in the summer. She hurt me by ignoring me and as a defense I said some pretty hurtful things. We didnt talk all summer but we ended up in the same highschool class. At first we didnt talk but I would catch her staring at me and I determined she still had feelings for me, as I did for her. My bestfriend got us talking again and ever since, things have been even better than last year. I played my card out right with this girl because I felt i got a second chance at her heart, and i dont want to mess it up. We do not go out (yet). I dont want to get back with her yet, I want to wait. She sits next to me in class and he just cuddle or hold hands or she lets me stroke her stomach or thighs sometimes. We show each other HUGE amounts of affection but in a very subtle way. She is jealous because she found out a girl in my class also likes me, and she feels intimidated, in a way. But recently she has been flirting with another guy in front of me, calling him her boyfriend...she starts having an attitude when i touch her leg or even ask her a simple question. I realized that this new dude she seems to show interest to STARES at me. He does things, like kisses her cheek, and then looks directly at me as if TRYING to get me jealous, and as a scorpio, i am VERY jealous and this kind of stuff makes me go crazy. She knows she is driving me insane, I told her that I didn't mind if she spoke to a billion people (she's not mine and theres nothing I can do) but i just dont want it done AROUND me. We agreed on that but the next day she did it again. And she also seems to have a worse and worse attitude. I know she doesnt seem to great of a person, but she truely is and that is why I'm trying to find out how to handle this. I love this girl a lot. But i can't tell if she's trying to get me jealous or not. The guy she flirts with has a girlfriend. So I dont know exactly what the hells going on here...but I dont like it. When I started flirting with the girl that likes ME she over heard and told me she resents me. I smiled because I was hoping to get her jealous too, a taste of her own medicine, you know? She told me that "im literally crazy because she likes to flirt a lot" and i know she's the shy type. I felt like that was a rehearsed answer ..i feel like she planned all of this out. But how can I throw her off? If i seem unbothered, i feel like she'll just continue. When I do seem upset, she seems happy. Jealousy shows a person cares about you, but she's being immature by extending it for the past few days. She hasn't even texted me, I feel it's best to pay her no mind, but I'm obsessive. I'm going to WANT to talk to her so bad when I see her, we're complete. Should I flirt with other people to get her mad? Will that make it worse? Should I ignore her? Should I just be very serious with her and give her no reason? My goal is to make her regret what she's doing . (link)
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well just ask her on a date nd if she has a bf then that is a loss
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I get these really bad headaches on the back right of my head and i always feel like shit, like nothing i do is ever good enough like a pressure to be perfect. And Ill get these random moments of sadness where all I want to do is lay in the dark and cry. Please help me, please. (link)
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we r the same but wat u hav is stress
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how can I have the motivation to do good in college to reach my dream career when can't even make close friends? I haven't had a close friend since elementary school and high school was horrible cause I never hung out with anyone or got invited to anything. so I spent most of my childhood online. but it wasn't by choice, it was because it was the only way I could talk to other people, cause talking to random people is better than nothing. and I also buried myself into music, I feel like certain albums are the closest thing I've ever felt to true friendship. when I look back over my high school years that's the only positive thing. here i am asking a question on Y!A and throughout my life I've asked very tough questions I probably should have asked close friends to random strangers on the internet. just started college and I thought I'd finally be able to form close bonds but I still can't. I don't know whats wrong with me. I'm nice and accepting of everyone. I dont want the depression that took hold of me in high school and caused me to self sabotage myself start again in college. but whats the point of even getting my dream career when it won't get me the friendship and intimacy I want with other people? there's no point. I can't keep lying to myself everyday that everything is ok and being optimistic especially with sites like fb where everyone has pics of all the fun things they do and I never do. i know nobody has a perfect life but it's just ridiculous to be 18 and never have been invited to a party since my freshman year of high school (and not even a crazy party, just a christmas party), never been kissed/asked out, or anything. i see everyone else doing these normal things and i cant even do anything and sometimes it really makes me consider suicide even though I want to make things better. and then when some people now try to talk to me I push them away cause its like now a thing in my mind that I can't be happy and can't have happiness cause whomever I try to be friends with always ignores me at some point so I just start ignoring someone before they can hurt me when they start to show interest. its a horrible cycle. i dont want to live my life like this anymore. i mean its too many times i've written to strangers online while close to tears or actually crying and nothing seems to change and i dont know if i'll allow myself to change or try to be happy when it never ever lasts. I mean this pains me every single day and I always hide it from other people and appear pleasant and nobody can tell that when I say I'm ok I usually feel horrible inside but I don't think they really care about me to really hear the story, even though I've helped countless other people (that I'm not sure were even really my friends) with their problems
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ur the same as me but wat i have done is just keep concentrating never let anyone let u down u go 4 it.
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