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I want to love him but I can't
19/f
I dated this guy about a year ago, I ended up breaking up with him after a few months because I felt no sexual attraction. We have been friends ever since, and I know that he is honestly the perfect guy. I know he would be the best husband and best father and if I went out with him he would want to marry me in a few years. He really likes me, and I really like him too. He is perfect at everything, he loves God and he is the best influence on me, he brings out the best in me. He is cute too, but for some reason I can't find him sexually attractive. He is a bad kisser, and that's a big deal to me. I know I should be with him, and I really want to, but I don't know if I can. He is very touchy, I just don't feel anything when he touches me. I know it might not seem like a big deal, but it is to me. I really just want to be able to be attracted to him cause I know he would be perfect for me. What should I do?
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I have been in that exact situation before. His name was ray and i didnt have any sexual attraction to him. I sat him down and had a talk with him. I told him before hand that this was a conversation that was from my heart and not meant to hurt his feelings i then explained to him that i wasnt sexually attracted to him. All in all because he was a respectful guy he accepted that and we continued to be friends. If he doesnt respect that then he really isnt worth it.
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Be honest with him. That's the only thing you can do. That doesn't mean be rude about it though. Nicely explain how you feel. It could change.
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