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So me and my girlfriend were having sex, she has been on the Depo Proverba shot for about 4 months and has never been late. During one of our positions I realized that my condom had came off so we stop and I get it out. It was deep in so there was no way I could see what was in it, but I know that I never got off inside of her. Also I had urinated since the last time I got off so I feel like the pre-cum should be clean as well. After I got the condom out we completely stopped having sex, so should I be concerned about her being pregnant? (link)
Dont freak out your probably good. Youll find out anyways if she doesnt get her period. Try to find a condom that fits you better depending on your size so that it doesnt fall off, and make sure that she stays on that birth control!


So I have naturally brown hair but I get it highlighted blonde at a salon, but each time it's $150 and that's a lot for every month! So I really want a cheaper way to color my hair and I hate my natural hair, I love being blonde. But my hair is already so damaged, It;s pretty long right now but it constantly breaks off and I have so many split ends so I know it's bad to color it! But I really want to just buy one of those boxes of color from the store and try that but if it totally messes it up than i'm skrewed. Right now it is lots of different colors of blonde and it's really pretty but I hate having dark roots, but if I dye it with a box will it make it all the same color? I'm honestly just desperate to get rid of my roots, and I have tried the root touch up stuff but it's just so hard! What should I do?? (link)
Try having your hair dyed your natural hair color so it looks the same when it grows out and do a new style nothing drastic but a definit change and try to love your natural hair color for a while so u can let your hair become healthy again ( and save money ). Once you have had it for a while u might not want those highlights anymore


17/m

My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 7 months now. She is 16. The last couple of days I feel like I am not interested in her anymore. I am not sure if it is some sort of "hump" I am going through. Sometimes I feel like i see her too much, we have been hanging out a lot as of late. Sometimes things she does makes me feel annoyed or bugs me. Things that use to never do that to me. She has put me through a lot this past summer and that is when my feelings seemed to have changed some what, i kind of got "numb" to her but when she got back from her vacation (which is when she treated me terribly and stuff) i regained some of my feelings, she lied to me though about some stuff and hid things. I forgave her and stuff. This past week or two some days I wish i wasn't with her.

I thought I loved her, lately i'm not sure. I don't get the same feeling of happiness when she calls or texts me or anything like I use to. Maybe that just goes away after some time? I question if I want to be with her but I don't know how to even bring that up with her cause it would crush her. She has lost a lot of friends and I am almost all she has. I don't know what to do. Sorry if this is confusing just trying to keep it short :p

Thank you for your help (link)
I wouldnt straight out leave her cause she might be to scarred to take you back and then your left feeling like shit cause you lost her. Im my opinion you should tell her face to face (texts are so not cool they hurt worse) that you need to have some time for personal reasons. Spend some time away from her and try to think about your relationship. Ask yourself questions like "do i miss her" see if that helps.


19/f
I dated this guy about a year ago, I ended up breaking up with him after a few months because I felt no sexual attraction. We have been friends ever since, and I know that he is honestly the perfect guy. I know he would be the best husband and best father and if I went out with him he would want to marry me in a few years. He really likes me, and I really like him too. He is perfect at everything, he loves God and he is the best influence on me, he brings out the best in me. He is cute too, but for some reason I can't find him sexually attractive. He is a bad kisser, and that's a big deal to me. I know I should be with him, and I really want to, but I don't know if I can. He is very touchy, I just don't feel anything when he touches me. I know it might not seem like a big deal, but it is to me. I really just want to be able to be attracted to him cause I know he would be perfect for me. What should I do? (link)
I have been in that exact situation before. His name was ray and i didnt have any sexual attraction to him. I sat him down and had a talk with him. I told him before hand that this was a conversation that was from my heart and not meant to hurt his feelings i then explained to him that i wasnt sexually attracted to him. All in all because he was a respectful guy he accepted that and we continued to be friends. If he doesnt respect that then he really isnt worth it.


My Fiance and I are thinking about getting Married this winter. We don't have much money but we are going to try to save up the most we can. We want to have a private ceremony. Him, I a priest and I would like a photographer there. To vow our love to each other so we can really embrace, feel our love. Then in a couple years we would like to have a bigger ceremony, renew our vows and have our family, friends there. My question is what can we do to make our private ceremony special. I want the priest to say words very true and beautiful. I would like the entire ceremony to be very nice and special. Ideas please? (link)
I you havent already picked a place you can try having it at a place that had a really memorable memory for you both. Congrats and best wishes for you both.


Okay so me and this guy (let's call him Bob) were really close. We could talk about a lot of stuff but he got into a relationship. I liked him for the longest time even when he had a gf. We flirted a lot. But in April, I got a bf and we stopped talking as much because bob hates my ex. Well we are both broken up with own bf/gf and I realized, I still like him. But we barely talk and I was wondering, how can I talk to him again without it being awkward. I have tried but I can't get a full conversation outta him. So please help with anything! (: thanks in advance! (link)
So in my opinion if you truly still have feelings for him then tell him. It shouldnt hurt anything with how it sounds its going right now.




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