I am a humble soul. My life's motto is this; If I have to work hard and suffer blood, sweat and tears in my days upon the earth to accomplish, acquire, obtain or achieve just ONE thing in life, I will want to take it with me when I go.
I may not have much in the way of material wealth, but in my life I acquired a wealth of wisdom and spiritual knowledge that I can give freely and generously to the world, and I can still take it all with me when I go. :D
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Okay I'm not sure if I want to call this a dream more as a nightmare. Tonight is the second time I've had this "dream" and it mostly happens when I'm taking a nap. I don't know if it's that I don't get enough sleep or if I get TOO much sleep.In both of the dreams I'm in the house and there's just this eerie feeling about the house like there's someone outside watching. In the dream I call the police they come and don't see anything. I always end up in my grandma's bedto see if I can sleep but me being the scary cat I am I always think I hear or see something IN the house. Well in this particular dream I so happen to go outside (well open the door and look outside it's pitch black by the way) but before I do I wake a my cousin (who hasn't lived with us in years) to see. Whenwe look outside tthere's a mop bucket in my view which confuses me then I look to the left behind the door and I see the mop... but it's kind of floating in the air so that's when it "clicked" in my mind that this is not "man". So I look back to my right and there she is. I have no idea who or what she is but if I had to give you a guys a visual it's the lady from that one car "commercial" where it looks like a car just driving on the road and out of nowhere the exorcist looking lady pops in the screen. Well when I see her she's climbing the tree and I immediately start praying and singing Gospel songs trying to (cast?) her away. Then it pops up in my mind that my grandma probably knows more that will help so after going to get her and we start praying and singing together it turns from dark to very bright outside and out of nowhere there's a "suction" coming from my left pulling and she's being sucked in it's direction and it seems like in both dreams before she gets sucked away she pops in my face within seconds and she's like inches from my face and she's making me stare into her dark black eyes but inside her eyes are orange squares (which resemble a PlayStation controller button) but it really has me on edge and wondering maybe I'm not praying enough and when I'm trying to pray I'm at a lost for what I'm praying for. 😞
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Nightmares, as we call them, are only frightening because they have something important to tell us. We are much more apt to remember and examine more closely a frightening dream, than one that doesn't leave us on edge.
If it makes you feel better, try asking your guiding light, the highest source of love, wisdom and guidance in the universe, to protect you in its loving light while you are sleeping.
Before going to bed or taking a Nap,close your eyes, envision yourself surrounded by white, loving light and say, "I ask the highest source of love, light and wisdom to surround me in it's protective, white light and protect me from all that is not love. I ask that my dreams be enjoyable, loving and educational."
If there is a message to be relayed through such terror, ask the highest source for insight. There may be an issue you are not dealing with, or it could be a warning of some sort.
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Hi there, I was looking for an experienced columnist that gives thoughtful advice, and I came across you! I would much appreciate any help you can offer.
I'm 23/f, just met a guy while at a party that I really like. I felt really comfortable with him right from the start, like we were old friends. We talked all night and exchanged numbers and made plans to see each other again soon.
Here's the thing: I've been single for about a year now, and my last relationship ended badly -- I cheated on him. Though the relationship would have ended even if I hadn't (there were numerous issues there and I won't go into the full story), it tore both him and me apart. I couldn't believe what I'd done...the guilt was overwhelming, I sunk into a deep depression for several months. I didn't even recognize myself. I eventually got myself into counseling, made changes both big and small, and got my life back together, and now I feel like I'm at a point where I can start seeing people again. I understand myself better and I know that I could never cheat on someone again.
I think I should bring this up at some point to the guy that I'm interested in. I want to be completely honest with him, own up to my mistakes and of course I'd never want him to find out through any channel other than me. So my question is this: how can I approach this subject? When would be an appropriate time? I know I just met him, but I felt an instant connection, and now I've got this nagging on my conscience because I can see things developing quickly.
I have to admit that I'm afraid - afraid that he'll think of me how I thought of myself for so many months, that he wouldn't want to stick around to see if anything could develop between us. And I of course would respect whatever he chose to do...I have to accept the consequences of my own decisions. But I'm hoping for the best.
Thanks for reading, I appreciate your time. (link)
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This a NEW relationship. A NEW beginning for you. What he thinks of you is a reflection of how you see yourself. It seems that you have learned a great lesson from your previous relationship and did the work required to change your behaviour. All you need to do is trust that behaviour.
Let go of the past. He is interested in the woman he just met, not the woman you may have been. Treat this new beginning as a second chance. A chance for you to put all that you worked to overcome, to the test. And succeed!
The past moves further and further away the more steps you take forward. Be confident in the New you and you will have nothing to worry about.
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I'm 15 and I haven't masturbated vaginally before. Well, I did with my finger, and it was pretty rough. I am a virgin and haven't had sexual experience of any kind with anyone. So after, I noticed a bit of blood on my finger, so I checked it out and I was bleeding very very lightly, but it terrified me!! Is something wrong? (link)
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I don't think you have anything to worry about. You probably scratched the wall of your vagina with your fingernail. Another possibility is that you may be ovulating, (releasing an egg from the ovary) which can cause a bit of light bleeding, or it may be the onset of your period.
Try not to be so rough next time, or use a rubber glove.
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My father took everything of value and left us.
My mother is mentally ill and now has no insurance(so she's off her pills).
My sister is a major suck up to our mother(Favorite child).
Were stuck in an Extended Stay hotel and,its sucking up all the income we have.We have tried all "free" places for medicine and help.But our income is too high,but its not enough for us to live on.
I barely make $150 a week from my job and, its considered part time.I'm at my job all day from 10AM to 4PM and,they don't consider it full time.So because of the time and all the work,I can't get a 2nd job.We have no car,so we take the public city bus everywhere(which is $1.50 there and back per person).
My problem is my mother.She's always been an mental abuser and only to me.She says that "I'll never be anything","I'll never go to college,and even if I did I'd fail it","Ill never be anything in life,or have a husband let alone a boyfriend"... That was just this week.
She said that to me because I told her to "hold on one moment" while I was filling up water bottles,and she wanted me to look for a phone number for her.It only took 2 minutes and I couldn't look away or I'd have water on the floor.
My sister is a major suck up to our mother.She sides with her even when moms wrong.She won't stick up for anyone and can't even keep a job that long.she keeps calling out at work and lying to them about why.I tell her to quit it and I get screamed at by mom (mom encourages her to call out).
Right now I got no friends,because I don't have time.I got no other family to go to,and right now mother plans on leaving with my sister.They plan to go to grandma's and I can't come.she made that clear.Were all old enough to be on our own,but we weren't ever encouraged or pushed to go on our own.Our mother was one of those ones that did everything for you,even when you didn't want her to (tried getting her to stop,but that only made her mad and she'd guilt me into letting her).
So where do I go?Do I leave my job and beg my deadbeat dad to go,live with him in another state?
Or do I take my chances on the street?If I do that I lose everything I own. (link)
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You say you are old enough to be on your own. Now is the opportunity for you to do so. Starting over May be the thing you are being forced (by the universe) to do.The best part about it is that you can do it YOUR way without all those negative voices telling you you can't.
It's frightening to be on our own for the first time, especially if we had no previous experience with making our own choices. You have it in you to ask for help and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Check out your local community youth programs. Most cities and towns have programs set up for youth on the street who have no place to go. They teach them basic life skills like how to budget their money, pay bills, and basically just be responsible adults. My own daughter went through something like this when I was going through some stressful times. She was 17. The youth shelter in our city set her up with her own apartment and she was to participate in all the programs they offered. She also had a job she was working at. She was on her own since graduating high school and is now 24 yrs old, married, working at a job she loves and is relatively happy.
All it takes is some faith in yourself, some trust in other people, and the willingness to succeed. Whatever you lose or sacrifice in the event of starting over will return to you tenfold, I wish you all the best in whatever direction you choose.
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I'm a senior in HS. I've been getting really confused and annoyed lately. I'm starting to really hate school. It's becoming somewhat of a blackmail already. I'm tired of being forced to do all this work that I really don't want to do, and I'm tired of everybody thinking they know everything. And everyone's advice contradicts. EVERYONE is bugging me about college, except for my parents(ironic) The last 2 days, I've even had substitute teachers giving me suggestions and advice about college/applying. About a million lectures about it. My friends say I'm slacking and I it seems like everyone is done with their essays and stuff. I have barely started a list. I hate how everything I want to do is wrong or stupid. I want to go to college. But it seems like whatever my choice is, it will be stupid and wrong because everyone knows everything and can predict the future. If I don't go, I'm a "failure" and I'll "never make money", if I do go, my college "isn't good enough" or "I'll never get a job unless the college is a prestigious one" One person will suggest something, then another will say it's complete bull. On top of all this, I'm trying to recover from a porn and video game addiction that went on for years. This is my longest run without them. Sometimes I feel great and then I'll just have a major mood swing. And now I have family talking to me as if not dong the college stuff quick enough is a disgusting felony. This senior year is also by far the worst year so far, and I don't mean academically (yet)It's been so dry and bland and no fun, and a lot of people I met freshman year have turned into d-bags. Some friends disappeared, some changed, some girls that were nice and friendly are now arrogant and conceited. I want to d well academically, I want to get into a 4 year college, but I also want to just do what I feel like doing for once, I never have time for what I want to do because of school. And then of course people will say that I don't appreciate things and say stuff about how some people can't go to school. School IS like blackmail, if you don't do what they tell you to do, they ruin your reputation, with stupid numbers that don't prove anything about me. I was always told that school is a place for learning, so why is it that one can learn what is taught and pass a test which proves it, but be called a stupid failure according to their "numerical image"? Oh yeah, I learned x, y, and z, but this report card defines me as a horrible person who didn't. And horrible grades is a felony. get out of my face already. (link)
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The real problem is nobody is asking you what YOU want to do. They have set the standards for you and expect you to meet them. Do you have any set goals for your future? Do you have an idea of what you want to do? Follow your own heart and ignore the other voices unless you ask for their opinion. But do finish highschool. I know it seems insignificant, especially if you feel none of what you are being taught, you will ever use in your life. You'd be surprised though. Just hang in there and take things one day at a time. If your teachers and friends/family continue to pester you about college, tell them that decision is not theirs to make, end of story. If they cannot accept it, you are better off without them. No 17 yr old should be put through so much stress by others concerning his future when HE is the one who has to live with it. Good luck. :)
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i am 15 years girl and i want to ask u a question about white water .. and it really smell bed and i hate it please give me information about it and tell me that it is not any kind of decease .. (link)
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This is called a 'vaginal discharge' and it's purpose is to keep your vagina lubricated and healthy. The discharge is more noticeable just before your period. Sometimes it can give off a foul odor. You can minimize the odor by douching with vinegar and water after every menstrual cycle, (period) and by general bathing or washing. It is not a disease, it is quite normal.
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Will I go blind if I masterbate to much? (link)
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You will not go blind in the literal sense, but masterbating too much can make you blind to the connection between 'love' and 'sex'. You will get lost in the feeling of the 10 second euphoria and become totally oblivious to the true purpose of sex. This can make you a very selfish lover. Overmasturbating may also cause fatigue of the vague nerve which can affect your libido or sexual drive in the long run.
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Well you kno how halloween is comin up? Well I don't celebrate Halloween but I do go to church and play games and earn candy. We r allowed to wear costumes but I don't kno Wat Christian costume tht I can use a little face makeup but still able to get my face painted at church. Thanks!!!! (link)
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You can dress up in a clown costume, complete with a colored wig, clown suit, clown shoes, a red nose and just put the white makeup foundation on before you go to the church party. At the party, the person doing the face painting can finish your clown makeup for you in whatever style you choose! Or instead of covering your whole face with white foundation you can just paint a few multicolored freckles on your cheek bones and leave the rest to the imagination of the face painter. :)
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I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months. It was going great we love eachother very much. He is an amazing guy and I am head over heals for him. BUT In the startI noticed he would only introduce me to his friends as his "friend" He said it was because he was scared to get hurt again (he said he got hurt in his last relationship) So it took him quite sometime to call me his girlfriend. He has always been very secretive with his cell phone. Told me I know pretty much everything about him that his cell is his last means of privacy. He tells me he loves me and wants to marry me. But he is a very selfish lover though :( even though its amazing! Anyway one day I was on my computer and he had left his Facebook on....well I did something I am NOT proud of I looked threw it and saw he had been PM over 50 girls since we started dating. Asking them if they are single and for their cell numbers and wanting to hook up. He also called a lot of the sexy, gorgeous, hot, doll. He was asked several times if he had a GF and he said NO!! Even though we are serious and live together pretty much since the start! I confronted him and he said that he doesnt know why he did it. And that it didnt go any further he never slept with any of them. So he deleted his Facebook and told me he will never do it again.....In the process of finding all this out I found he had multiple dating site active profiles! I also noticed him texting a few girls and found a picture of a girl on his cell. He said he didnt know how it got on his cell :( He keeps saying that I should leave him....that I deserve better than him. He gets so defensive when I try to talk to him and he just expects me to trust him like nothing happend! I love him so much but I just don't know if I should stay with him, am I just setting myself up for more heartache?? Any Advice?? (link)
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All the signs are pointing toward heartbreak. It's good that you found this out about him now before any major commitments are made. Don't give him any ultimatums, just get out while you can. He's right about one thing...you do deserve better. :)
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I have been having bad acne for 9 yrs, Im 18 yrs old and its really bad. The bumps on my face get really big and they are very painful. I have tried everything you can think of in the stores for acne. Some of the medications only work for a while and then my acne just comes back and gets worse. I get really big bumps around my nose and my chin. I have some right now and they are big and painful. These bumps burn when I try to put acne medication on them. The bleed and sometimes they are really red and embarrassing. I wash my face and use everything. Ive tried proactive, witch hazel nitrogen and everything you name it and it doesn't work. Ive been to the dermatologist and she gave me medicine but it worked for a while and the acne just got worse, she told me that my face got used to the medicine and that's why the medicine stopped working. She gave me some new medicine and it doesn't work its pill and lotion. I can only go to the dermatologist 2 times a year and I cant pay for high priced medicine. I have been getting teased since elementary school and now school is about to start back and Im a senior and I don't want to be made fun of this year. People call me zit face and pimple face, Ive cried sometimes because of that, some people treat me like I have a disease. I have tried EVERY acne product you can name. I've been to the dermatologist and they give me medication but my face just gets worse after a couple of months.and my insurance doesn't pay for everything
My acne kind of looks like this: http://dermimages.med.jhmi.edu/images/cystic_acne_conglobata_1_050322.jpg
It hurts really bad most of the time and I have tried everything.
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When I was a child my favorite pastime was catching frogs and toads at the pond on our property. Ioved playing with them. Because of this, my hands were constantly covered with warts. This was embarassing, especially at school. I always had to hide my hands so no one would notice. I tried every wart removal product on the market but nothing seemed to work. Then one day my mom told me to try this: She told me to take a brand new, shiny copper penny, rub it all over the warts making sure the penny touched all of them. She then told me to take that penny outside, close my eyes, turn around three times and with my eyes closed, throw that peny away where it wll never be found again. I won't lie, I thought she had gone mad! Gone completely off her stilts. But at this point I was willing to try anything as a last resort. I did exactly what she said. Two weeks later my mom asked me how my warts were. I completely forgot about them. I looked and they were gone! They vanished completely, and never left a scar. (Much less painful than having them burnt off.) All it took was a penny and a little faith. When I got older, as an adult, I had a planters wart on the ball of my foot. I could barely walk. I remembered the penny trick and decided to give it a shot. I did the same thing with a penny again, this time on my foot. A week later, the wart on my foot shrunk to half its size. I did it again and the wart shrunk even more. I did it one more time and now the wart is gone and never returned. ( neither did the warts on my hands). I realize acne Is not warts, but I think you should try it. What have you got to lose? If it works spread the news. If it doesn't you are only out one penny. :)
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What's a panic attack? I'm not sure if I had one or not... For length of question's sake, I won't share too much details, but something happened while I was at work, and I flipped. First I got really paranoid, and freaked out. I couldn't speak coherently, it was all stutters and my coworkers could hardly understand me. I thought I would calm down and it would go away, but it got way worse. I punched out for my lunch break, went out to my car and immediately FLIPPED. I couldn't breathe, all I could do was scream out, and GAAASP in. I was crying furiously, my heart was pounding like mad, and it felt like someone was squeezing it, my chest hurt terribly. My face got extremely red and tingly. I couldn't stop shaking, my hands were trembling like mad. I was in the back seat, and thought maybe I could calm down with a song or something, so I grabbed my keys and tried to make my way up to the front to put the key in the ignition, but failed, I just keeled over and wheezed. I called my mom after I stopped screaming, was still wheezing and sobbing, and she and my step-dad had to hurry and pick me up, my mom went inside to explain to my boss, and drive me home. While I waited for my mom to come get me, everything scared me and made me jump. A guy behind me honked his horn, which made me jump, then start sobbing again after I had just stopped.
When we got home, I was exauuuuughsted, and my mom had to help me to bed.
The whole experience was terrifying and pretty traumatic. Thinking back on it kinda scares me. When I went to bed, I was scared I wasn't going to wake up. xDD;; Was what happened a panic attack? I had never had one before, so I wouldn't know. xDD! (link)
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What you experienced was indeed a panic/anxiety attack. Not fun...I know. Have you gone through a stressful time at work or at home in the past few months? Sometimes we don't realize how stressful our daily lives are, or if we do, we push it aside and continue to press or "stress" forward. Then it catches up to us. I can only suggest to maybe take a week off from work to just rest and if you have another episode, visit your doctor to get a complete physical. Other factors may contribute like high blood pressure or poor diet. I wish you luck and try to take it easy.
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Hi I'm 27/f my agrophobia got very worse can you help me out with some tips to overcome this. It got really out of control....thx (link)
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I don't have agoraphobia, but I do have generalized anxiety disorder. I've had feelings of fear since childhood, then it subsided for much of my adult life, but returned again at the beginning of this past year. I take medication for it now which helps, but when I do have an episode, I tend to breathe slowly and deeply to calm myself down. I also meditate on a daily basis. This practice calms me and slows down the thought process in the mind. I don't worry so much about things anymore and live a fairly functional life now. Another thing I will suggest is to quit or greatly reduce the amount of caffeine intake. To stop altogether would be ideal. I find that eating lots of grapes is soothing and reduces blood pressure which can rise to great heights during a panic attack. Hope this helps you a bit. :)
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I once had a 5-7 yr old boy put his tiny penis in me,did he take my virginity (link)
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When a girl/ woman loses her virginity, there can be no doubt. It would be very painful, and you would have bled because of the tearing of the hymen. If this did not happen to you, then it's most likely you did not lose your virginity.
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Hey Everyone!
So my friend hosted a foreign exchange student from France about 6 months ago. When we first met, I really liked him. He was only here for a couple of weeks but we spent a lot of time together. He did the sweetest things for me, and everyone knew that he liked me. When people asked me if I had feelings for him, I would simply say "I can't like him. It would be worthless. His home is so far away". I tried to not like him, but every time we hung out, it felt so perfect and so right. He played his french music in my car and we drove home everyday together. I would stay up to midnight on school nights just to hang out with him. When he left, I was devastated. I had never felt like that before. When I broke up with previous boyfriends, I always laughed it off, but when he left, I felt kind of empty. The whole week after he left, I couldn't eat. All of the food looked unappetizing even though I was hungry. I didn't want to think that this was because he left, but I realize that it was. I never wanted to like him because I was afraid of being heartbroken when he left. I always denied that I liked him. We've talked on Facebook since and I think of him everyday. I can't get him out of my head. Every love song I hear I think of him. I feel like I would do anything for him. I don't want to say it, but I think I might love him. I might have the chance to go to France to visit him this summer with my friend, but should I? And should I hint to him how I feel? Or should I just get him out of my mind and move on? I want to move on, but all I can think about is him. If this is love, should I pass it up or risk it and try to make it work? I've never felt like this.
Thanks for reading this, I'm looking forward for a response :) (link)
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You can continue to communicate with him over facebook or other means of communication. Tell him that you might be visiting his country soon and get his reaction. Take it one step at a time and try to be patient. Sometimes long distance friendships can blossom into love. Good luck. :)
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give me some how to have a orgasm and how to rub my penis head and how to rub my balls (link)
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How to do those things is an Internal instinct. If you have to ask, I'm assuming you are not old enough to use it beyond the bathroom. Tell you what, why don't you, (for now at least), focus more on learning how to use the head on your shoulders. It is that and only that head that will get you anywhere worth going in life. :)
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I really like this 13 year old boy, I am a 11 year old girl but he likes me too(bf, gf way) he grabs my ass and wants to kiss, he also puts my hand on his dick. Should I make out with him? Only problem is other 13 year old boy likes me too and we all live on the same street and hang out alot. What do I do?Also please don't give me any of that choose who u like and follow ur heart junk! (link)
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What he is doing to you is no less than child sexual abuse, except it's being done TO children, BY children. Just because he is only two yrs older than you and under 16 doesn't make it okay. One possible outcome if you consent to do this to/with him, is that he will tell his friends how 'easy' you are, and then every 13 yr old boy in the neighborhood or at school will also expect you to do it for them. Soon you will have a nasty reputation that will stay with you for most of your teenaged years and wreak havoc on your self esteem. Don't be in so much of a hurry to grow up. Savor and enjoy what you have left of your childhood innocence. There will be plenty of time to make these decisions later. If those boys truly respect you, they will be patient and wait until you are ready and know for certain who you want to be with.
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what is the best way to commit suicide of dying peacefully in your sleep in bed without any pain or side effects but will guarantee death. (link)
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You haven't revealed the nature of your motive for suicide. I'm sure if you stand back and take an observing look at the problem, you will also find the solution. One that will ensure you a happy life in the future. Many of us here have been where you are and back again, and lived to tell about it. If there was an easy, painless way out, none of us would be here to tell you about it. Seek help from a doctor or call the suicide help line.
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Im 11 how do I get a girl to have sex with me (link)
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What's the rush? You have plenty of time for that. Enjoy your childhood innocence while you still have it. If you are still having problems with this when you are 18, we'll be here for you.
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Hi! So I'm at a young age (11-13.. Hint hint). And I hate my body so i've been wanting to get anorexic, but I decided that wasn't a good idea. So I decided I should get into excersizing.
I did a little research and there are excersize routines that makes you get muscle (which makes you look heavier) and I don't want that. I just want to lose weight.
What are some excersize routines to make me lose weight and not gain muscle?
(Telling me to not worry won't do anything.. I'm now teaumatized. Just please help :(. ) (link)
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Before you begin any kind of diet and excercise regime, go to the doctor and have your thyroid checked. Many people gain weight not from over eating or under exercising, but because they have an overactive or underactive thyroid gland. 'Hyperthyroidism' is what it is called. My mom has it and she was always big and had difficulty losing weight regardless of how little she ate or how much she exercised. Another thing to check also Is your speed of metabolism. You know how some people don't seem to gain weight even though they can eat an entire house? These people have a fast metabolism so they are better able to maintain a steady weight regardless of how much they eat. Once you determine your rate of metabolism, if it is slow, there are some foods you can eat and some yogic exercises that can speed up metabolism. Walking everyday for bout 30 minutes is a good place to start. Eat more fresh fruits and veggies. Grapes are good for helping lower colesterol and blood pressure as well as speed up metabolism. Good luck. :)
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My wife has a good female friend at work who claims she is my friend as well. However, nearly everytime she comes around me with other people around, she speaks to everyone around except for me. About once every month or two, she will actually talk to me regularly like we are really good friends, but then it stops again. She is a very outgoing person and I am kind of quiet. I have gone out of my way to start conversations with her and let her know that I really like her as a friend and would like to talk more often. The weird thing is when she starts ignoring me, she asks my wife why I am mad at her and not speaking to her. She went 2 months this summer without speaking and then bought me a $200 watch for my birthday, spoke to me for about a week, and then stopped again. All my wife says is that I need talk to her more so she won't think I'm mad at her. I'm not sure what to do. Any ideas? (link)
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Wake up sir. It is clear that this woman wants something more from you than what you're willing to give, but you aren't seeing the signs. A $200 watch for your birthday? She obviously has feelings for you she's having difficulty dealing with. When you don't flirt with her or show any romantic interest in her, she distances herself from you hoping it might make a difference. It surprises me that your wife hasn't questioned her behavior. If a woman, (close friend or not) gave my husband a $200 gift when a $5 card would have sufficed, I would certainly be asking questions. If you love your wife and this other woman chooses to distance herself, accept it as her way of dealing with feelings she knows she shouldn't act on nor will you reciprocate.
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