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Loving someone overseas?
Hey Everyone!
So my friend hosted a foreign exchange student from France about 6 months ago. When we first met, I really liked him. He was only here for a couple of weeks but we spent a lot of time together. He did the sweetest things for me, and everyone knew that he liked me. When people asked me if I had feelings for him, I would simply say "I can't like him. It would be worthless. His home is so far away". I tried to not like him, but every time we hung out, it felt so perfect and so right. He played his french music in my car and we drove home everyday together. I would stay up to midnight on school nights just to hang out with him. When he left, I was devastated. I had never felt like that before. When I broke up with previous boyfriends, I always laughed it off, but when he left, I felt kind of empty. The whole week after he left, I couldn't eat. All of the food looked unappetizing even though I was hungry. I didn't want to think that this was because he left, but I realize that it was. I never wanted to like him because I was afraid of being heartbroken when he left. I always denied that I liked him. We've talked on Facebook since and I think of him everyday. I can't get him out of my head. Every love song I hear I think of him. I feel like I would do anything for him. I don't want to say it, but I think I might love him. I might have the chance to go to France to visit him this summer with my friend, but should I? And should I hint to him how I feel? Or should I just get him out of my mind and move on? I want to move on, but all I can think about is him. If this is love, should I pass it up or risk it and try to make it work? I've never felt like this.
Thanks for reading this, I'm looking forward for a response :)
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You can continue to communicate with him over facebook or other means of communication. Tell him that you might be visiting his country soon and get his reaction. Take it one step at a time and try to be patient. Sometimes long distance friendships can blossom into love. Good luck. :)
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