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We were really close but then we both got into a relationship...
Okay so me and this guy (let's call him Bob) were really close. We could talk about a lot of stuff but he got into a relationship. I liked him for the longest time even when he had a gf. We flirted a lot. But in April, I got a bf and we stopped talking as much because bob hates my ex. Well we are both broken up with own bf/gf and I realized, I still like him. But we barely talk and I was wondering, how can I talk to him again without it being awkward. I have tried but I can't get a full conversation outta him. So please help with anything! (: thanks in advance!
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You should try an e-mail. In it write that you miss him and hate that you haven't seen him or spoken in so long because of someone out of both your lives. Ask why he won't converse with you now? Ask him what gives because you used to be extremely close.
This should do it if he won't talk long on the phone or in person. You could also add that the timing was never right for the relationship you both knew you should have had in retrospect and maybe in the future could occur. That's telling the whole truth upfront but leaves you a little vulnerable if he doesn't have those feelings any longer. If you can't get to talk in person or on the phone definitely e-mail him. At least you'll know where you stand then.
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So in my opinion if you truly still have feelings for him then tell him. It shouldnt hurt anything with how it sounds its going right now.
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