Member Since: October 28, 2012
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Last Update: October 29, 2012
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About 6 weeks ago, my best guy friend invited me over to his house. He started off giving me a massage and things went farther from there. All he did was finger me. He didn't know, but it was my first time ever being fingered. Due to the fact that he didn't know that it was my first time he went really fast, it didn't hurt though. it actually felt really good. I don't use tampons, i've never had sex, I don't ride horses, and I don't play sports. so why didn't it hurt?
Also, ever since that night things have gotten a little more serious between us, we're not dating but we talk more now and he wants to do it again, my question is if I do do it again and things go even farther and I end up having sex with him will it hurt for me since him fingering me didn't? does sex feel the same as getting fingered? Did your first time having sex hurt? and if it did what EXACTLY did it feel like? I'm asking because I really like this guy and I want to have this connection with him but I am scared of the pain that i've heard comes along with losing your virginity.. (link)
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honestly fingering is alot differnt then acually loseing your virginity ! my first time was inbetween! the first couple minutes was a little painful but not bad. i felt preasure few a couple minutes then after that it felt amazing! i bled a little bit.. but everyone is differnt . if you dont feel ready for it dont do it! loseing your virginity is a big deal !
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i have never used a tampon before and i am just wondering if it hurts? please be honest (link)
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it does not hurt attt all! guarenteed !
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well i got my boyfriend last tuesday and i really really like him. but he has a reputation that i heard about just recently that he's had sex with all of his girlfriends that he's went out with. but im not that kind of girl...and i think he might know that. but he's moving along really slow we dont hold hands, we dont talk that much during lunch like with eachother but we do talk alot in the halls. the only thing that we do is hug and i want him to kiss me. but i think you thinks i wanna move really slow which i dont, so how can i give him some body-language i guess to give him the clue?? (link)
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dont worry about what his reputation is, you will find out.and i used to think it was embarrassing talkin to my boyfriend about feelings and how slow i wanted to go but , talk to him about what you want to do. but if you dont want to talk to him sometimes you do have to make the move! hopefully that works
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