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stuck in my mind
so there is a issue that i'm dealing with right now..
this guy where i'm fwb came over my house last time and when he came over, we got caught by my mom in the act tho.. but my mom was talking to me while he was hiding against me under the sheets. and when my mom left he got very mad at me for not telling him the truth -_- that i wasn't alone but anyways the reason i asked him to come over was because he was complaining about his feelings.. he was saying that he wants to go back to his ex.. who he cheated on with me.. i don't believe him.. but he told me he broke up with her because of me.
but he said before the summer holidays that he was going to break up with her because he was going to study acting (in the same school but different building) and he would get more choice in girls or som.. i first thought it was a joke.. but later i saw on fb it was over between them. so anyways i guess he didn't find any girls and he wants his ex girl back..
and so i wanted him to come over because i was feeling bad for him..and before we even started the whole fwb stuff he knew i liked him and ive told him that.. and he was still coming around. oh yeah and i'm a virgin but i'm not sure if that has anything to do with this.. but he is cool with that he isn't rushing me into anything. but i was texting him i was sorry for my mom etc. and now we haven't spoke to each other for a week..
and i know he is a good guy but he just isn't sure of what he wants i feel and he's 18 btw.
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I think he just needs space right now to decide what he wants. He probably feels that since you didn't tell your mom the truth, maybe you're not very into him.
Asking him to come over will toy with his head, especially when you know he wants to get back with his ex.
Considering that you're only fwb with him, you can't forcibly make him talk to you only. I know you like him more than that but if he's not coming around and wants his ex back, there's not much you can do, especially since after being fwb with you he decided to leave.
Just give him some time and if he doesn't come around, you can probably ask him what's up but if he still denies you, then it might be best to let this one go.
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