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If I was able to proceed with an abortion without parental consent and how
I recently got hit with a big challenge to overcome in my life and that's the problem of having a child. I would love to support a child but I feel I dont want a kid to come into this world without me having the right financial and living situations to support it with. My girlfriend is 16 and has been experiencing high syptoms or pregnancy but it is not for certain and I could be wrong but if so would it be possible if I can go through abortion procedures without parental consent on her side of the family? and if so HOW?!?!?!
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you said you didnt want to have a kid enter the world without having the right financial and living situations to support it with. have you ever considered adoption ? wouldnt you rather the baby be with a family that loves them and take care of them rather then killing them ? i have a friend that chose abortion. she thought it was the right thing to do during the time but now she feels so guilty and can't hardly live with herself anymore i know this is your choice and all but if she is pregnant at least look into adoption its better then killing an innocent little baby.after all its not its fault it was created.
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I know you want only helpful answers here but I think your best option if you don't want the baby is adoption.
She is going to have to tell her parents about all of this, and you should let them handle the rest.
It really depends.. In some states there are places that you do not need a parental consent, but as long as you have a family member over 18 then i think that's good...
You have soo many different options, and i just think that you just jumped o a conclusion of having an abortion, just because you don't think you will be able to support it..
Just remember there are other ways out of this.
Hope I helped,
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Some pregnancy tests can tell as early as 4 days after the unprotected sex, if that's your time period then find one of them. If its been over a week than any should work. Tell her to read the instructions and if one come out positive to take a couple of them.
Regardless of the outcome it's time to be more responsible, let me show you how since your a child who just proved he's not responsible or mature enough to be having sex.
1. Negative. If the tests come back negative next time you have sex your going to use protection. Condoms are easy to use but not all guys like them. Birth controls pills are safer (excluding the side effects, and stds), you can get them for free as a minor from planned parenthood so tell her to make an appointment. If you decide to use condoms and they break or pop go immediately to your nearest pharmacy to get "the morning after pill"
2. Positive. You are way too young, immature, and irresponsible to make a decision on whether to KILL someone or not. I know your scared whether you admit it or not but your going to have to grow a pair and tell your and her parents; let the adults handle it
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So you should first of all but a pregnancy test to be sure that she is actually pregnant before you start freaking out! So if you find out that she is indeed pregnant than yes there are ways you can get an abortion without parental consent. You do have lots of options though, so try not to jump to this conclusion if you don't have to. If you find this is the best decision for you, than google planned parenthood and find one around where you live. On their site it has a list of all of the states and what the age is that you need a parent, I think most states 16 is okay. Than go to planned parenthood and they will make sure she is pregnant and you guys can schedule the actual abortion than. It can be between 200-1000 dollars.
I hope y'all work this out!
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