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I Can't Believe What My Boyfriend Did


Question Posted Thursday November 1 2012, 10:51 am

Simple advice.

I was out with my boyfriend this past friday and felt a bit out of place when a female friend of his interrupted our conversation and basically stared him in the eye for what seemed awkwardly wrong... she then took her finger rubbed his chin and told him that she would talk to him later.

upset i told him to take a walk with me, and after asking 8 times without him even budging, i turned him around towards the door and pushed him outside. When outside, I shoved him several times and made him trip and fall... after that i walked away crying because i couldnt believe he made me feel so out of place.

Im writing because it has been 6 days and he still has not tried to reach out to me. Usually im am the one who takes the initiative to work things out but im tired of being the one to "chase". What should i do?


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Razhie answered Thursday November 1 2012, 11:03 pm:
You shouldn't put your hands on your partner in anger. It's violent, and scary, even if he's bigger and stronger than you.

That, unfortunately, has to be the first thing I say. That's really never okay.

As for what you should do about the relationship, you should probably end it. There isn't nearly enough detail to go on here, and I can't know about your past chasing or his other behaviour, but you sound like you are done. If he's okay with a woman behaving this way towards him - with no explanation given - then he probably feels you are done too.

Make it offical and break up. (If you really want to take the high raid, apologize for shoving him while you are at it.)

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Shewillbeloved answered Thursday November 1 2012, 8:50 pm:
I am a guy and I would never do this to my girlfriend. However it seems you are in a predicament. I am In this situation with my ex, except she has cheated on me. This is nothing short of cheating. You should ditch this guy immediately because I know a guy like this, and he does nothing but hurt innocent girls. He can't decide who he likes, so he goes for everyone. This is called being a player. I really dislike this kind of person. Maybe we should keep talking, I'm lonley too, we could relate to each other. Ps, more info about me I'm thirteen, a male, I'm not a football jock but I love surfing, skiing, (can't stand snowboarding, family accident), and rollerblading. I'm a nice guy and I love to talk. I'm not interested in anything but friendship, which is really what I need right now.

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