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so m 17 n i hve a bf...we love each oder v much..we often go fo mvie.n we do dat lyk wid clothes on...we gt d feelin as if we r havin sex bt actually we r nt hvin it in real ...we both hve our clothes on...he jst mves back n forth as if he z doin sex wid me....wen dat happens der iz a watery discharge frm me..so cn dis mke me pregnant ?

Wow, your ignorance is impressive. At 17, you should have at least a basic understanding of human reproduction. The adults in your life should be ashamed for not giving you this necessary information.

Clearly you have access to the internet, and so your lack of knowledge is that much more inexcusable. Google \"how does pregnancy occur\", or take a look at this link from Planned Parenthood:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/pregnancy/how-pregnancy-happens-4252.htm

You may be 17, but you are a citizen of this world and it is nobody\'s responsibility but your own to EDUCATE YOURSELF. The internet is a fantastic resource to this end.

While you\'re at it, \"how to speak and write properly\" would not be a bad thing to google either.

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Well ive been with this guy for almost 2 years. We broke up about twice so far. The first time i managed to get him back and he told me that he missed me and realized he still loved me. But it was also partly because i gave into him and gave him bj the two times we saw each other while broken up. But its cause i asked him straightforwardly the thirdtime when we were about to do it again. But the three months togwther then was mostly us doing sexual stuff like up to third base and thats it. But we didnt have much time to just bond and talk. Were also a bit long distance seeing eachother only once in a week or two. But this time he broke up with me again giving me a bunch of excuses. His friends even told him that we wouldnt work out which i think possibly influenced his decision. But his friends dont even know me because my parents are strict so i mever got to meet his friends. But well a month of no contact with him then the second the month ended i started talking to him and asking to see each other for closure. But once i saw him it wasnt closure but me asking to get backand being desperate. Then he blew up on me saying we should just let it go now hefore it gets even harder to let go later on and that hes trying to move on. Then i stomped out yelling i just dont get this. Then he texted me a day after explaining that he feels like hes in the relationship for sex. And then from tere we judt argued back and forth because i got hope from that. And on saturday i lashe out on him ecause he asked this girl to prom when he knew i still liked him and i wanted to go to prom with him since junior year. And then he lashed back put on me. And then we argued intensely until thursday. Because on thursday he told me the modt hurtful things like im annoying him that he cribges when e sees my texts and that everything was in the past its over and that he takes back all the hope an consideration he gave me a few days ago when he really thought of possibly geting back together. And that im lucky he hasnt blocked me yet. Well to be honest i feel so hurt but i still want a try but im scared to hear hurtful things. But i want him to be with me again. Idk if i should move on talk to him or what i should even do!!! I honestly want some possible way to slowly get his love for me back again.

You already said you don\'t want this answer, but it\'s the only one. Move on. This guy is over you. You need to accept that as FACT, even though it is hard. He does not KIND OF SOMETIMES want you, he DOES NOT want a relationship.

Even if he DID want it, relationships like this just DON\'T last. I\'m sorry to say it, but it\'s the truth. You guys are incredibly young, and you\'re not the people you will be in a few years, whether you believe that to be true or not. If you are already at odds with one another, it will only get worse over time. He even admitted that he was only in the relationship for sex, why do you still want to be with him?

You need to have the self confidence to realize that you deserve better than that, everyone does. A relationship should never be only about sex, especially when it is not that way for both people. If you truly still love him, let him move on. But more importantly, LOVE YOURSELF enough to let YOU move on. Trust me, you will realize you are better off without that kind of drama.

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So, I am about to have a baby and someone mentioned that there are a bunch of places that will send you baby stuff in your mailbox if you just ask for it? How do you do this? Is there a list of companies that do this, or do you just have to write everyone and hope they send you something? LOL!

The only way that most companies will do this is if there is something in it for them. Think about it: If you were a business person with a product--why would you just give away your product for free?

In almost all cases where this happens, the person receiving the product has agreed to do an honest review of the product in some kind of forum. Usually, this is in a blog or some other kind of web venue. Also, it usually is not the blogger who requests a free product. The marketing department at these companies will seek out blogs with a strong readership that are related to their product, and then approach the blogger with the intention of reaching the blog\'s audience.

The only other instance would be if a charity requests a product donation, but you would then need to ask the charity for help rather than the company themselves.

Some baby supply stores have promotions where if you sign up for a baby registry, they will give you a free product bag. Usually these contain sample sizes of various products that sell well in their stores. Again, though, the store is not necessarily giving these things away for free--they are doing so because you\'ve just signed up to have your friends and family spend a bunch of money at their store!

Good luck, but this is something that I think will be pretty difficult to do. Congrats, though, on your (soon to be) new baby!

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So, I'm a 14 year old girl and I honestly can't cope with the way my parents tell me to live, I feel like I am trapped in my home and I can't do anything!
They have these rules that I cannot go on my iPad/phone until 8pm every night, even at weekends I'm not aloud to use them. They say I'm to antisocial and I need to get out more, I go almost everywhere with them! I do go to town with friends aswell. They won't let me out of my town, I live in Barnstaple, devon and I'm not even aloud to Exeter or Bristol to go on a shopping trip with friends which is only about 2 hours away. Also I'm not aloud to be friends with a few people I know, one of them because there is a rumour going around that her mum is a prostitute and the other one who is my best friend and I still hang out with her secretly because she said something rude on Facebook like 2 years ago! It annoys me how I can't be friends with who I want to be friends with. My parents won't let me go out after school and I always have to be back home at 4pm if I go anywhere, which means I can't go out in the evening or at night and have a laugh :(
They also won't let me use social networks other than Facebook and Twitter, I want to be able to use snapchat, Instagram and tumblr but I'm not aloud to have it on my phone, another thing is that my dad still reads my texts and my messages with friends online!!! I'm 14 and I literally have no privacy! It's really annoying I want to just tell him "no, I won't give you my phone" or just not tell him the lock to my phone but he always makes me! :(
This is really annoying me now how I feel like I am stuck with nothing to do and no privacy at all :(
Anyone know what I could do?

Your parents aren\'t allowing you the freedom you want likely because they still view you as a child. If you want more freedom your best bet is to show them your maturity. Tell them you\'d like some of their time to talk, and let them set a time that works for their schedules. Then let them know that you feel as though they are controlling you in ways that are damaging to your development and that you\'d like to work with them to show you can be trusted with your privacy.

If you just complain about it without showing you can handle it, it won\'t get you very far. The fact is that you are 14, and while not all 14 year olds can handle responsibility, a 14 year old SHOULD be able to be trusted. Try to approach this issue as an adult at a job. Your \"boss\" has you in a position at your \"job\" in which you are not able to take on the responsibilities and tasks that you know you are capable of. Talk to your parents in the same way you would talk to that boss to ask for more responsibilities at work. Acknowledge your parents concerns and show them that you can address those concerns in a satisfactory way.

While it does not matter at all, my opinion is that by controlling every stage of your life as your parents are doing, it subconsciously will give you the message that you belong to them, when that should never be the case. Your parents need to understand that you are not their minion to be controlled, that you are your own person and a future adult who will be required to show responsibility by virtue of being a citizen of this world. By denying you the ability to be responsible for yourself, they will inevitably leave you ill-prepared to handle the real world.

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I have paid a sponsorer to sponsor me 14000$ but no w he doesnt pick the call nor call us.Every penny we gave him was hard earned money this man have cheated us what shall we do with this person if I am from NSW.

I dont have his address just bank details and phone numbers.

I'm not sure how to answer this question, because I'm not sure what sponsoring you're referring to or any details about it. If you want to ask again, please give more details.

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Today I was taking my dog out for a walk and this other dog came out of no where from behind us. My dog turned around and lunged at her and did this teeth snapping thing twice. Eventually the owner came and got their dog while I was pulling to get my dog away from the other dog. I had to pick my dog up and walk away (She's big and heavy.) I just want to know what it means. She snapped twice at the air, and the poor dog that came from behind looked like she was really excited to see my dog.

It was probably a warning bite. If she'd intended to actually bite the dog, she would have. However, she was probably not pleased that this other dog "came out of nowhere" as you say. She was probably just as surprised as you, and even if she otherwise enjoyed the company of other dogs, it can be off-putting to have someone sneak up on you when you are not expecting it. The snapping was her way of saying, 'hey, I'm not going to tolerate this type of meeting. back off.'

Don't feel bad for the other dog. Dogs are social creatures and they learn through these interactions what is and isn't okay in terms of dog culture. If that dog sneaks up on enough other dogs and gets snapped at, he's going to think twice before doing it again.

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Me & my bf been together 3yrs now iys been anabuise one I got beat everyday but my question was how do I know hes gay say my self he is he says his not but he did things that go that way he only look at guys when he would see a guy walkin down the st he would stand like If he was forzen & I guess he would fanitzie about haveing sex with this person & his dick would get hard he wouldnt have sex with me itz been 3months he says I been actin up thats why he wouldnt have sex with me them he says itz him I said no itz not becuZ he stands in one place like hes stupid doesnt talk nothang just stands ther dreamin awake in hes dick gets hard only when he sees guys I know he has messed arpund Idont have proff but he has all the signs help me what u think it is

For one, I think that you are looking at human sexuality in far too binary of a manner. It is not as simple as "dick gets hard to the sight of a man"="I must be gay". Human sexuality is a very complicated and fluid aspect of who we are. You cannot ask your boyfriend to state explicitly that he is "either" gay or straight because truth be told he could have any kind of tendency on the LGBQT spectrum, and still identify himself as "straight".

But more importantly, who cares if he is gay or not?

I'm just saying that your relationship does not sound at all like the type that will last anyway. For starters, there's the fact that you "got beat every day", that right there should be a tip off. But then the fact that you are obviously so suspicious of his every behavior and it sounds like you are quite paranoid about his actions as well.

Those kinds of relationships lack a key factor for success: trust.

You do not trust him to tell you if he is gay, or if he is turned on by men, or the truth of why he will not have sex with you. (Or to not beat you, but that is another topic).

He obviously does not trust you or he would be open and honest about his feelings and would feel that he could confide in you whatever that might be.

My advice, end things now and stop obsessing over the sexual orientation of your boyfriend. You both will be much better off, and perhaps your boyfriend will have the chance to explore his own sexuality and be able to define it FOR HIMSELF. Because that is the ONLY person that he needs to define it for.

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So I'm 15 and I want to be pregnant... I don't know what to do...btw I'm single. For the past couple months I've wanted to have a baby... I need some advice! Please help!!!

I'm not going to throw out all of the logistical issues with having a baby at 15 because I think you already understand that logically it is a bad idea.

The problem is that your body is not thinking logically and your hormones are going to make you have these urges pretty much until you go through menopause. It is just a fact of life and there's nothing you can do to stop it.

I am 23, and I go through those urges too. I have not had children and I don't plan to until I am more stable in life.

Like I said, there's nothing you can do to stop it, but there is something you can do to mitigate it without giving into it (which I think we both know would be a bad plan).

What helped me was my dogs. Having something to care for I think helps to satisfy my nurturing instincts, and it definitely keeps the need to have a baby at bay.

I adopted my older dog (I have 2 now) at 15, so your age. My dad who did not really care since it was MY dog and I paid for her adoption fees and everything, but I don't know what your situation is or if getting a pet is possible for you. I'm not a cat person but I think a cat might have a similar effect for some people if you like them.

If you don't like animals then this is probably bad advice haha but it is what worked for me.

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Hi, can you tell me if there is a service out there that will help you find the perfect puppy match for your family? We want a dog, but we want to be sure it will be a good fit for our family. Thank you!

I have adopted my two dogs from Petfinder.com

It is a fantastic website because every dog listed there is currently homeless and looking for a loving forever family. There are dogs of every breed/mix, every age, every level of training, every energy level. Basically what I'm trying to say is you absolutely can find your perfect dog on that website.

Adopting is definitely the best way to get a new dog. You're saving a life, and opening valuable space in the rescue so that they can save yet another life. The dogs know it too, and they are always very grateful. It is also more economical for your family. A dog from a "reputable" (though I would argue that there is NO breeder that is reputable because we already have too many dogs without homes) will easily cost you $700 for the dog, and an additional $200-$400 in vet care to get them fixed and up to date on shots. Rescues will charge an adoption fee, but you're basically just reimbursing them for the vet care (your dog will usually come up to date on everything, unless they are too young to be spayed which is unlikely), and some the costs of care (food, cleaning, etc.).

Notice I say dog, and not puppy. I reiterate that because I have worked in animal rescue for many years and one of the most common and heartless reasons that people leave their dogs at the shelter or pound is that they "got too big" or simply "weren't cute anymore". It's important to remember that every puppy will grow up, and when you adopt a dog you must understand that you are making a lifelong commitment to a living creature that will depend entirely on you and your family. Make sure you evaluate exactly what your whole family is looking for in a dog, then use the search criteria on Petfinder.com to find your perfect lifelong match.

A lot of rescues now have 1 week or 2 week trial periods, which is fantastic because it ensures that every dog is going to the perfect family for them, and vice versa. If they don't explicitly state that they do trials, just ask! Explain your concerns, that you're looking for the right dog, and ask if for some reason it doesn't work out if you'll be able to bring the dog back and adopt a different dog instead. As long as they understand your reasoning they should be ok with it.

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I am a selfish jerk and a cheat. i have no skill sets to get a job. everybody around me is very judegemental so i cant tell truth about what is going on in my life. i just want to end it. please suggest me ways to kill myself. Dont try to talk me out of it.

Looking at this logically, maybe you should just change the things around you that are making you feel this way instead of trying to force yourself to fit into a life that obviously does not feel compatible to you.

If you are a selfish cheating jerk--stop cheating and being selfish. That seems like the easiest issue to fix.

If everyone around you is judgmental, then get THEM out of YOUR life instead of trying to remove YOURSELF from THEIRS. Move somewhere new, tell them you need space, or outright end friendships and relationships that are toxic and making you feel this way. Who cares what they think, if they believe that spending their time judging others is worthwhile? You may think that you will feel alone after cutting off relationships but it will make you feel relieved, and like you have the space to do whatever you need to do to better yourself and your situation.

Which brings me to my next point, if you have no skills to get a job--go to school! Once the judgmental relationships are no longer consuming you, you will have the mental space you need to focus on school and learn what you need to in order to market yourself in the workplace. If you're concerned about how long it will take, their are a lot of accelerated certification programs around that don't take as long as a typical degree. If cost is an issue, federal student aid is open to almost everybody and is need-based for this very reason--so that financial limitations do not end up becoming life limitations!

I'm not going to say the stereotypical things people usually say to someone who suggests that suicide is a valid option.

I'm not even going to tell you not to do it because ultimately that is your choice.

I'm just trying to make sure you realize that there ARE other options and suicide is probably not the most intelligent one.

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Ok, so I am in my early 20's and plan to start looking for a place of my own soon (3-6 months). My mom is looking for a 1 bedroom apartment because our current place (2 bedroom house) is literally falling apart. Anyways her boyfriend found a place that is in her area of preference and within her budget so she plans on applying to the unit. I support her decision to move into a 1 bedroom because realistically that's all she needs and I'm only home maybe 3 days a week. My dilemma is that I don't have anywhere to move my stuff into. My boyfriends house is super small, and my sister just had a baby so really I have no where to go. The easy thing to do would be pay rent but I am saving for a home which is why I still need a bit more time. I am trying to rent a storage unit at my friends apartment for my furniture, desk etc but where do I go with my stuff? (Clothes, computer, etc?) my other option is to crash on my moms couch when/if she moves but I still don't have space anywhere for my stuff. Basically, I feel like I will be homeless, living out of bags. Even if I moved I to my boyfriends house ( which I do not want to do) there is no space for anything! Not even a couple pairs of jeans! So I really don't know what to do, and I want to come up with a plan before it's too late! Thanks for your help..

Does your mom mind having you for a temporary situation? If not, maybe she'd let you set up a corner in the living room or something with a mattress (maybe an air mattress or something so she could take it down if she had guests) and maybe a small dresser or something if you have one? You'd have a place to sleep and put some clothes and computer stuff could easily go on top of the dresser. If you used an air mattress you could also fold that up and put it behind the dresser so there wouldn't be anything to conspicuous for your mom when you aren't there. You don't say that she's against you staying with her so maybe this could be a good option?

For the rest of your stuff that you won't need until the move, I would recommend either a) shopping around (this is important to get a good price) for a storage unit, or b) sell what you have that is of value, and buy new or used stuff when you move with the cash you made off the old stuff. Craigslist is a great place to list this kind of stuff. Maybe since your mom is downsizing too, she might want to slim down on her stuff or might be looking to buy new stuff too, you guys could have a yard sale or something.

The storage unit will be much much cheaper than rent, and usually if you pay for the 3-6 months up front they will discount the monthly rate (you have to ask though!). If you sell what you can and lighten the load so to speak it will feel much easier to work with just you and the necessities. And when it comes time to move into your own place, it can be really fun to go on those shopping trips either to garage sales, flea markets, or furniture stores to furnish your new place! At least it is for me but I'm a home decorating junkie, haha! If your worried about that costing too much trust me you can get fabulous deals at garage sales (flea markets too but unless you live in a good sized city they can be hard to find), and there's always IKEA!

3-6 months is really not that long and when it's done with it won't feel like hardly any time at all.

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crazy hair day is coming up at my school and I want to do something really amazing or at least amazingly stupid looking. So either crazy amazing or crazy stupid! LOL! Would you all please give me your crazy hair day ideas? I will leave ratings for everybody!

Back in high school spirit week one year we did tacky day.....a lot of people did crazy stuff with their hair too....

Some crimped it...like the whole thing....some put pony tails all around their head. Some spiked it with that wash-out hair color at the tips of the spikes.

I did half my head pin straight and I curled the other half really tight ringlets...It wasn't super crazy but it went with the tacky outfit.

I think the african american students had an advantage on this day because I remember all the guys came in with some really cool styles that you just couldn't pull off with straight hair.

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um hey
im trying to better myselfall round in cheer...
i havent been able to cheer for six weeks due to complications...
ive tried to keep my flexibilty and thats all ok but i really need some help gettin my jumps and stuff back up
ij us wanted to assk yall
what do you do to keep it up (like eg. i stretch everynight) that kinda stuff
=)
any advice that helps up your cheer skills =) thanks vikki!

Generally all of the conditioning exercises you do at practice are good for at home....All that stuff is pretty obvious so I won't go through it all.....

But for jumps I recommend doing this...I can't remember the name of the muscle I think it's like hip flexers or something to that effect....

Sit on the floor with your back straight up and with your legs spread apart as far as you can, try and get it as close to where you would want them to be in a toe touch jump as possible. Then slowly in a controlled motion lift one leg off the ground about 5 inches...do three sets of 12 and move to the other leg. This helps when you're doing your jump for you to be able to whip your leg up as high as you can as fast as you can. And it doesn't just help with toe touches it will also help with right and left herkies.

Sorry if it's confusing it's a little hard to get the point across with text alone. Good luck.

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Recently my dog developed and itch on the upper part of her belly, when she stands up its almost as is she feels something biting her and darts from the spot to get away, i found a couple fleas on her but then gave her a thurough flea bath and she has been getting the over the counter flea and tick killer/treater for the past 4 months, she has little blackish/brown specks on her belly but again i havent found maybe 4 fleas on her and i check her over everytime i get my hands on her, any ideas what this could be, its killing me to see her like this and not be able to do anything. please help!

You need to see a vet. The over the counter medications for fleas and ticks are 9 times out of 10 no where near as strong as the ones you can get from a vet.

That being said the over the counter stuff MAY be working.....BUT it may not be working for your home. Yea killing the fleas on your dog is great but if she goes on her favorite bed or even in a different room of the house she'll be getting more fleas on her. You need to get her out of the house, take her to a groomer and tell them she needs a flea bath. While she's at the groomer get a flea product for your house. I'm not sure what works because I've never had this problem but consult your veterinarian. If you treat your house while she's being treated the problem should go away...

And if you aren't finding any more fleas there is still the possibility that she is having a reaction to it. Your best bet is to see the vet....or at the very least just give them a call and ask what they suggest.

Good luck I hope you can help your dog feel better. :)

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okay so i did gymnastics for 15 years and i stopped the beginning of last summer. so i have barely done any gymnastics for over a year. i want to tumble this fall for a cheerleading team in college but i don't think i'm ready anymore! any ways to train that will be helpful? or any workouts that will help? i'm desperate! thanks

I've done the same thing twice. Start running regularly again, that helps get your endurance back up which is the biggest problem I've had when I start tumbling after a while. Also I like to start stretching really hard before and after I run because I always feel like I'm less flexible...usually I'm not haha it just makes me feel better about it.

Then honestly I would just join a tumbling class at your local gym or gymnastics center....it's really the only way to get back into it you know? Like I can't just be like use this machine and do this workout because it's not like there's such thing as a tuck-half machine, haha. Around me they're about $30-45 for a month and if you're like unsure about something you haven't done in a while they always have coaches there to spot you if you need it.

Hope this helps and good luck.....

But also I just want to say you might not have much luck cheering this fall. Most colleges have their tryouts in spring, so you've probably already missed the opportunity. Contact the coach as soon as possible to find out. Even if you missed this season I would definitely get back into it. It's a great sport and if you start now you'll be really strong and more confident for tryouts in the spring.

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I'm 15 and need personal references for job applications. Everyone tells me to use my teachers, but I'm already out of school and I was never that close to any of my teachers (they all liked me, but I just wasn't close to them). I haven't done any volunteer work or anything like that, and I don't play sports, so no coaches. I don't know any of my neighbors very well, except for the ones who are my friends' families. I have no idea who I could put down. Help?

Another option would be if you have a counselor at your school. Usually even if you're not close with him/her you can use them. Just do them the courtesy of letting them know first so they don't get the phone call and forget which kid you are, haha. Just say something like I'm looking for a part-time job and I need to put down some references...I was wondering if you'd mind if I used your name and a phone number to reach you......

And if they're willing to help you, you could even ask if they had any other ideas as to who to put down.

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So my boyfriend [16] gave me a promise ring that we'll get married one day.
I'm 15, I know that's kind of young to be making a commitment. But he is first person I have ever truly loved. Do you think that's too young to be committing myself for life to someone?

Personally, I absolutely think it's too young. However....my parents got married very young and as a result had a lot of financial problems when I was growing up. They weren't established enough if their individual lives to be able to support a family together. They ended up getting divorced. I know a lot of my friends (18-25) are getting married right now. I think it's ridiculous. Why would you want to tie yourself down to one person for the rest of your life....when you haven't even started your life on your own? Going through the rest of high school and college without being able to date around? For me it's out of the question. I'm 18 right now, and I've been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. I'm already feeling like I'm too committed....and I'm giving serious thought to whether I want to stick with him any longer....solely on the principle of we're young....too young..to be this committed.

Now with that being said....myself at 18 and I feel I'm too young myself....I certainly don't think it's wise decision for you at 15. It's a cute idea, and don't get me wrong...if you decide to stick with him...I wish you two the best and I hope you guys make it. But I highly believe that as you get older you'll have a better idea of all the different sorts of people you'll be exposed to....and who knows...your Mr. Right could be in this ring you have now....or he could be many rings down the line. Either way....when it's right you'll know...and usually you don't know Mr. Right until you've known Mr. Wrong....which is hard with you being so young.

:o)

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My boyfriend and I have an age differences, I really didn't worry about it because I didn't think it was that big until my brother said something.
I was born:
March 20th 1994
He was born:
Oct 31st 1992

No, it seems like a big difference now just because you guys are young. If you stayed together long enough it's really not going to matter at all. When your 92 and hes 94 nobody cares. You're just old at that point.

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okay, i just got accepted to work at bk! and the manager told me to come back next week to fill out paper work. does anybody know what will be on that paper work? like questions? or just info about me...if u know what will be on it reply back! =] thank youu

It's usually not questions. It's most likely just going to be information that's crucial for them to give you a paycheck. Like your address, contact information, social security number and bank information***

For SOME jobs they'll also have a questionaire. For jobs that I've had that have it they called it the "Reid survey" basically it's a giant fill in the bubble test that asks you stupid questions that you'll answer correctly if you have half a mind to know what you should and should not tell your work.
Examples:
How many times per week do you consume alcohol/smoke marijuana before arriving for your designated shift?
Do you feel it would be acceptable for you to, without permission, take $500 from your employer's cash register, even if you planned to replace it the following day?

----Basically if you keep goofing up on these questions it'll send giant red flags to your employer. They're easy to answer but if they require you to fill one of these out make sure you read the questions carefully. Sometimes they word them to try and confuse you.

***If you do not know your social security number by heart, make sure you bring your card, and they may require your card even if you know your number, so to be safe just bring it anyway. They need this to make your paycheck.

Also, if you plan on taking advantage of direct deposit (which I'm fairly certain BK offers to its employees) make sure you bring your checking account information. You'll need your account number as well as your routing number. This is so that on payday, instead of having to pick up your paper check and go to the bank, wait in line, finally get an available teller, and cash your check, blah, blah, blah.....your paycheck will automatically be deposited into your checking account. (for some companies it can even become available up to 24 hours before the paper checks even arrive at your workplace)

I hope this helps and good luck with your new job. :)

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whatever happened with buffy and spike? [in buffy the vampire slayer] ? didn't buffy love spike ... but he died? and how did he die ... if he did. I'mjust really confused lol. I know this i weird, hence the category i put this question in, but yeah. no links please.

First Spike realized that he loved Buffy but he never thought that she could love him back unless he had a soul. So he went off for a couple months getting tortured and what-not to get his soul back. Then he came back to Sunnydale and nobody was convinced that he had really changed and Angel was mad because now he had another vampire with a soul to compete with and Buffy still didn't really want anything to do with him. Then Buffy died and Willow brought her back to life and then in Once More With Feeling (the *hilarious* musical, go see it if you haven't) she admits to Spike that she's pissed that Willow brought her back because she was happy when she was dead. Then they start have a sexual relationship, which furthers Spikes love for Buffy. Then the end of the world comes and the hellmouth is about to bring the end and Angel brings an amulet for "the worthy one" to wear and he like mystically found out that this amulet was the way to save the earth. Then when they go into the hellmouth for this huge final battle which is very very sad (Anya dies) and Spike realizes what the amulet is for that he's the one that was supposed to wear it so he puts it on and holds the collapsing entrance to the hellmouth open long enough for the rest of the gang to get out safely and Buffy is sad and realizes that she loved him too the whole time then Buffy leaves cuz it's about to collapse and the amulet basically emits a gigantic ray of sunlight (which killed all the vampires, including the wearer, Spike)

Then a couple months later on Angel, Angel receives a mysterious package in the mail. He opens it and it's this amulet. Then he puts the amulet on his desk and Spike appears, but he's a ghost and keeps disappearing and stuff and they have to figure out how to make him not a ghost anymore.

And somewhere after the final episode of Buffy the Vampire Slayer they said on Angel that Buffy and Dawn had moved to Europe, or at least were vacationing there I can't remember which.

Hope that helps :)

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