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Okay so I've been dating this guy for 9 months. Its been pretty bumpy && up && down. But, just last week we saw eachother everyday && it was great. Then I got supper busy recently so hes been hanging out with his friends alot, && thats all cool with me but that isnt my problem. He just started playing video games && I cant get him away from them. I've talked to him once in a week I call && text him but i only get short answers and conversations and we bicker alot. It frusrates me so I cant stand to stay on the phone && text(i dont like eithier in the first place) Last time we talked we got in a huge fight. He made me feel unimportant and said some things I think he should regret. But I cant help but think about it. What should i do?? He always goes through these stages until it comes down to breaking up then he changes for a week or two && goes straight back to it. I dont think I really deserve it. But Im lost && confused with what to do. Please help me (link)
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If he keeps acting like this regularly and he hasn't changed, he probably won't ever change no matter how many times you get to the breaking up stage. If its not working between you two you should have a break, just see how you go without each other for a few weeks or months. This will give you time to figure out if you still like him enough to continue the relationship. And it will also show him that you are beimg serious and won't put up with his on and off attitude anymore, and that he may lose you if he doesn't change.
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i seem to be having a hard time letting go of my ex.. he cheated on me with my own cousin... i dont see why i should still love him but i do. I have a boyfriend now but i still think about my ex and my ex still talks to me about everything but once and a while he IMs me and talks to me about sex and how it was so good and stuff.. and hes still dating my cousin.. people tell me to forget about him and that he used me but i really dont think he did.. i think if i slept with him now, it would just be for the sex.. i do like my boyfriend but i always compare him to my ex.. but my boyfriend really is an amazing guy and i feel like i should love him more then my ex but i dont.. i dont know what to do and top it off i had sex with my boyfriend about a week ago and im pretty sure im pregnant and the horrible thing is ..i was crying not because im young and pregnant but because im afraid to tell my ex... that sounds weird and selfish kinda but its true and i dont know what to do anymore.. does anyone no what my next step should be? because im just stuck like what should i do and say now? (link)
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The very first thing you need to do is find out if you are actually pregnant. Because if you are then this is a big responsibility and it also means that you will forever have your boyfriend in your life. As if he's going to be a dad, even if you do split up he will be around regularly for the child. But maybe you aren't planning on keeping the child which is a really big decision that only you can make.
The issue with your ex boyfriend, if you are not interested in making an actual proper relationship is it worth losing your amazing boyfriend? If you did start going out with him would you regret it, as the reason you split up may still be there. Only if you have real feelings for him, not just sex, should you risk it.
But don't forget i you are pregnant and keeping it, then whatever happens between you and your boyfriend, he will always be the dad.
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When you go to the doctor how confident is it???
Meaning if you dont want them to tell your parents something will they keep it between you an them???
Or do they have to tell your parents everything?? (link)
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Doctors have to keep your information confidential. They won't tell anyone of your medical history not even your parents if they ring up asking. If you don't want them to know then they won't. The only exceptions are when you are putting people at risk by not telling, such as continuing to drive even though you can have fits and blackouts.
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okay.. so there is this guy that i have known my whole life.. and my whole life i have had a crush on him. from puppy love in preschool to crushing hard in middle school, ive always liked him.. his parents and my parents grew up together and we have grown up together, but we hardly see eachother because he goes to a diff. school.. i have not stopped thinking about him for over 2 and 1/2 years now.. its just that i couldnt imagine living my life without him. hes amazing! theres a few other things though.. first of all- not only does he go to another school.. im gonna be a soph and hell be a freshmen. my birthday is in may and his is in sept or oct. so its not like hes waay younger.. and all of my friends say that its weird.. except my besties.. but they say "wow. i think you love him." idk! the other thing is- he has a g/f.. i know i know.. that seems really bad.. but the thing is he is e one who always txts me first.. well most of the time. but whenever i try to txt him hell never txt back! and its not like im flirting.. i just want to talk and get to know him. you know- start out as friends.. i have no idea what to do.. im not sure how i feel about him and i really do want to talk to him. one of my bffs that ive known forever and also knows him to says i should just tell him how i feel.. but i really dont want to make it awkward between us or anything.. could you please help me?? if there are anymore questions that i could answer to help you figure out my problem.. i def. open! thanks soo much! (link)
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Well your first problem is that he already has a girlfriend, so starting any kind of 'more than friends' relationship now is not really a good idea at the minute. The best thing to do is just to make the effort to keep being friends with him, so ask to meet up a few times.
Whether you tell him how you feel is a tough one, because if you do tell him and he is not interested in that way then it might not be the same but if you don't and he does like you then you are losing your chance with him. You have to think to yourself do you have such stronger feelings for him, that its worth losing your friendship??
But i personally think you should wait untill he is single before even considering telling him how you feel.
Oh and the whole soph and freshman thing, if it doesn't affect you, him or your relationship, it doesn't really matter.
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How are eyes the windows to the soul.. specifically. What emotions can you detect from eyes? Do they glitter or something when happy? By eye do people mean the lines around the eye and facial expressions overall? I don’t think just by singling an eye out people can tell what people are feeling/thinking.
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The pupils in your eyes get bigger when you are around someone you admire or like been around. While your pupils dilate to have the look of 'beedy little eyes' when your in a negative angry mood.
Also the lines around the eyes can also show personality. Wide eyes with an eyebrow lift is welcoming. There are other eye movements which women use to look more attractive aswell.
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