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boyfriend and ex
i seem to be having a hard time letting go of my ex.. he cheated on me with my own cousin... i dont see why i should still love him but i do. I have a boyfriend now but i still think about my ex and my ex still talks to me about everything but once and a while he IMs me and talks to me about sex and how it was so good and stuff.. and hes still dating my cousin.. people tell me to forget about him and that he used me but i really dont think he did.. i think if i slept with him now, it would just be for the sex.. i do like my boyfriend but i always compare him to my ex.. but my boyfriend really is an amazing guy and i feel like i should love him more then my ex but i dont.. i dont know what to do and top it off i had sex with my boyfriend about a week ago and im pretty sure im pregnant and the horrible thing is ..i was crying not because im young and pregnant but because im afraid to tell my ex... that sounds weird and selfish kinda but its true and i dont know what to do anymore.. does anyone no what my next step should be? because im just stuck like what should i do and say now?
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If you have true love feelings for your ex than you should talk to him about it and see if you can work things out. And if your pregnant I see no reason you would have to tell your ex. Its not his so why should he be concerned. If you and your ex do get back together than you should be able to take care of the baby together even though its not his. He'll understand if he truely love you too. Talk to him and open up. Remind him of all of the time you two shared together. Tell your cousin she was wrong for what she did and remind her that blood is always thicker.....hope everything turns out okay!!
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The very first thing you need to do is find out if you are actually pregnant. Because if you are then this is a big responsibility and it also means that you will forever have your boyfriend in your life. As if he's going to be a dad, even if you do split up he will be around regularly for the child. But maybe you aren't planning on keeping the child which is a really big decision that only you can make.
The issue with your ex boyfriend, if you are not interested in making an actual proper relationship is it worth losing your amazing boyfriend? If you did start going out with him would you regret it, as the reason you split up may still be there. Only if you have real feelings for him, not just sex, should you risk it.
But don't forget i you are pregnant and keeping it, then whatever happens between you and your boyfriend, he will always be the dad.
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