My husband is a wonderful father and partner. Our child is coming up fast to 2 years old and we have another one on the way. I have just turned 20 years old.
The problem is, is that from the instant our son was born, he just got it and well...I didn't, and I still don't.
Is just knowing that I will inevitably get things wrong, but as long as I make sure the children know that whatever I do is done with the best of intentions and that I would do anything for them enough? I'm just scared of seeming second-rate.
Any help is more than appreciated.
Thank you for your time.
Oh Everything will be fine! If your child isn't drawn to you now he will later. Just keep loving him/her and taking care of him/her. There is nothing to worry about. I'm sure your child is just more drawn to your partner because he has been spending more time with the child or that he is just better with his meternal instincs than you are. Your child will come to you. There is nothing to worry about
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f/13
as you guys know , the end of the school year is coming up this week. I will be going to high school.
ANyway... there are these two guys that i like. Sam and Tyler. Tyler has been flirting a lot but has not asked me out. Sam is my friend and he hasn't asked me out either. Oh well. The problem is is that every day on teh bus... Sam sits next seat over and one up so we are diagonal. We will talk a lot intill his friends come on. But when his friend gets on he keeps on looking at me,,,i cant describe it but he looks at me as if he is seeing what i am doing,,, or asking for my approval on what they are talking about.
What should I do?
The school is almost over and I cant stand thinking abotu not seeing them for another 3 months.
If you like him so much admitt to it. Dont keep your feelings locked up because he might like you just as much as you like him. Just be honest with him and make sure ya'll are alone so you aren't embarassed. Be careful and then later on he'll ask you out and maybe even spend the summer with you on dates or something try it!!
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Ok this is kinda weird, but i really need help. so ok im 17 male. ok i lost my virginity when i was 14. i have had sex with only two people. i have been in love with this girl when i was 15 but she really, really hurt me. after that i was never the same, i felt like i couldn't trust and i wanted to date but i also didn't. Im not a sex addict or anything. but now i finally starting letting people in, but yet everytime we go to have sex, i dont' get turned on By ANYONE. its like i lost all interest in sex. is that Normal? whats wrong with me? i feel like i can never have sex..cause im never turned on anymore. can someone PLEASE HELP ME!?
I think your still inlove with your ex and need some closer. Maybe you should talk to her and see if you can work things out. Find out what your problem is before you turn down the one that was meant for you. Its never too late!! Talk to your ex. Tell her your situation and make her talk to you so that you can love again trust me it'll be ok!! Just tell her how you feel and whats been going on!!
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so i have this best friend and he is a guy. we've been friends for around 7 years. over the course of our friendship we have grown closer. and after five years we started liking each other. the thing is its always been him for me. we have a complex relationship and mixed emotions about each other. right now we are on a break, but we both feel a little something. the thing is we've both been hurt by each other so many times we don't know what to do. i was pretty miserable after the relationship ended, but one thing i did realize is that i love him. im f/17, but i don't think he "loves" me. i feel this emotional bond we have and we can basically tell each other everything, but i think he prefers someone prettier, smarter, less complex, more confident. what should i do
Girl if you love him than go with him, but keep your eyes wide open for him. Make sure you know whats going on at all times. He obviously has a problem with being with you. So you and him need to look deep inside each other and find the problem because it sounds to me that you are selling yourself short. You are worth being with him you just have to have the confidence to show it!! Be smart and just go with it and see how everything plays out!! Much Love,
~$%Cam~$%
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Ok my boyfriend and I keep arguing because HE keeps messing up. It feels like I'm the bad person because I'm always getting mad at him. So I tried to keep it in one time because it felt like I was nagging & he found out and told me to always tell him when I'm mad at him. So I do! He messes like every other day & he's said he's not used to having a gf. Well, common sense should tell him certain things he does.
But when he doesn't mess up we're perfect for each other! We laugh & talk & everything! Its greeeat!
I don't know what to do. We've been together a month and I don't know if its a time issue and I have to let him get used to me or what? I'm tired of hearing him say "I'm sorry" all the time. But I love being with him when we're not arguing about his mistakes!
Oh Honey, I feel your pain. He is just trying to hard. I think he wants to be the perfect man for you and every time he tries he is doing the exact opposite. I say if you love him like you say you do then you should give him more time and help him get used to being with you and doing the right thing. Take my advice and things will turn out for the best!! XOXO ~$%Cam~$%
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this little girl i was babysitting fell and she hit her head and there was no sign that she was hurt. and I dont know if i should tell her parents about it or not should i? i need advice!!!
Uhh duh u should tell her parents just because it looks like she wasnt hurt doesnt mean she isnt....she could have a tumor or something she needs to be checked out by her parents......
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Does anyone have any amazing workout techniques that work quickly and very effectively? For the Abs and Thighs? Especially lower abs? Thanks so much, i really appreciate any help that can be offered!
Try doing crunches and running every day and your sure to have beautiful abs and thighs like you need!! Run twice a day for 30 min. each.
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ok so i am with this girl we have been dating for a while now and things are absoloutly amazing i love her so much.... so whats the problem? well ok i am 15 years old ill be 16 on june 22 but my gf is.... 13 and in seventh grade i dont see whats so wrong with that but my dad hates it and no one approves not even my best friend... but i love her so much plese help someone idk what to do.....
I think you should just live your life for you. Its not their desision. Its yours and I say if you love her and she loves you than just go with it and tell you friends and family if they really love you than they will accept and respect your desision....Trust me don't break her heart just because a couple of people don't like her. Atleast give her a chance to meet your friends and family. Work things out and hopefully things will work for the best!!
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so im a 16 m been with my girlfriend for 6 going on 7 years im crazy about her i love her with all my heart but weve been having some probems she makes all the wrongs in my life dissappear she takes my breath away she tells me she loves me but every time she cries i cant help but get upset and bame myself i love her the happiest day of our relatonship was yesterdy i asked her to marry me the other day she said yes we plan to get married after college but the thing is i want more than just love dont get me wrong weve only ever hadsex 4 time which was rcntly about in the last 2 weeks but i want it to be better not just love i want her to need me does that make sense
Yes it does make sense...you love her deeply and i'm sure she loves you the same way. Be happy because i am almost positive that she needs you. The only reason she said yes is because you are probably the greatest thing in her life. Love her and cherish her like you always have and soon your day will come
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okay 16/f, i have this boyfriend, and we've been going out for 7 months and he is very respectful and is in love with me and treats me right, but i've told him i wasn't comfortable going too far, with sex and he understands, but he like expects me to when we've been going out for a year..and i don't want to like dispoint him or make him wait for me, cause i dont know when i'll be ready. He is 100 percent comfortable with me, but i dont know why i'm not 100 comfortable with him, which can be the problem, im also scared to do some sexual things like head or fingering me, and i dont know whyy. so i believe that from my lack of sexuality he watches porn, but i feel like since he does, my expectations of those girls are higher and that im being compared and even if he doesn't see it like that or compare me in any way i feel like it does, but i'm just mental about the whole situation. i don't know what to do to make myself relax or feel more comfortable or do i just have to wait untill im comfortable whenever that will be. and i dont know what to do about my boyfriend because i don't want him to feel like hes gonna get something i'm not sure he will. so please give me advice thanks
If you aren't comfortable with having sex than you shouldn't. Don't let him pressure you into doing it because if he was a good bf than he will understand that you just aren't ready yet. Even if you don't know when you'll be ready just tell him "I don't think I'll be ready for this by the time you want me too. I need you to wait for me a little longer. I love you and if you love me like I love you than you can wait too." Try this and if it doesn't work out than he wasn't your right guy in the first place.
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Ive been having sex recently, and the first time was REALLY sore, as you ALL know and I did bleed a little. My vagina was also a tad bit sore, but the pain went away after sometime, and so did the bleeding. I had sex for the second time and I bled AGAIN, and my vagina is STILL sore! Its been like about 2 hours now.
And Ive been having a discharge, from before I became sexually active. And it doesnt smell to great, should I bee worried, or is it natural???
Thanks.... :D
I think you hit a dirty man.. Maybe you should get checked out so you don't end up with a decease...No it isn't natural
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16, in case anyone thought it was relevant, aha.
My boyfriend and I have sex every time we're together unless I'm in the middle of my period. We'll have sex on like, the last 2 days or so of my period but only because I bleed barely any. But anyways, I've been on the pill for almost 2 years now and I take it everyday but sometimes later than others. I know that may not effect it much but my boyfriend doesn't pull out majority of the time.
For the past week or so I've been getting cramps but they only last a minutes or two if not a few seconds. I've been feeling nauseous, mainly after I eat. I can't stand for long periods of time or else I feel sick and my stomach aches. I'm not really taking my headaches or my getting lightheaded into consideration because it happens all the time. But I haven't been as hungry lately, or I'll feel super hungry but once the food is laid out in front of me I'll feel sick.
I'm supposed to get my period in 2 weeks but I'm still worried because I'd been pregnant once before but had a miscarriage, 3 months in, in December during Christmas Break.
Chances are your not pregnant because you've been on the pill and wait for your period..it'll be ok. My advice is to have sex less often maybe twice a week could be good, but not as much....cause you really wouldn't want a baby to ruin your future goals so be safe with a condom all the time....sometime the pill doesn't always work!!! just to let you know. Take percautions
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13/f
this might be in the wrong category, but 4give me if it is.
so i had my first period like a month ago or something like that. and i know, your supposed to get a period every month. but itsz like 30-40 days now and i still didnt get it. well ive been feeling rather horny after mii first period and started to masturbate like everyday. but nothing else. is my period just irregular or could it be something else? any advice would be very much appreciated. thankx!
Honey your young. Your period will jump around as long as you didn't have sex than your period will come some time. Its nothing to worry about. You can't miss your period by masturbation.....Dont worry it'll come
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I had a boyfriend and he ment alot to me, more than any other guy I've dated. I have a friend whose a guy and me and him are close friends and he had a friend over. To make a long story short I made out with the friend. My boyfriend was drunk one night, and that's when it slipped that we kissed. I lied and said he got on top of me and kissed me. He totally freaked but we stayed together for a month after. We just recently broke up because he just sort of stopped caring, and was obsessed with doing other things. It changed, and we broke up. I'm really upset now, and my friend talked to him, and he said he still wasn't over me, but he doesn't know if it's best to date again later on. And he refuses to talk to me, but he told my friend he would when he thinks he's grown up enough? But anyway I want him bad very bad, how do I get him back? I apologized a trillion times for the kid I cheated with, and he said that's the reason he stopped caring so much, and he told my friend maybe she'll learn from it and won't do with her next boyfriend.
My best advise is to never give up. If he isn't over you than there is a chance you can get him alone and force him to talk to you about the issue. You can never lie in relationships cause they will just screw everything up. If he's not gonna talk to you then some time in your life your gonna have to move on.
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Okay, so i am a year younger than my bf and his/my friends never EVER leave us alnoe about it and my bff (who is in a few classes w/ him) says that when ever sum one says my name, he makes a face and it's not a good one, and i have even seen him make th face, i was standing RIGHT THERE talking to him when my other bff came up and said kiss her. And he made a face that made me want to cry, i called my ex bf and he said that he's either cheating, or just doesn't care about me, or doesn't for real like me and then i had my guy bffs Kris call him (while i was on the line) and he said that he did fro real like me, but he NEVER calls me and NEVER calls me back, i no that he's busy but idk what's going on w/ him. :( i raelly like him, but he killing me from the inside out. Plz Help!
Honey never call your ex for help with your new bf. Its not a good thing becaue they could lie to you and make it seem like he is a bad guy. I can see your confusion. But your ex is right. He isn't the right one for you. You may have deep feelings for him, but it doesn't change the fact that he doesn't feel the same way. I think you should dump him and move on with your life because if he can't simply kiss you infront of your friends then its a sign that he is interested in some one else other than you. I know its gonna be difficult, but trust me one day you'll find the right one and life will be grand for you. Just do whats best for you!!
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i seem to be having a hard time letting go of my ex.. he cheated on me with my own cousin... i dont see why i should still love him but i do. I have a boyfriend now but i still think about my ex and my ex still talks to me about everything but once and a while he IMs me and talks to me about sex and how it was so good and stuff.. and hes still dating my cousin.. people tell me to forget about him and that he used me but i really dont think he did.. i think if i slept with him now, it would just be for the sex.. i do like my boyfriend but i always compare him to my ex.. but my boyfriend really is an amazing guy and i feel like i should love him more then my ex but i dont.. i dont know what to do and top it off i had sex with my boyfriend about a week ago and im pretty sure im pregnant and the horrible thing is ..i was crying not because im young and pregnant but because im afraid to tell my ex... that sounds weird and selfish kinda but its true and i dont know what to do anymore.. does anyone no what my next step should be? because im just stuck like what should i do and say now?
If you have true love feelings for your ex than you should talk to him about it and see if you can work things out. And if your pregnant I see no reason you would have to tell your ex. Its not his so why should he be concerned. If you and your ex do get back together than you should be able to take care of the baby together even though its not his. He'll understand if he truely love you too. Talk to him and open up. Remind him of all of the time you two shared together. Tell your cousin she was wrong for what she did and remind her that blood is always thicker.....hope everything turns out okay!!
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