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Hey my name is Brigit im 16 years old i love being on my phone cause i have mobile internet everywhere i go with my boyfriend friends anywhere this phone is with me dude lol im hispanic born an raised in houston texas im in the tenth grade going to 11th grade any questions holla at me an please answer mine
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Age: 16
Member Since: June 1, 2008
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Last Update: October 15, 2008
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15/f

So here it goes, I am going out with this kid and He smokes Weed and Ciggarettes, I dont like that he smokes but when I look into his eyes I forget about it all, I know I love him with all my heart, but hes hurting himself bad with the smoking. He tells mehe loves me everyday. We have already broken uponce because he doesnt wanna get me into the drugs and ruine my life, but less then a week later we were both depressed and didnt know what to do other then go out again, we were both miserable without eachother! He said hes gonna try to stop smoking, but hes not going to, I can tell. Like I said I love him and he loves me. Im not sure what to do. I cant break up with him I just cant do it, I cant hurt him or myself that bad! What am I gonna do???!!!! (link)
wow how weird I know excactly excactly what your going through..wow..lol
Well I'm still with him I made him stop though when we first went out which was 8 mths ago he smoked weed and cigarettes and I would also look into my baby's eyes and forgive him..although he has never broken up with me and I have with him for those excact reasons alot..smoking weed.it would hurt me so much girl.then he changed and started to love me and thats where I made the mistake of treating him bad when he treated me right..and now he hurts me.I'm telling you girl honestly leave now I'm depressed already an he makes me more sad.he changed ALOT.I know it will hurt him an you if you leave but girl trust me if you stay ill guarantee something of my experience will happen to you..keep in touch k message me here
Good luck


i just started highschool, and there is this guy who i liked. I ended up finding out that he liked me too because he told my best friend. He later on then asked me out, which i regret because everything was moving way too fast. Especially because we didn't really know each other. A week after we'd been going out, my friend started geting too involved in my boyfriend and i's relationship...example...She felt it necessary to read every note he wrote to me, and the ones i wrote him. I told her not to read everynote because honestly, she didn't need to do that.....this relationship was not built on 3 people....just two, me and him. i told her she could read the notes only if i was to say, "hey, look at this" not her always demanding to read. my boyfriend and I don't have any classes together accept one. We don't see each other much in classes, plus we can't hang out because he's not old enough to hang out till he's 16 + he has strict parents. Anyway, my best friend was flirting with my boyfriend before me and my boyfriend were going out, and i told her not to do it. She denied flirting with him and trying to take him away from me, and she promised to watch herself. After my boyfriend and I started going out, my other group of friends started noticing that my best friend was flirting with him, so they told me. I confronted my boyfriend about it, and he said he thought she liked him but not to worry because he liked me. Then I confronted my friend about it, she got pissed at me, and then i looked like the bad person. My friends who told me were on her side now, and I felt like I had done something wrong. After all this, everything was fixed, and now my boyfriend and I are still going, but i feel this distance between my boyfriend and I. I feel like we just don't seem right together. And a part of me thinks he likes my best friend because everytime we are all three together, he talks to her more than me, and when we leave the one class we have together, and my bestfriend is leaving, he goes and leaves with her when i'm still trying to get my books into my bag or whatever....and it bugs me because he is supposed to be waiting for me. Even when he's saying something, he will be making more eye contact with her than me. I'm so sure he likes her. And i feel like she is a fucking back stabber because she has let everything go as far as it has. If i can feel and see it, I bet that if i can feel all this, they can see it too, and its so obvious.....I'm so confused with everything that I'm wondering what you guys think is really going on with him or her even me...i don't know if i'm maybe going too overboard...anyways.... thank you for replying!:) (link)
She sounds like a bitch ass lil backstabber..don't you hate girls like that..well it does seem like she's interested in him and him in her its happened to me my cousin hooked me up with a guy an she talked to him on the phone more than me I was soo sad and they were 2gether for 11 months until he broke up with her..I never talked to her again.just kno this that girl is not worthy to be your friend girl an that guy your man...so break it off he will hurt you more than you already are..relationships should not feel like that


My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday, and I pulled out instead of using a condom (we didn't have one.) The next day she said her stomach hurt, like cramps or a general stomach ache. Either way, I think she is just freaking out, and I'm doing everything to keep her mind off of it and make her happy, but for my own sanity, what should I do, and should I worry about anything? I was basically sure everything would be fine, but with a freaking out girlfriend, I just need some clarity. Thankkkk youuu (link)
Wow i cant believe you guys took that risk..im a virgin 16/f i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i dont really want to lose my virginity to just some guy..lol anyways but even though you pull out before it comes out while your having sex some kum still comes out while your having sex..i know this..an just that little bit can go into her thingy haha and yeah..you should know hope i helped you to use a condom dude!:)


Im having a hard time finding pictures of bangs for my new haircut.

Right now I have kind of long auburn hair with some layers

I want it to be atleast 3 inches shorter (to my arm pit) with side bangs.

Pictures would be great! All I really need is bang pictures, not nessacarily of the hairstyle.

Thanks so much! (link)
Man dude i have bangs but i keep trying to post my picture an it wont go!lol


My boyfriend and I are thinking we may need to break up, but we want to stay friends...*if* we break up, I'm afraid it may not work out with friendship, but he says he'll be my friend no matter what...I want to be friends with him too, but I don't know how I'll be able to deal...any advice? Thanks! (link)
Sounds like you still like him?? What cant you deal with..are you afraid hes gonna end up with another girl or your not gonna be able to not kiss him anymore..girl be more detailed lol..but seriously let me know if you still have feelings


Me=f/16
him=m/17

we've been dating for almost a year but we dont have sex. We do everything but sex. When we are laying in bed he does alot more to me than i do to him i will maybe rub his belly, play with his hair, kiss him, play with his Penis, give him blojobs and handjobs but not every day its rare or when im feeling like being nice.
I dont do much for him and he does alot for me and i feel bad is there anything i can do to make any of them things better for him and what else can i do to him that he will love!
we are thinking about having sex soon so i also need maybe something that might turn him on enough for us to do it and make it the most amazing time ever!

please help!! (link)
Im sixteen to an my boyfriend is seventeen too.but i wouldn recommend you to have sex if something ever happens your gonna end up getting heart broken an your gonna regret that you had sex hes gonna feel good cause he got to hit that so please think about it girl.cause ma cousin vanessa is heart broken you should see the question she wrote its on my questions an youll see why ..seriously read it k good luck


Theres this guy at work that I really like but I'm kind of shy and don't really know how to get a conversation going with him, and plus, I don't know for sure that he is single. Does anyone know a subtle way to find out if he is seeing anyone? (link)
Ask your co workers or be like straight up an tell him!!! have guts dude lol


To start off, I would consider myself to be generally fair skinned. I have light hair, green eyes, and faint freckles. Last summer my skin actually started tanning when in the sun, instead of burning, so since then, I have been able to tan lightly. But my problem is my legs. No matter how long I sit in the sun, my legs never change colors. And if they do, it's barely, and the tan usually disappears after I shave anyways. I occasionally use self tanner, but during the summer it just becomes a hassle to have to reapply reaplly reaplly; and id rather not visit a tanning salon just because it seems like a waste of money. So I was wondering if there were any suggestions as to how to get my legs to tan, and stay tan... (link)
Well first off I wouldn't reccomend tanning if you have freckles I heard that they get larger or more noticeable because I used 2 go tanning and they were so noticeable 4reaaall lol but yea try tanning oils but don't exagerrate being in the sun to much or you'll burn.. like back then people didn't know that if u put baby oil an went outside they increased there chances of being exposed to uv rays..alright girl


17/m How do I get rid of stretch marks? I have the on my biceps and the outside of my chest, and some on my stomach. I have nop idea how to get rid of them...can i get a little help here haha (link)
Hey sup well uhmm there is aloooot of shit you can get 4 stretch marks.like lotions just go in any lotion aisle an you'll see plenty of products like palmers cocoa butter etc etc


Im not extremly thin, nor am I as thin as I want to be, but latly a lot of people around me have been saying things about how I need to eat more and my mom and sister keep brining up that they think I am anorexic. I do not think I am anorexic Im about 5'6" an weigh about 125 and I want to weigh about 110. But they keep complaining because when we go out to grab a fast lunch say we go to subway I only eat about half of a 6in sub and that is all I eat until dinner, but I really do not think I am anorexic plus people keep saying to me that I am working out to much, I run 2 miles in the morning and go to the gym after work for about an hour to an hour and a half is there anything wrong with being fit? I guess what I am asking is honestly do I sound anorexic? and how can I get people to stop saying things about them thinking I have an eating disorder because I dont? Sorry its kind of long. (link)
Some people are very unsure of themselves therefore try to make other people feel as they do. As soon as I finished reading your question the first thing that came to my head was people are jelous of you. I my self am 5'7 and I weight 145 and I feel fat. My sister is 5'6 and weights 110 and she feels skinny. To me you sound like the perfect weight. So if you feel good about yourself let the world go round. Take care. Good luck.


A boy in my class who I have never really talked to named doug had asked me to jr. prom and I said sure because he is a cute kid and I felt bad. His friend Peter took one of my friends. Jr. Prom is over and I've been talking to Peter a lot. He has kind of hinted that he likes me and asked me to go with him to his friends bbq. I said sure because a lot of my friends were going. But when we went he kind of kept me away from everyone the whole time and kept making hints like "we are more than friends.." and it was weird. Luckily Doug and his friend Norm noticed I was not interested and saved me but man it was weird. Now Peter has been telling people he likes me and I dont know whether to give him a second chance or how to get rid of him without ruining my relationship with his friends. A little help? (link)
Be like damn I don't wanna be mean but I'm not interested like that ya know an plus his friends will probably say fool she doesn't like u lol do it


16/f

This probably sounds quite silly but heres the situation: I've already got one big group of friends that I hang with on weekends and in the summer and in some of my classes and all that. But theres this other group of kids that I would really like to like be a part of. I'm really good friends with some of the girls in it, like I've been friends with them since elementary school- in fact, we were best friends in elementary school. They're a totally different "style" if you understand what I'm saying. Like my current social group is like this random, really eclectic mix of kids who just want to be silly and have fun, and this one is more artsy, musical, intelligent, and creative. I would really fit into this group and would really like to be a part.

Well the problem is, I hang out with the second group all the time at school, but I never get invited when they hang out outside of school. I know they hang out all the time because they all put pictures on facebook and talk about it and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I get in sometimes, when its like a huge group that encompasses like "everybody", but when its like the core of the group I'm not in it. I'm not sure I'm explaining it well... It's not like they're selective, I'm just not in their little social circle. I try to plan events and invite the people that I do know well and encourage them to bring others, but I suspect they think I don't know them that well, but I do, becuase im in the school band with them, where everybody knows everybody well. So basicly my question is, how can I become like a "regular" in their social circle?

oh, and don't get me wrong- I'm not trying to leave my current friends- I'm just trying to make some new friends because I'm attracted to their style, their political/activist oppinions, and frankly, their more intuectual behavior. and also, as as with most 16-yr girls' actions, there is a boy involved... who i would definately like to get to know better! (link)
Hey girl dis jennifer 16yrs 2 ha but umm just be like hey what yall gonna do this day or later you know an say how mean I'm not invited an get more closer to all the people who mainly hang out 2gether an talk 2 the guy haha


i really like this guy. on thursday, my teacher said that if these two girls bring in baked goods on friday, she'll make this writing assignment thing due on monday. i missed class on friday, and i didn't know whether the two girls brought in the baked goods or not. so i facebook messaged my crush:

me: hey, did we end up handing in our writing assignment on friday?
him: nah it's due monday
me: oh okay thanks. i just wanted to know if i should email it to her or not
him: you're welcome

i need to know if it would be awkward and / or obvious if i continued the thread, saying, "ooh so did ____ & ____ (the two girls) bring in the baked goods for class?

PROS IF I CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- i can perhaps talk to him more and become friends with him, especially since the school year will be ending soon

CONS IF I CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- i'll risk that he'll think i like him

PROS IF I DON'T CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- i don't risk that he'll find out i like him

CONS IF I DON'T CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- it's going to be really hard for me to try to facebook him in even a couple weeks because it'll seem even more obvious that i'm trying to rejuvenate a dead thread

please help me! i know i'm over-analyzing this but it would suck if i made it TOO obvious that i like him. he's a few social classes above me and i don't know if i'd ever be able to hang out with him aloneee... (link)
Keep talkin to him but dude don't ask the question if they bought the baked goods obviously I mean its due friday lol well if u like him as you say like talk normal an just be like so what are you makin in ____ class plus if it doesn't work out it'll be summer soon


i have been with my two babys dad for 6 yrs and gone threw so much with him. he is abusive at times and i have left him so many times. i have found someone new that i like and wana be with. i work with him, i dont know how to tell my kids dad that i dont wont him anymore and how to leave him please give me some advice (link)
tell him that yall relationship has been rocky for a while now an that you started getting unattracted to it the way he was aggressive an that you met some1 at work an u felt something an that your sorry but you don't wanna keep being in a relationship where its leading no where.but seriously that sucks 4 him but its good 4 you alright good luck
Jennifer




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