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I Love him but he smokes too much!
15/f
So here it goes, I am going out with this kid and He smokes Weed and Ciggarettes, I dont like that he smokes but when I look into his eyes I forget about it all, I know I love him with all my heart, but hes hurting himself bad with the smoking. He tells mehe loves me everyday. We have already broken uponce because he doesnt wanna get me into the drugs and ruine my life, but less then a week later we were both depressed and didnt know what to do other then go out again, we were both miserable without eachother! He said hes gonna try to stop smoking, but hes not going to, I can tell. Like I said I love him and he loves me. Im not sure what to do. I cant break up with him I just cant do it, I cant hurt him or myself that bad! What am I gonna do???!!!!
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just don't start doing it no matter how much he does, and always be there for him and help him with his problem.
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wow how weird I know excactly excactly what your going through..wow..lol
Well I'm still with him I made him stop though when we first went out which was 8 mths ago he smoked weed and cigarettes and I would also look into my baby's eyes and forgive him..although he has never broken up with me and I have with him for those excact reasons alot..smoking weed.it would hurt me so much girl.then he changed and started to love me and thats where I made the mistake of treating him bad when he treated me right..and now he hurts me.I'm telling you girl honestly leave now I'm depressed already an he makes me more sad.he changed ALOT.I know it will hurt him an you if you leave but girl trust me if you stay ill guarantee something of my experience will happen to you..keep in touch k message me here
Good luck
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Theres no easy way to say this but either way your hurting yourself and him whether your together or not. Apart ya'll are "miserable", together your still miserable because you want him to stop smoking, and he's miserable also because basically he's killing his self. If you dont break up with each other then you have to make the move, sit him down tell him how you feel, tell hime all of these things running through your head about you both, tell him or should I say remind him of what he's doing to himself, and that if your both together or not, he could lose you if he continues to smoke that crap, because its basically a life threatening situation. Stand up, and remind him of this if you truly love him, and want to make it work, and tell him to do the same. Good Luck
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you should stop him from doing it when hes actually about to that way he knows your serious i had a bf like that too and were still going out the and he quit smoking weed and all for me you just have to take it away when there about to do it and even if they get mad or sad or watever you still do it and then you just sit down with that person and tell them what you feel and then im sure with a little help of friends and family and you he will be fine good luck:)
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