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CRUSH HELP
i really like this guy. on thursday, my teacher said that if these two girls bring in baked goods on friday, she'll make this writing assignment thing due on monday. i missed class on friday, and i didn't know whether the two girls brought in the baked goods or not. so i facebook messaged my crush:
me: hey, did we end up handing in our writing assignment on friday?
him: nah it's due monday
me: oh okay thanks. i just wanted to know if i should email it to her or not
him: you're welcome
i need to know if it would be awkward and / or obvious if i continued the thread, saying, "ooh so did ____ & ____ (the two girls) bring in the baked goods for class?
PROS IF I CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- i can perhaps talk to him more and become friends with him, especially since the school year will be ending soon
CONS IF I CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- i'll risk that he'll think i like him
PROS IF I DON'T CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- i don't risk that he'll find out i like him
CONS IF I DON'T CONTINUE THE THREAD:
- it's going to be really hard for me to try to facebook him in even a couple weeks because it'll seem even more obvious that i'm trying to rejuvenate a dead thread
please help me! i know i'm over-analyzing this but it would suck if i made it TOO obvious that i like him. he's a few social classes above me and i don't know if i'd ever be able to hang out with him aloneee...
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If he never finds out you like him, then nothings ever going to happen.
Let me tell you, like 3 years ago, I had a crush on some guy, I never told him and he moved. And he moved back a few months ago and I saw him at a party and I told him that I used to have a crush on him. He said haha, that's funny. But later on I found out that he had told his friends and my friends that he wished he had known 3 years ago that I had a crush on him, because he had had a crush on me too.
The point is, you never know what he might think of you until you find out for yourself. So continue the thread. You never know where it might lead. :)
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Who cares if you like him and he finds out?! As you said, the year si coming to an end, so do the things that you've always wanted! Be risky and try all sorts of things, it could be your last chance!
The fact that he replied to your email shows that he is a kind person and is willing to be friends, so continue the thread. Talk about school, hobbies and everything else... This is NOT obvious that you like him because everyone wants to make friends and how are you suppose to start a new friendship if the two people don't talk, or if one of the two don't come out of their shell and talk to the other?! And once you've probably spoken to him for about a month, continuously, ask him if you could meet up with him, just for fun. Say it is because you feel you're friends with him and it would be fun to hang out together. Say 'hang out' because that sounds cool and laid back, not too excited or too desperate for a meeting.
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Keep talkin to him but dude don't ask the question if they bought the baked goods obviously I mean its due friday lol well if u like him as you say like talk normal an just be like so what are you makin in ____ class plus if it doesn't work out it'll be summer soon
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