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sex/stomach ache
My girlfriend and I had sex for the first time yesterday, and I pulled out instead of using a condom (we didn't have one.) The next day she said her stomach hurt, like cramps or a general stomach ache. Either way, I think she is just freaking out, and I'm doing everything to keep her mind off of it and make her happy, but for my own sanity, what should I do, and should I worry about anything? I was basically sure everything would be fine, but with a freaking out girlfriend, I just need some clarity. Thankkkk youuu
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well you always need to use a condom because that method is bullshit. she could have gotten pregnant
the good news is that it is very common to feel a pain in your stomache for the first few days. she is probably not pregnant because girls dont usually feel the signs for a week or two
i hope this put your mind at ease!
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The bad thing about the pull out method is that there is a chance that your pre-cum had gotten her preg. also your cum could have some how gotten into her vigina becaue sperm can live for up to 24 hours and they like warm damp places(vigina).
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i honestly would go to a local planned parenthood and get the morning after pill, or if either of you are 18 and have $50 then go get it at walmart or something if planned parenthood isnt available to you.
it's quite normal to feel cramping and such stomach pains afterwards.
from now on use a condom though i know 3 people who have "mysteriously" gotten pregnant, from the pull out method.
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Based on the fact that you thought pulling out was an effective method of birth control, I'll make a personal rule of thumb just for you;
100 percent of the time you have sex the girl will become pregnant.
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Lets me honest- you're an idiot to believe that pulling out is "safe"
there's precum
& simply not realizing you're cumming.
anyways.
she COULD have gotten pregnate.
so you both SHOULD be freaking out.
be safe.
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Wow i cant believe you guys took that risk..im a virgin 16/f i want to have sex with my boyfriend but i dont really want to lose my virginity to just some guy..lol anyways but even though you pull out before it comes out while your having sex some kum still comes out while your having sex..i know this..an just that little bit can go into her thingy haha and yeah..you should know hope i helped you to use a condom dude!:)
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for right now... it is all just in her head. she is probably freaking out because she knows that something serious bad can happen because you were unprotected. just watch for symptoms of pregnancy and be sure that if she's late... take a test, right away! and next time... USE PROTECTION!
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You had unprotected sex hun, every thing is not fine.
She probably isn't pregnant, but there is a slim chance that she is, no matter how perfectly you excuated your 'pull-out'. That approach is not effective birth control. Different studies have said it fails anywhere from every 1 in 4 or 1 in 5 times. Those are SCARRY odds. She would be brain dead if she wasn't a bit frightened.
You can remind her that having sex put a whole different kind of pressure on her insides then she has experience before, but the simple truth is that she will not truly calm down until her next period comes.
Her justifiable unhappiness and fear should be taken as a clear lesson to you both that unprotected sex is not worth the fear and misery it can cause (not to mention the other possible consequences!)
If you don't have condoms, don't have sex. That should be perfectly clear to you both now.
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